What signals can you watch for to know she's attracted to Asian men?

10 Signs a Girl is Attracted to Asian Men

What signals can you watch for to know she's attracted to Asian men?

What signals can you watch for to know she’s attracted to Asian men?

I receive thousands of emails from my fans asking for interracial dating advice for Asian men and the #1 question that gets asked is, “How do I know if she (usually a white girl, but not always) is interested in dating Asian men?

As your Asian Dating Coach, however, I’m finally answering the question simply because its been asked so many times ad naseum. I’m finally going to put it to bed for the first and last time despite my misgivings.

I was recently reminded of this controversial topic (and I’ll cover the reason why it’s so controversial extensively at the bottom)  on one of my many flights training men in the art of attraction when I sat next to a very pretty, blonde and bubbly California surfer kind of girl.

In our conversation, she made many of the verbal indicators of interest that I’ve heard in the past and that I’ve come to recognize as flirtatious signals from a woman when she’s attracted specifically to Asian men (and therefore to the likes of you and I).

This is admittedly a rarer form of reverse Yellow Fever fraught with it’s own dangers and one in which I’ll go more into detail in my next article about single, white females who intentionally exploit Asian men.

So here is a list of some of the things these girls will consciously do in order to let me know they want a samurai in shining armor (and while I use the term white female, the truth is other women from African American to Latin American, will also use the same flirting signals):

10 Signs a Girl is Attracted to Asian Men

  1. She “Knows” an Asian language:
    Asian tattoos are a great conversation starter with women!

    Asian tattoos are a great conversation starter with women!

    Maybe you’ve seen this type – they put Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, etc. under “languages you know” on Facebook (or put on an Chinese/Asian tramp stamp) even though they really only know how to order pho.

    Should you encounter these loquacious ladies, gentlemen, I propose an awesome sexual bantering tip because every woman wants to be cultured. You, as a cosmopolitan man of the world, are going to teach her a phrase in your language. Here’s an example for you Chinese speakers.

    First, act very serious and say something like, “Let me teach you something. You’ll find this useful in the far reaches in my country. Say this: Wo xi huan gou pa shi.”

    Make her repeat it. Then she’ll ask “What did I say?

    And you’ll say (in the most PLAYFUL tone and smile you can manage) “You just said ‘I like it doggy-style!’” But then go from playful to romantic. After she laughs off her embarrassment, use your phrases to compliment her.

    Teach her “Wo hao xi huan ni de xiao” and, after she repeats it, she’ll ask again. You’ll say, “It means ‘I really like your laugh.’

    And she’ll laugh again. Keep going but turn it from playful to romantic. “You have beautiful eyes,” or “Your smile is amazing,” are flirtatious phrases shrouded in a learning experience.

    Girls who have had the pleasure of this situation tell me it’s unique and something they’ve never forgotten. Be sure to utilize it if you know your mother tongue!

  2. Larissa Riquelme dates Asian men

    Larissa Riquelme dates Asian men

    She Has Asian Friends:Her best friend is Chinese. Her college roommate was Korean. She lived next door to a Vietanemse family. Even if they don’t have these experiences they’ll say they have some sort of Asian acceptance to make her seem more receptive. They’ll use the most random things as well; a really random story I’ve heard is how one girl’s delivery room doctor was a Japanese guy, so since she was “born into the arms of an Asian man” she should “die in the arms of an Asian man as well.” The point is, they are trying to form some sort of connection. [EXAMPLE: Paraguayan model Larissa Riquelme was introduced to the idea of dating Asian men by a Korean acquaintance]
  3. She Loves (Mixed) Martial Arts: I’ve never benefitted from this personally but one of my clients is a former North American martial arts champ and he’s currently a pretty famous action director and actor. He’s written to me on several occasions about the sexy crazy groupies that follow him and the people in his circuit – a plentiful selection of physically fit and attractive women are constantly at his discretion. Some of the most beautiful Asian men groupies follow the martial arts circuit, the martial Arts circuit, and similar sports-oriented social circles. If she mentions Nam Pham, Cung Le or Manny Pacquiao…ding ding ding! You have a winner!
  4. She Loves Asian Food: Be it sushi, Korean BBQ or Pho, she is an Asian food “connoisseur.” If this comes up, use visual imagery to paint a picture in her mind that appeals to all five senses. The sweet taste of jasmine rice, the aroma of a steaming bowl of pho, the appealing colors of nigiri sushi, the crackling sound of cooking your own Korean BBQ, and the cold, soft texture of delicious sashimi are stimulating and even arousing topics. Why, you ask? Because speaking of food like this is sensual…just like sex. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, right? It applies to beautiful women too.
  5. She Knows More About Your Mother Country Than You Do: Even if she has no concrete plans, she’ll express her desires to go there. With the Japanese tsunami, she’ll express sympathy – do not take this as generalizing, she’s just trying to reach out to you. Play into these fantasies when you can. Paint a picture about going on a vacation together. Start with romantic depictions of you doing things together, then progress to sensual and end up with sexual. We have to open that door first through verbal imagery progression. Surfing to walking hand in hand sipping on margaritas and coconuts then you’re rolling around in the sand kissing. Use her desire to your advantage.
  6. She’s a Gamer or Anime-Lover:
    Hot or Not? Girls who cosplay

    Hot or Not? Girls who cosplay

    They express interest in anime (Sailor Moon, Akira, Pokemon, etc) and gaming (Final Fantasy and the like). This group of women aren’t really my cup of tea, but whatever floats your boat. If she likes them, fair game, that’s up to her. If she’s talking about how Akira’s going to be whitewashed then she’s trying to relate to you. The latter kind of woman wants to impress you with her knowledge of the “Asian male plight.” She’s hoping to get you to a point where you say something to the effect of “That is so amazing how much you understand!” Watch for that and indulge her

