Do you have Approach Anxiety? Are you frustrated at how it’s stopping you from meeting the women you want? And do you want to overcome Approach Anxiety so you can finally start achieving your goals in love and life? It’s … Continue reading
Category Archives: What Are the ABCs of Attraction
Often times, we equate a larger group of women to being more difficult to approach. While it may seem more difficult to handle a gaggle of girls, it’s actually not so different from dealing with a lone girl. Whether you’re approaching … Continue reading
Hey noob! Yeah, you! Organic chemistry and physics might get you the job, but looking like this guy WON’T get you the girl! Keep reading to find out how the ABCDEF system can work for you!
Hey noob! That’s right, I’m talking to YOU!
Who says that, as a new PUA, you shouldn’t pick up more girls and have success with women right away? Continue reading
Fun or Fake reminds us that, though we possess a particular skill, it is how that skill fits into our life that decides whether we truly succeed at it or not. It questions our intentions and our focuses and, last but not least, reminds us that this whole process should be fun! Sure, it’s tough in the beginning. Learning anything new is always difficult at some point, but once we start truly succeeding, the world is our oyster. Continue reading
If the D-Phase was where the boys were separated from the MEN, then the E-Phase is where the WANNABES are separated from the PROS. Up till now, a guy could run through a lot of FLASH GAME and be considered “impressive”, or at least enough to fool you into think he was good. Here in the E-Phase, keeping cool under fire, planning out his logistics, and understanding sex from a WOMAN’S perspective is where you if he’s the REAL DEAL or not. There are guys who “get lucky” and then there are real men who MAKE their luck. Continue reading
In the D Phase of the ABCDEF structure, we break down the fourth act of seduction into three main components: Dominant, Direct Intent, & Disqualify. Being a good conversationalist is simply not enough. If you are not already in her “blueprint”, then you may not be automatically placed in her sexual dating pool. You want to be attractive AND arouse her in order for her to see you as a potential lover. You accomplish this by activating one of her many Sexual Arousal Triggers. However, you still need to Disqualify because when a woman feels as though she’s getting too turned on (almost irrationally so), her body will warn her that someone is doing this to her and that she needs to be on her guard. Continue reading
If you’ve followed all these steps, you’ve gotten her emotional and made her feel comfortable with you, while building attraction through to an actual connection. At this point, you’re ready to show her you’re sexually interested in her (because you didn’t know until you built that connection, right?) and proceed to D Phase, the subject of the next article! Continue reading
With so many routine-based methodologies and a wealth of things to say on PUA forums across the world, we sometimes forget that we are simply having a conversation (albeit, a purposeful conversation), which is why it is so important to make a conscious effort to pay attention to what is going on in the interaction, but most importantly to HAVE FUN WITH HER! Continue reading
The actual approach is, paradoxically, both the most important- yet at the same time- least important, stage of seduction. In the A Phase of the ABCDEF structure, we break down the beginning act of seduction into three main components: Attitude, Attract, and Approach. Continue reading