Become a Professional Pickup Artist and Coach in 5 “Easy” Steps!

If you’re reading this, chances are you told one of ABCs of Attraction crew that you want to be a part of the team. You want that dream job that will finally allow you to escape your humdrum, dreary life: becoming … Continue reading

How to NOT Look Like a Random Creepy Guy

The point of passive value is to show that your default (non-creepy) personality is attractive to a woman and, since we all know that confidence is the most attractive quality about a man, our job is to show that we’re confident in every method that we can. Who’s more confident: the guy threatening to pound on some dude, or the one smiling, telling him to relax? Who’s more confident: the guy with a frown on his face, alone at the bar, or the guy with a smile, chatting with his buddy? Exactly. Continue reading Continue reading

Freedom from Fear and Approach Anxiety

One of the essential and intrinsic rights of a Man is the freedom from fear and approach anxiety. We should never let society or our own destructive impulses keep us from achieving our life goals, whether it’s with women or fulfilling our destiny. Don’t let fear hold you back. Continue reading Continue reading

What is the F Phase? Future (Fun! or FAKE?!)

Fun or Fake reminds us that, though we possess a particular skill, it is how that skill fits into our life that decides whether we truly succeed at it or not. It questions our intentions and our focuses and, last but not least, reminds us that this whole process should be fun! Sure, it’s tough in the beginning. Learning anything new is always difficult at some point, but once we start truly succeeding, the world is our oyster. Continue reading Continue reading

What is the E Phase? Evaluate, Extract & Escalate!

If the D-Phase was where the boys were separated from the MEN, then the E-Phase is where the WANNABES are separated from the PROS. Up till now, a guy could run through a lot of FLASH GAME and be considered “impressive”, or at least enough to fool you into think he was good. Here in the E-Phase, keeping cool under fire, planning out his logistics, and understanding sex from a WOMAN’S perspective is where you if he’s the REAL DEAL or not. There are guys who “get lucky” and then there are real men who MAKE their luck. Continue reading Continue reading

What is the D Phase? Dominant, Direct Intent, & Disqualify!

In the D Phase of the ABCDEF structure, we break down the fourth act of seduction into three main components: Dominant, Direct Intent, & Disqualify. Being a good conversationalist is simply not enough. If you are not already in her “blueprint”, then you may not be automatically placed in her sexual dating pool. You want to be attractive AND arouse her in order for her to see you as a potential lover. You accomplish this by activating one of her many Sexual Arousal Triggers. However, you still need to Disqualify because when a woman feels as though she’s getting too turned on (almost irrationally so), her body will warn her that someone is doing this to her and that she needs to be on her guard. Continue reading Continue reading

What is the C Phase? Compliance, Comfort & Connect!

If you’ve followed all these steps, you’ve gotten her emotional and made her feel comfortable with you, while building attraction through to an actual connection. At this point, you’re ready to show her you’re sexually interested in her (because you didn’t know until you built that connection, right?) and proceed to D Phase, the subject of the next article! Continue reading Continue reading

What is the B Phase? Be In The Moment, Banter & Buying Temperature

With so many routine-based methodologies and a wealth of things to say on PUA forums across the world, we sometimes forget that we are simply having a conversation (albeit, a purposeful conversation), which is why it is so important to make a conscious effort to pay attention to what is going on in the interaction, but most importantly to HAVE FUN WITH HER! Continue reading Continue reading