  7. She Loves Asian Music: Kpop, Jrock, dramas and movies – this kind of girl is infatuated with the Hollywood of the East. They’re probably younger and more attractive, as this is a relatively new phenomenon, but because there’s no representation of SE Asians then she may not go for you if you’re, say, Cambodian or Viet. Or Thai. Or Filipino. Or even Chinese for that matter. I’m not saying it won’t happen, but I can’t ever think of a time I was successful with this kind of girl despite my PUA mastery. I just don’t look East Asian, girly, emo enough. Sometimes, she just simply will not have anything less than a BIG BANG boyfriend (in other words, a Korean or Japanese guy).
  8. She’ll Compliment Your Asian Attributes: Be it your eyes, Asian hair, or skin tone, she’s going to love them and let you know it at some point in the conversation. Take her up on it when she does by putting your forearm up to hers, or if you feel more comfortable or if the conversation is going well, take her hand to point out the contrasting tones. Intangible things like intelligence, family, work ethic, second language are not uncommon topics either. Women learn through encouragement while men learn through challenge (if you tell a girl she looks sexy in that dress, she’ll probably wear it again). Just as we were little boys, we do melt under the praise of a beautiful woman. When she praises my accomplishments such as education or that knowledge of a second language, she’s trying to help me learn.
  9. She Loves Hapa Interracial Babies:
    Look at the adorable interracial happa baby!

    Look at the adorable interracial hapa baby!

    They’ll typically make a comment on how interracial babies are beautiful. You can bring this up as well. “Just think…if you and get married and we had a litter of the most beautiful interracial babies…can you imagine how gorgeous they would be?” It plays into her fantasy. Just as we men have sexual fantasies, women have “family fantasies.” They’ll deny it and push it out of their minds to stay emotionally detached, but keep in mind that, by the end of this or any conversation you have with a female interested in you, she’s already imagined your future life and family…just as you’ve imagined sleeping with her.

  10. She has “Asian-Dating Experience”: This is the biggest, most obvious indicator a girl can give you that she’s into Asian men in general and you in specific. Trust me, anytime a girl has ever told me she had an Asian boyfriend before, I can pretty much romantically connect with her 99.9999% of the time. So a white girl like that will say that she has dated an Asian man before. She will make this point and even further – she will try to guess your ethnicity to show that she’s “learned in the ways of Asian men” and can prove that “not all of you look the same.” She’ll say she’s dated a man of my ethnicity to make her seem more appealing and receptive to me. So if she’s busting out this big gun, then it’s up to you to close because as signals go, it doesn’t get any bigger than this one.

While having, saying, or doing just one of the aforementioned things doesn’t automatically make a girl attracted to Asian men. But combine a few of those traits or even all of them together and, gentlemen, you just might find yourself talking to one woman who is madly in love with the Asian persuasion.

Remember the #1 Rule: When you do meet that beautiful girl, always leave the woman better than you found her!

SO WHY WAIT UNTIL NOW TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION?

I mentioned previously that I was always hesitant to answer this question. I know it seems like a simple, straightforward question “What signals do white women give that says she’s approachable and receptive to Asian men?

So why haven’t I answered it until now? Unfortunately, the act of asking the question means your LESS LIKELY TO SUCCEED with non-Asian women.

It’s a paradox. You see, I’ve always known the technical answer but I’ve always been hesitant to answer because, on a holistic level, it’s NOT empowering to Asian men as a whole to actually know the answer to that question. I believe that the thousands of men that email me with this question are displaying what is called “learned helplessness.

Basically, the men to whom the answer to the question “How can I tell if she’s attracted to Asian men (and therefore me)?” is important, are training themselves to only make a move on a non-Asian women that distinctly signal more forward dating behavior first, before the man does. In other words, he wants a zero-risk, in the bag, sure-thing, 100% guarantee or your money back proposition.

And in today’s modern world with modern women, the last thing dating is, is risk-free.

Which means instead of being a confident, masculine Asian man willing to take risks (who would then naturally attract these women be they white, black or Latina) and playing the Asian Card to get the beautiful woman, he instead turns into the Asian beta male who is only confident if it is instead the woman who takes the initial risk. Instead of the proper way around which is the man’s role to be dominant, forward, and a leader.

I hope, however, I am not doing a disservice to Asian men by training to look, and ONLY look, for these specific female signals of attraction first before making a move… Instead of making a move first and then making her attracted to you which she then sends you signals. That’s the right way.

Laugh your way into her heart (and then her pants)!

Laugh your way into her heart (and then her pants)!

As you can see, I am a very average looking man. I am a short 5 foot 5 inches and I know I am not a good looking or handsome guy. Every woman I’ve dated is physically (if not socially) out of my league. I never get those kind of indicators of interest or signals of attraction. You should never expect them because I certainly don’t and my success with the most beautiful women has been documented and faithfully captured by the media around the world.

Instead, use these signals and indicators of interest to your “Asianness” that she’s becoming attracted to you AFTER you’ve approached her and gotten to know her. You should take these 10 Signals She’s Attracted to Asian Men as signs for you to STAY when you’re already in a conversation with her instead of viewing them as indicators for you to initially approach her.

In the long run, what I’ve discovered with women that specifically that like Asian men are either in it for relationship material or sugar daddies. They’ll enjoy being there but be careful because you’ll get tied down quickly with a girl that chose you, not a girl YOU chose, which is a gross difference.

