Hey guys, my name is Sarah Ann and I have a confession to make before I tell you how Asian [...]
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What is the F Phase? Future (Fun! or FAKE?!)
Fun or Fake reminds us that, though we possess a particular skill, it is how that skill fits into our life that decides whether we truly succeed at it or not. It questions our intentions and our focuses and, last but not least, reminds us that this whole process should be fun! Sure, it’s tough in the beginning. Learning anything new is always difficult at some point, but once we start truly succeeding, the world is our oyster.
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What is the E Phase? Evaluate, Extract & Escalate!
If the D-Phase was where the boys were separated from the MEN, then the E-Phase is where the WANNABES are separated from the PROS. Up till now, a guy could run through a lot of FLASH GAME and be considered “impressive”, or at least enough to fool you into think he was good. Here in the E-Phase, keeping cool under fire, planning out his logistics, and understanding sex from a WOMAN’S perspective is where you if he’s the REAL DEAL or not. There are guys who “get lucky” and then there are real men who MAKE their luck.
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What is the D Phase? Dominant, Direct Intent, & Disqualify!
In the D Phase of the ABCDEF structure, we break down the fourth act of seduction into three main components: Dominant, Direct Intent, & Disqualify. Being a good conversationalist is simply not enough. If you are not already in her “blueprint”, then you may not be automatically placed in her sexual dating pool. You want to be attractive AND arouse her in order for her to see you as a potential lover. You accomplish this by activating one of her many Sexual Arousal Triggers. However, you still need to Disqualify because when a woman feels as though she’s getting too turned on (almost irrationally so), her body will warn her that someone is doing this to her and that she needs to be on her guard.
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Anti-Slut Defense (ASD): How Society Drives Women Batshit Crazy About Sex, Part 1
Hi guys! Sarah Ann, wing-girl for the ABCs of Attraction here to talk to you about a little thing called [...]
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AMOGs for Dummies: B.I.T. Boyfriend Destroyer Tactics, Part 2
[CLARIFICATION: There's some confusion as to the point of these articles. The point is not to seek confrontation, that's called [...]
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AMOGs for Dummies: Types, Part 1 (Or Rick Yune the Stealthy Ninja PUA!)
[CLARIFICATION: There's some confusion as to the point of these articles. The point is not to seek confrontation, that's called [...]
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Bruce Lee’s Top 7 Dating Tips to Getting Your Romantic Life in Shape
As a kid you had his posters on your wall (I’m not ashamed to admit that I did!), maybe you [...]
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The Racist Bullying Crisis: Why 54% of Asian American Children Are Targeted by Bullies
Hey guys, it’s JT Tran, your friendly neighborhood Asian Playboy, with a more serious article today on a topic that [...]
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How to NOT Look Like a Random Creepy Guy
The point of passive value is to show that your default (non-creepy) personality is attractive to a woman and, since we all know that confidence is the most attractive quality about a man, our job is to show that we’re confident in every method that we can. Who’s more confident: the guy threatening to pound on some dude, or the one smiling, telling him to relax? Who’s more confident: the guy with a frown on his face, alone at the bar, or the guy with a smile, chatting with his buddy? Exactly.
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6 Dating Tips on How Asian Guys Can Get Any Girlfriend They Want
Hey guys, my name is Sarah Ann and I have a confession to make before I tell you how Asian [...]
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Jeremy Lin: Why Having Asian American Role Models & Heroes is Important
Before 1954, it was impossible for a human to run a mile in under 4 minutes. Then in 1954, a [...]
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The Racist Bullying Crisis: Why 54% of Asian American Children Are Targeted by Bullies
Hey guys, it’s JT Tran, your friendly neighborhood Asian Playboy, with a more serious article today on a topic that [...]
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The 10 Myths & Misconceptions About the ABCs of Attraction
Many people have a lot of myths, misconceptions and stereotypes about the PUA community and being a pickup artist. As [...]
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Nerd Bootcamp on NBC: The PUA City Upon a Hill
Readers, I am the bearer of exciting news! If you are in the San Francisco area, you are already aware [...]