And after answering this age old question, in my next controversial interracial Asian Male White Female dating article, I’m going to address the 13 Types of Women Who Exploit Asian Men! Yes indeed, there are women who will use the above signals because she’s only attracted to your “Asianness”, but not for the reasons that you might think.

So if you haven’t had the chance to get to know yourself and know women, then I’d save these girls for later – after all, you’re here to learn pick up, and quitting the game early isn’t fair to yourself and to the many women you have yet to meet.

  • http://www.kelvinhanyee.com Kelvin Han Yee

    Thank you J.T. for an insightful and entertaining article. Real talk from “the man”. I have been noticing more women out there for whom all 10 Signs apply. Personally I love women like this although my own gorgeous blond wife exhibits very, very few of these characteristics. It may be a generational thing. We’re a bit older than you young bucks.

  • Very Lame

    This is fucking stupid. You have no clue and your ‘dating coach’ scheme is just that. You probably still live with your mom and I guarantee you can’t even pick up asian women.

  • Ana

    Hmmm….I think this article is an overgeneralization. I think the ”sings” you listed up serve to describe a fanatic, not a normal woman who just is into Asian men.

    I happen to be primarly interested in dating Asian men, but I’m certainly not a fan of Mixed Martial Arts, or anime (was when I was little , but it had nothing to do with my preference for Asian men), I certainly don’t speak any Asian languages, don’t know more about someone’s culture than they themselves do and I don’t necessarily love Asian music, especially not Pop. I like some of it (Asian rock), but I have to be in the mood for it. Also, I don’t really have much Asian dating experience, I don’t kiss their ass non stop just cuz they’re Asian, and I only have one Asian buddy with whom I never really hang out anyway. I do like happa babies, though, Asian food and like to play videogames…..but this has been me forever, it’s not because I wanna prove anything to any Asian guy. Yet, I’m primarly interested in Asian men over any other….go figure. What you have there above is a description of the airheads who are obsessed with Asian culture, who look at Asian men like they’re a Tae Yang doll, and who will do anything to kiss up to a Tae Yang like Asian dude to impress him. These girls have serious identity issues and they’re also not entirely right in the head. What you have there are not signs that a girl is into Asian guys, those are signs that a girl has issues, if put together. As a matter of fact, you can’t list up whether a girl is into Asians or not, because every girl is different and the degree to how much interest she puts into Asian culture or not varies very much. Some may not display any of these ”signs” and yet still be interested in Asian men. This is more like a preference really, not a cultural obsession.

  • Claire

    I completely agree with the comments above and with Jocelyn’s on facebook: “I have to believe that there are quite a few white women out there like me, who could date Asian men but sometimes we just don’t even realize we could be attracted to them,”.
    There are TONS of women out there that haven’t even thought about dating Asian men – I know most of them… haha. Don’t discount women who don’t appear to be interested just because they don’t fulfil the points in this article – they just need a bit of guidance :D

  • DeeD

    I agree with the previous poster, Ana. This post is over generalization at its worst, verging on being pathetic, actually.

    Asianness? Does individualism even mean anything when you find someone attractive? Is there a broad set of attributes that make me “Asian”? To be more blunt about my point: if you only rely on “being asian” — as defined by these stereo typical “signs” in this article — then you’re going to find dating extremely difficult. If you are too insecure to interact with a girl and find out if she likes you or not, you have some seriously self searching to do… Or, you might need to get out a bit more.

    And Ana’s other point is very succinct: these signs describe more about a girl with certain a cultural obsession or preference than about liking a guy, asian or not.

    I am sure I am not the only Asian guy who:
    Is not into any martial arts
    Is not interested in games, manga or any of the anime related sub culture.
    Loves Asian food but not less than Italian or French cuisine
    Prefers a woman speaks another Indo-european language other than English (I’m more greedy about learning)
    Dated plenty of first-time Asian daters

  • Heather

    I know WAAAAAAAY too many girls like this. I’ve posted this in one of my groups and most of them are 8 or 9 for 10 of them, to some extent. I really do think this is a relatively new thing, where a lot of girls are just beginning to exhibit this.

    I doubt JT means ALL girls that like Asian guys are going to be like this. But if a girl shows these signs…come on. What are the chances she doesn’t? If she’s 10 for 10? You think she’s just gonna turn away and say “Nope, no Asian guys for me! Bye y’all!”

    Let’s be honest here – the topic is “10 signs a girl is attracted to Asian men” not “here are the end all signs that she is attracted to Asian men and if the girl doesn’t have all of these to the maximum level she doesn’t like them”. Get your panties out of a bunch and realize that the girl he’s describing sounds like she’s attracted to Asian men…hence, right on topic

  • John

    Thumbs up for Ana, Claire and DeeD’s comments.
    As an Asian man myself, the types of girls that fit the charateristics mentioned by JT are those that I tend to avoid. Just like any other man, I am simply trying to find some fair ground, where as an Asian man, I can have the same opportunity like everyone else to date whoever I like. I do not want to make myself totally whitewashed just so that I can be with a white girl. Similarly, a non-Asian girl who likes me certainly does not need to be totally obsessed with Asian culture to the extent that she’s more Asian than me. Why can’t we move away from exotic stereotyping and see the other person (of different ethnicity) as someone like our own self? After all, our differences are not that extensive apart from language. And a lot of us can communicate decently in English.

  • John

    Thumbs up for Ana, Claire and DeeD’s comments.
    As an Asian man myself, the types of girls that fit the charateristics mentioned by JT are those that I tend to avoid. Just like any other man, I am simply trying to find some fair ground, where as an Asian man, I can have the same opportunity like everyone else to date whoever I like. I do not want to make myself totally whitewashed just so that I can be with a white girl. Similarly, a non-Asian girl who likes me certainly does not need to be totally obsessed with Asian culture to the extent that she’s more Asian than me. Why can’t we move away from exotic stereotyping and see the other person (of different ethnicity) as someone like our own self? After all, our differences are not that extensive apart from language. And a lot of us can communicate decently in English.

  • John

    Thumbs up for Ana, Claire and DeeD’s comments.
    As an Asian man myself, the types of girls that fit the charateristics mentioned by JT are those that I tend to avoid. Just like any other man, I am simply trying to find some fair ground, where as an Asian man, I can have the same opportunity like everyone else to date whoever I like. I do not want to make myself totally whitewashed just so that I can be with a white girl. Similarly, a non-Asian girl who likes me certainly does not need to be totally obsessed with Asian culture to the extent that she’s more Asian than me. Why can’t we move away from exotic stereotyping and see the other person (of different ethnicity) as someone like our own self? After all, our differences are not that extensive apart from language. And a lot of us can communicate decently in English.

  • Asiangarden

    Oh god…the “language lesson” is waaay cheesy….please no one do that..><

  • Asiangarden

    Oh god…the “language lesson” is waaay cheesy….please no one do that..><

  • DERP
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  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Shiloh-Heckman/736639951 Shiloh Heckman

    I think it’s cute :)

    Although.. I already had an idea what half the stuff meant.. lol

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Shiloh-Heckman/736639951 Shiloh Heckman

    I think it’s cute :)

    Although.. I already had an idea what half the stuff meant.. lol

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Shiloh-Heckman/736639951 Shiloh Heckman

    Some of the stuff can hold true without the girl being a fanatic.  I like Asian food a lot. But that doesn’t meant I’m going crazy over every Asian guy I meet.  I just don’t really dig the food from where my family is from.. German/Polish food.. eh.. I’m very picky with it.  

    I like K-pop and Chinese ballads but I also like Euro-pop too.  Anything fast or cute and romantic is for me!  I just get more exposure to Asian music through my boyfriend, and his friends.  I don’t know many people actually from Europe.  

    I love Happa babies but it’s because my boyfriend is Chinese so when I see them it’s more.. Wow my future children could look like that!

    I love Asian eyes because I think they are very exotic and sexy, but I’m also a sucker for pretty blue and green peepers as well.

    Also, I’m trying to learn Chinese because I think it’s more fun than say, German and more useful.  Most Europeans know English and with China growing as a world power it is probably a good language to know if I want to do international business.  Also, I want to teach English there.  

    So as I understand what people say that “girls who have these traits are crazy fanatics”, I think some of them are not necessarily indicators as such, and we should be careful about our generalizations BOTH ways.. not just toward the men involved.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Shiloh-Heckman/736639951 Shiloh Heckman

    Some of the stuff can hold true without the girl being a fanatic.  I like Asian food a lot. But that doesn’t meant I’m going crazy over every Asian guy I meet.  I just don’t really dig the food from where my family is from.. German/Polish food.. eh.. I’m very picky with it.  

    I like K-pop and Chinese ballads but I also like Euro-pop too.  Anything fast or cute and romantic is for me!  I just get more exposure to Asian music through my boyfriend, and his friends.  I don’t know many people actually from Europe.  

    I love Happa babies but it’s because my boyfriend is Chinese so when I see them it’s more.. Wow my future children could look like that!

    I love Asian eyes because I think they are very exotic and sexy, but I’m also a sucker for pretty blue and green peepers as well.

    Also, I’m trying to learn Chinese because I think it’s more fun than say, German and more useful.  Most Europeans know English and with China growing as a world power it is probably a good language to know if I want to do international business.  Also, I want to teach English there.  

    So as I understand what people say that “girls who have these traits are crazy fanatics”, I think some of them are not necessarily indicators as such, and we should be careful about our generalizations BOTH ways.. not just toward the men involved.

  • http://twitter.com/theasianplayboy JT Tran

    The funny thing is that you’ll soon be seeing the “language lesson” on NATIONAL TELEVISION WORKING IN REAL LIFE ON A SWEDISH BLONDE BEAUTY. We’ll let you know the airdate soon, but it will be in front of almost 5 million viewers. The funny thing people don’t realize is that this stuff is FIELD TESTED. Which means we know it works because we’ve used it ourselves. It’s not keyboard jockeying or mental masturbation.

  • http://twitter.com/theasianplayboy JT Tran

    The funny thing is that you’ll soon be seeing the “language lesson” on NATIONAL TELEVISION WORKING IN REAL LIFE ON A SWEDISH BLONDE BEAUTY. We’ll let you know the airdate soon, but it will be in front of almost 5 million viewers. The funny thing people don’t realize is that this stuff is FIELD TESTED. Which means we know it works because we’ve used it ourselves. It’s not keyboard jockeying or mental masturbation.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1506878039 Heather Johnson

    My first boyfriend used it on me…trust me, it WORKS

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1506878039 Heather Johnson

    My first boyfriend used it on me…trust me, it WORKS

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1707680036 Leidy Sanchez

    ….I was laughing when I was reading this because It’s so true but at the same time it’s not. I actually wanted to email the guy, I’m 18 and I fall under the k-pop lovers haha, I wanted to correct some stuff, or at least suggest it, but I don’t know how to contact him…I do love Koreans though, that much is true, but I’m picky, I won’t choose just any guy because he’s Korean. I just want to email him so badly, so if anyone knows how to email him, let me know? :D

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1707680036 Leidy Sanchez

    ….I was laughing when I was reading this because It’s so true but at the same time it’s not. I actually wanted to email the guy, I’m 18 and I fall under the k-pop lovers haha, I wanted to correct some stuff, or at least suggest it, but I don’t know how to contact him…I do love Koreans though, that much is true, but I’m picky, I won’t choose just any guy because he’s Korean. I just want to email him so badly, so if anyone knows how to email him, let me know? :D

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Jt-Tran/100000148877947 J.t. Tran

    Who or what are you talking about?