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“Asian American Paper Tigers” by Wesley Yang: JT Tran’s Response to New York Magazine
The entire Asian American blogosphere is in an uproar over the recent New York Magazine article by Wesley Yang, “Asian [...]
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6 Dating Tips on How Asian Guys Can Get Any Girlfriend They Want
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Bruce Lee’s Top 7 Dating Tips to Getting Your Romantic Life in Shape
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Jeremy Lin: Why Having Asian American Role Models & Heroes is Important
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Give the Gift of the Female Orgasm this Valentine’s Day
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The Racist Bullying Crisis: Why 54% of Asian American Children Are Targeted by Bullies
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Anti-Slut Defense (ASD): How Society Drives Women Batshit Crazy About Sex, Part 1
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5 Naughty Tips to Have Great Sex with Your Girlfriend on Valentine’s Day
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AMOGs for Dummies: B.I.T. Boyfriend Destroyer Tactics, Part 2
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Text To Sex: 90 Minute Bit Torrent Bootleg Videos?
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Text To Sex: The Rapid Sextcalation Ladder
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Text To Sex: Facebook & Online Dating FAQ
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AMOGs for Dummies: Types, Part 1 (Or Rick Yune the Stealthy Ninja PUA!)
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The 3 Second Rule Was Made to Be Broken
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How Do You Know if You’re Weird or Creepy?
First off, congratulations, if you took the time to read this article, you are probably not weird or creepy. It [...]
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5 Tips to Being a Confident and Alpha Asian Man
The one thing that my bootcamp students always say about me is that I am alpha, confident and dominant. What [...]
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Text To Sex: 90 Minute Bit Torrent Bootleg Videos?
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Text To Sex: The Rapid Sextcalation Ladder
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Text To Sex: Facebook & Online Dating FAQ
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4 Practical Tips to Continue a Conversation with a Girl During Day Game
Hey, Ozzie “the Latino Gentleman” here. As the ABCs’ head coach for the Practical Day Game course, students come to [...]
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Teaching Asian Male Confidence at Yale University’s Master’s Tea 90 Minute Video Lecture
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Nerd Bootcamp on NBC: The PUA City Upon a Hill
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Can a Non-Asian PUA Take An ABCs of Attraction Bootcamp?
The ABCs of Attraction helps build confidence in men of all races from the Asian PUA, Black PUA, Indian PUA, Latino PUA, and to the Caucasian PUA.
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Nerd Bootcamp on NBC: The PUA City Upon a Hill
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The Alpha Asian Mindset Reviews the Asian Playboy PUA’s Free CD
The Alpha Asian Mindset and its author James Chan, a police officer, takes time to review our Advanced Audio Guide, [...]
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The Alpha Asian in The Warrior’s Way? An Asian PUA’s Non-Review
So today marks another foray by an Asian actor (Jang Dong-gun in “The Warrior’s Way”) into the interracial miasma that is [...]
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Can a Non-Asian PUA Take An ABCs of Attraction Bootcamp?
The ABCs of Attraction helps build confidence in men of all races from the Asian PUA, Black PUA, Indian PUA, Latino PUA, and to the Caucasian PUA.
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PUA Book Review: ‘Emotional Intelligence 2.0′ by Travis Bradberry & Jean Greaves
I saw this book while I was at the airport on my way to New York City. It looked interesting [...]
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PUA Book Review: ‘The Secret’ by Rhonda Byrne
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How The 4-Hour Workweek by Timothy Ferris Changed Johnny Wolf’s Life (A PUA Book Review)
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“The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists” Review 2
“Sexual choice is one of the only areas where women are indisputably in control. It’s not until they’ve made a [...]
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Sarah Ann the Wing Girl Reviews “The Game” by Neil Strauss (Part 1)
Even before I was a wing girl and dated one of the ABCs of Attraction’s PUA instructors (yes, I knew what he did for a living before we even started dating), everyone told me I just HAD to read the bible for the entire Seduction and Pick Up Arts Community.
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