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Jt-Tran/100000148877947 J.t. Tran

    Who or what are you talking about?

  • Cyn_

    This was very insightful! I can’t believe that I say or do some of those things you mention in your article. *laughs* I love Jrock, but I have dated Filipino, Chinese, and Viet… *smiles* So, I guess it’s just a generalization… But I really enjoyed this article. I didn’t know that ya’ll payed that much attention to what we say or do. I just wish most guys were as susceptible to my hints as you seem to be. *smiles*

    Thanks again… This was great. :)

  • Cyn_

    This was very insightful! I can’t believe that I say or do some of those things you mention in your article. *laughs* I love Jrock, but I have dated Filipino, Chinese, and Viet… *smiles* So, I guess it’s just a generalization… But I really enjoyed this article. I didn’t know that ya’ll payed that much attention to what we say or do. I just wish most guys were as susceptible to my hints as you seem to be. *smiles*

    Thanks again… This was great. :)

  • http://www.kawaiihaven.com Macchan

    Hahahaha oh gosh. I know Asian languages (I’m a translator *shrugs*), I practice Kendo, have Asian friends (grew up in a very Asian community, go figure. XD) and have dated/am mainly attracted to SE/East Asian guys. I never thought to compliment a guy on his Asianness or mention the fact that I’ve dated Asian guys before though O_o, they’re just normal things. I can’t understand the whole imagine family/children thing either, probably because I have zero desire to get married or have kids. lol I’m more straightforward than this, if I like you I’m just going to say I like you. If I don’t like you, no amount of Asianness or flirting will make me like you. X)

  • http://www.kawaiihaven.com Macchan

    Hahahaha oh gosh. I know Asian languages (I’m a translator *shrugs*), I practice Kendo, have Asian friends (grew up in a very Asian community, go figure. XD) and have dated/am mainly attracted to SE/East Asian guys. I never thought to compliment a guy on his Asianness or mention the fact that I’ve dated Asian guys before though O_o, they’re just normal things. I can’t understand the whole imagine family/children thing either, probably because I have zero desire to get married or have kids. lol I’m more straightforward than this, if I like you I’m just going to say I like you. If I don’t like you, no amount of Asianness or flirting will make me like you. X)

  • http://www.dancefloorgamedomination.com Kevin

    Yep! Every part of this is dead on – it’s automatic!

  • http://www.dancefloorgamedomination.com Kevin

    Yep! Every part of this is dead on – it’s automatic!

  • http://www.godofstyle.com AlphaWolf

    lol

  • http://www.godofstyle.com AlphaWolf

    lol

  • Anonymous

    Should’ve been “10 Signs A White Girl is Attracted to Asian Men.”

    If you’re gonna be racist at least let us know first…

  • AkiKaza

    Should’ve been “10 Signs A White Girl is Attracted to Asian Men.”

    If you’re gonna be racist at least let us know first…

  • Johnsmith

    Here’s a dating tip if you want to pick up a white chick. Take off your shirt and show off your nice body, make sure you are dress in fashion(clothes&hair). The bowl cut ain’t very popular with the ladies. Make sure you speak pretty good english. Broken english, like “oh, me so horny, me love u long time” just don’t sound all that sexy. Give her lots of compliments, but make sure you are also in good condition. If you are ugly, don’t bother. She’s just gonna tell you to buzz off creep. 

  • Johnsmith

    Here’s a dating tip if you want to pick up a white chick. Take off your shirt and show off your nice body, make sure you are dress in fashion(clothes&hair). The bowl cut ain’t very popular with the ladies. Make sure you speak pretty good english. Broken english, like “oh, me so horny, me love u long time” just don’t sound all that sexy. Give her lots of compliments, but make sure you are also in good condition. If you are ugly, don’t bother. She’s just gonna tell you to buzz off creep. 

  • dreese

    This is embaressing to say the least… it makes asians look freaking desperate… its pretty sad and I can see whyy girls dont like asian guys because they make everything so nerdy…..

    As an asian male, I’ve dated 36 women and only 3 of them were asian the rest were mexican and white (for the record to crush another stereotype I have a 6 and a half in. Penis…) get over the fact girls don’t like asian guys its just sad

    You have to be confident girls love that don’t blame it on a race… and being really attractive helps also. Im asian but I was born with blue eyes and im 5 11′

    Please, for the sake of everyone take this stupid article down it makes asians look stupid and is inuslting to women in general because of the stupid generalizations

  • dreese

    This is embaressing to say the least… it makes asians look freaking desperate… its pretty sad and I can see whyy girls dont like asian guys because they make everything so nerdy…..

    As an asian male, I’ve dated 36 women and only 3 of them were asian the rest were mexican and white (for the record to crush another stereotype I have a 6 and a half in. Penis…) get over the fact girls don’t like asian guys its just sad

    You have to be confident girls love that don’t blame it on a race… and being really attractive helps also. Im asian but I was born with blue eyes and im 5 11′

    Please, for the sake of everyone take this stupid article down it makes asians look stupid and is inuslting to women in general because of the stupid generalizations

  • Abzeasyas123

    WOW…. So funny u really know your stuff ma’am. Me and my friends are laughing at this list cause its so true. Every non-asian girl we dated or know of that likes asian guys hit this list hard!

  • Abzeasyas123

    WOW…. So funny u really know your stuff ma’am. Me and my friends are laughing at this list cause its so true. Every non-asian girl we dated or know of that likes asian guys hit this list hard!

  • Rick

    You sound like a troll.  I didn’t see anything in the article to embarrass asian men.  I’ve traveled all over the U.S. and I’ve noticed society really influences people.   Most white women I’ve noticed seem to hang out with the people they know, and there aren’t many asian men in many parts of the states, so depending where you’re at, there are certain areas in the U.S. where asian men are seen as more an after thought to many white women.  

    Also, 5ft’ 11″ with blue eyes is not very common for asian men and you must have unique features, which is probably the reason you were able to get so many women.

  • Rick

    You sound like a troll.  I didn’t see anything in the article to embarrass asian men.  I’ve traveled all over the U.S. and I’ve noticed society really influences people.   Most white women I’ve noticed seem to hang out with the people they know, and there aren’t many asian men in many parts of the states, so depending where you’re at, there are certain areas in the U.S. where asian men are seen as more an after thought to many white women.  

    Also, 5ft’ 11″ with blue eyes is not very common for asian men and you must have unique features, which is probably the reason you were able to get so many women.

  • eddie

    Agreed you’re a troll. blue eyed asian telling other asians how they should act.

  • eddie

    Agreed you’re a troll. blue eyed asian telling other asians how they should act.

  • eddie

    Some good tips, but I would say having Asian friends doesn’t necessarily mean anything especially when her Asian friends are all girls who prefer or pretty much date non-Asian men. Likely they’ve been re-fed all the racist, stereotypical bullsh!t by there Asian female friends but add the classic “I know it’s true because I’m asian too!”

  • eddie

    Some good tips, but I would say having Asian friends doesn’t necessarily mean anything especially when her Asian friends are all girls who prefer or pretty much date non-Asian men. Likely they’ve been re-fed all the racist, stereotypical bullsh!t by there Asian female friends but add the classic “I know it’s true because I’m asian too!”

  • Fred

    you are a fucktard

  • Fred

    you are a fucktard

  • Young Miss

    Wow this is sooo strangely true…. T_T
    1. I am learning Japanese
    2. Have lots of Viet and Korean friends
    3. Manny is my man! (In a boxing way not like a hot way)
    4. I love sushi, ramen, and some serious chinese food (and i mean REAL chinese food)
    5. Yeah i know alot about Japan and Korean not more than the actual people know but still . . .  and I almost cried when i heard about the Tsunami , , , Dont Judge!!
    6. Yes i am a Gamer and I love Anime and Dramas hahaha (Resident Evil, FInaly Fantasy, Uncharted, Tekken, Mirrors Edge, Silent Hill, and everything else that comes out for the Playstation and Nintendo cuz Xbox is ass!) (Naruto, Dragonball Z, Sailor Moon, Card Captor Saukra, Blood plus, Bleach, and almost everything else!)
    7. Yeah…. I listen to asian music . . . SHinee, Bigbang, I used to listen to 2pm…, ftIsland, 4men, UVERWorld, Orange Range, Utada Hikaru, Rain \<!!
    9. Yeah some interracial babies are cute. White and Asian kids are cute idk about Hispanic . . . there arent too many haha
    10. and no . . . ive never dated an asian guy before . . . this is actually the first asian guy iver ever crushed on …..

    I dont fall for just any guy but i just happened to be unlucky enough to fall for a korean exchange that will probably never go for me T_T
    I dont really have a racial preference for guys ( I Like All Guys <3) not like …. ALL guys but whatever!!
    Im a puerto rican girl, medium skin tone, curly dark hair, 5"4, (you know! The works!), Thick-ish legs, curvy, i will not tell u my bra size but!!
    But I've been attracted to Hispanic dudes, White dudes, and now a Korean guy T_T

  • Young Miss

    Wow this is sooo strangely true…. T_T
    1. I am learning Japanese
    2. Have lots of Viet and Korean friends
    3. Manny is my man! (In a boxing way not like a hot way)
    4. I love sushi, ramen, and some serious chinese food (and i mean REAL chinese food)
    5. Yeah i know alot about Japan and Korean not more than the actual people know but still . . .  and I almost cried when i heard about the Tsunami , , , Dont Judge!!
    6. Yes i am a Gamer and I love Anime and Dramas hahaha (Resident Evil, FInaly Fantasy, Uncharted, Tekken, Mirrors Edge, Silent Hill, and everything else that comes out for the Playstation and Nintendo cuz Xbox is ass!) (Naruto, Dragonball Z, Sailor Moon, Card Captor Saukra, Blood plus, Bleach, and almost everything else!)
    7. Yeah…. I listen to asian music . . . SHinee, Bigbang, I used to listen to 2pm…, ftIsland, 4men, UVERWorld, Orange Range, Utada Hikaru, Rain \\<!!
    9. Yeah some interracial babies are cute. White and Asian kids are cute idk about Hispanic . . . there arent too many haha
    10. and no . . . ive never dated an asian guy before . . . this is actually the first asian guy iver ever crushed on …..

    I dont fall for just any guy but i just happened to be unlucky enough to fall for a korean exchange that will probably never go for me T_T
    I dont really have a racial preference for guys ( I Like All Guys <3) not like …. ALL guys but whatever!!
    Im a puerto rican girl, medium skin tone, curly dark hair, 5"4, (you know! The works!), Thick-ish legs, curvy, i will not tell u my bra size but!!
    But I've been attracted to Hispanic dudes, White dudes, and now a Korean guy T_T

  • Sam Yoong

    that’s awesome :) 

    what the author said above are so true- my ex gf (a Scandinavian) said exactly those things to me all the time lol :) 

  • Sam Yoong

    that’s awesome :) 

    what the author said above are so true- my ex gf (a Scandinavian) said exactly those things to me all the time lol :) 

  • Tchang83

    JT – I asked a white girl out and found this article afterwards. I couldnt help but laugh.

    Took her to a Chinese place (her favorite, obligatory FB research) and she babbled about her love of travel and acupuncture. Being the sporty type, she also does muay thai/yoga/etc and asked if i practiced anything too (I do), then gets excited and quizzes me about Bruce Lee (lol?). I am just chilling and find it kind of wierd that she knows so much.

    To drive your point home, I have drinks with some friends afterwards but crash early. Wake up to a missed text invitation for drinks at her place w the exact address. DOHHH!

  • Tchang83

    JT – I asked a white girl out and found this article afterwards. I couldnt help but laugh.

    Took her to a Chinese place (her favorite, obligatory FB research) and she babbled about her love of travel and acupuncture. Being the sporty type, she also does muay thai/yoga/etc and asked if i practiced anything too (I do), then gets excited and quizzes me about Bruce Lee (lol?). I am just chilling and find it kind of wierd that she knows so much.

    To drive your point home, I have drinks with some friends afterwards but crash early. Wake up to a missed text invitation for drinks at her place w the exact address. DOHHH!

  • Siddiq Mughlia

    i want to come korea i love korea i need friend 

  • Siddiq Mughlia

    i want to come korea i love korea i need friend 

  • Carrie

    I read this, and was generally interested because I am attracted to Asian men, and I didn’t think I would share many of the reasons. But I did. I’m kind of shocked that I’m this predictable I guess, haha.

  • Carrie

    I read this, and was generally interested because I am attracted to Asian men, and I didn’t think I would share many of the reasons. But I did. I’m kind of shocked that I’m this predictable I guess, haha.

  • nonbeliever

    Just so you know, the celebrity liking wanting asian males are not really credible. Many times they have movies being release in the asian market and the comment is timed for that. And what does she lose by saying stuff like that?  All she has to do is change her mind. 

  • nonbeliever

    Just so you know, the celebrity liking wanting asian males are not really credible. Many times they have movies being release in the asian market and the comment is timed for that. And what does she lose by saying stuff like that?  All she has to do is change her mind. 

  • Blubbery

    LOL =))) seriously??? =)) i laughed myself to tears reading this =)) because i found myself in each and every of this 10 signs :D so predictable…how can that be possible=))
    ohh but sometimes u can missjudge…my friend loves asian food, she’s practicing taekwondo, she’s been to japan, her best friend is chinese, she loves anime and..she hates asian boys xD

  • Blubbery

    LOL =))) seriously??? =)) i laughed myself to tears reading this =)) because i found myself in each and every of this 10 signs :D so predictable…how can that be possible=))
    ohh but sometimes u can missjudge…my friend loves asian food, she’s practicing taekwondo, she’s been to japan, her best friend is chinese, she loves anime and..she hates asian boys xD

  • Ashlingkitty

    This was funny, a asian man actually tried the language trick on me when i was speaking to a friend in korean… I’m a happa myself and you totally can’t tell i look like my african american mother, but it was really cute so i let him think he got away with him. I guessed it worked four years later, and he’s marrying me.

  • Ashlingkitty

    This was funny, a asian man actually tried the language trick on me when i was speaking to a friend in korean… I’m a happa myself and you totally can’t tell i look like my african american mother, but it was really cute so i let him think he got away with him. I guessed it worked four years later, and he’s marrying me.

  • Kimmaylol

    BIGBANG! It’s so funny that you mentioned that! I am obsessed with them!  But I also like Vietnamese, Chinese, and Even Laotian guys. Japanese, only sometimes. 

    Vietnamese guys are hot. 

  • Kimmaylol

    BIGBANG! It’s so funny that you mentioned that! I am obsessed with them!  But I also like Vietnamese, Chinese, and Even Laotian guys. Japanese, only sometimes. 

    Vietnamese guys are hot. 

  • http://bethanyjeanart.blogspot.com/ Bethany

    I can’t believe how many of these I fit into, even just partially. It also helps that I am a military brat so I grew up with beautiful happa friends, were talkin’ mixes of all kinds! So naturally I can’t help but want that myself; Guys, if shes a military brat you have a bigger chance as well! 

  • http://bethanyjeanart.blogspot.com/ Bethany

    I can’t believe how many of these I fit into, even just partially. It also helps that I am a military brat so I grew up with beautiful happa friends, were talkin’ mixes of all kinds! So naturally I can’t help but want that myself; Guys, if shes a military brat you have a bigger chance as well! 

  • Sarah | ABCs Of Attraction

    That’s so awesome that you grew up with such a variety of people. I grew
    up in a really white washed area, so it wasn’t until later in life that
    I had the chance to meet a lot of people from different races. Now I’m
    lucky enough to work in a job where I can help bridge cultural
    differences. 

  • Sarah | ABCs Of Attraction

    That’s so awesome that you grew up with such a variety of people. I grew
    up in a really white washed area, so it wasn’t until later in life that
    I had the chance to meet a lot of people from different races. Now I’m
    lucky enough to work in a job where I can help bridge cultural
    differences. 

  • Eternal Phosphorescence

    So this is all about using her for sex, not caring about her heart??!!! Just using her and dropping her??!!

  • Eternal Phosphorescence

    So this is all about using her for sex, not caring about her heart??!!! Just using her and dropping her??!!

  • Sarah | ABCs Of Attraction

    It’s actually not about that at all. I’m not sure what gave you that impression. This article is just about the signs that a girl is attracted to Asian males. It’s giving guys a bit of insight into what girls find attractive about Asian males.

  • Sarah | ABCs Of Attraction

    It’s actually not about that at all. I’m not sure what gave you that impression. This article is just about the signs that a girl is attracted to Asian males. It’s giving guys a bit of insight into what girls find attractive about Asian males.

  • Eternal Phosphorescence

    Well, why was the guy talking about moving on to sex and getting “into her pants”?

  • Eternal Phosphorescence

    Well, why was the guy talking about moving on to sex and getting “into her pants”?

  • Guest

    I really appreciate your #1 rule. If you trully follow it, you are a wonderful person, so thank you for being that way. I hope that it gets more attention. I wish I knew guys who had that kind of mindset.

  • Guest

    I really appreciate your #1 rule. If you trully follow it, you are a wonderful person, so thank you for being that way. I hope that it gets more attention. I wish I knew guys who had that kind of mindset.

  • Clique

    Uh, I think its mysogynist to say every woman has family fantasies. Sure they want a guy to take care of them but I’mNEVER thinking of babies when i talk to a good looking Asian guy.

  • Clique

    Uh, I think its mysogynist to say every woman has family fantasies. Sure they want a guy to take care of them but I’mNEVER thinking of babies when i talk to a good looking Asian guy.

  • Sarah | ABCs Of Attraction

    Thanks for reading!

  • Sarah | ABCs Of Attraction

    Thanks for reading!

  • Carmelmomi_3

    I think its kind of not fair how asian guys tend to only be interested in white women if they are going to date out of their race…..nothing against that..but black women like asian men too!! My daughter is mixed and trust me when I say black and asian is just as cute! What a racial shame….

  • Carmelmomi_3

    I think its kind of not fair how asian guys tend to only be interested in white women if they are going to date out of their race…..nothing against that..but black women like asian men too!! My daughter is mixed and trust me when I say black and asian is just as cute! What a racial shame….

  • Sarah

    I’m sorry the article gave you that impression. I think the Asian male/white female example is used a lot because the  gap seems to be the biggest between the two. We encourage our students to date anyone in or outside of their immediate race! We just want to bridge the huge gap between many races and create a better choice for everyone! Thanks for reading!

  • Sarah

    I’m sorry the article gave you that impression. I think the Asian male/white female example is used a lot because the  gap seems to be the biggest between the two. We encourage our students to date anyone in or outside of their immediate race! We just want to bridge the huge gap between many races and create a better choice for everyone! Thanks for reading!

  • chococat

    I am German and my boyfriend is Korean-American, and he simply is the best thing that ever happened to me. ♥

  • chococat

    I am German and my boyfriend is Korean-American, and he simply is the best thing that ever happened to me. ♥

  • chococat
  • chococat
  • Vitamin D

    What? i am asian 21 years old and i find black girls attractive. My problem is that everytime i come to their house i get the whole will smith and martin lawrence routine from Badboys.

  • Vitamin D

    What? i am asian 21 years old and i find black girls attractive. My problem is that everytime i come to their house i get the whole will smith and martin lawrence routine from Badboys.

  • Cj1492

    First off hapa cause you spelled it wrong, is for hawaiians and we are not Asian
    Hapa is used for part white part Hawaiian.

  • Cj1492

    First off hapa cause you spelled it wrong, is for hawaiians and we are not Asian
    Hapa is used for part white part Hawaiian.

  • tardika

    This is more likely to find you some obsessed crazy woman.

  • tardika

    This is more likely to find you some obsessed crazy woman.

  • moneyball1000

    I had an awkward situation and I’m not sure if this qualifies as something that can make it to the list.

    There was a cute support staff member in somewhat temp mode at my work who work on the other corner of the floor in a different division but we bumped into each other at the coffee room, etc.   She always smiled at me at times and made short talk but never knew her name until one time she said she wanted to show something on her computer that she thought was “interesting” or “funny” that someone emailed her.

    It was a porn video of an asian guy and having sex with a cute white lady.   I was stunned and quite frankly did not have the balls in knowing how to react.  Being more senior level to her I just laughed it off and said maybe we should just focus on work.  Knowing me I was probably pretty cold about.

    Anyway, later I just wondered.  Bumping into later just didn’t seem to happen enough and she later got a job somewhere else in the building and that was pretty much it.  Again, like many other brief instances, I am left puzzled in terms of what to make of it but she was a really cute young lady.

  • moneyball1000

    I had an awkward situation and I’m not sure if this qualifies as something that can make it to the list.

    There was a cute support staff member in somewhat temp mode at my work who work on the other corner of the floor in a different division but we bumped into each other at the coffee room, etc.   She always smiled at me at times and made short talk but never knew her name until one time she said she wanted to show something on her computer that she thought was “interesting” or “funny” that someone emailed her.

    It was a porn video of an asian guy and having sex with a cute white lady.   I was stunned and quite frankly did not have the balls in knowing how to react.  Being more senior level to her I just laughed it off and said maybe we should just focus on work.  Knowing me I was probably pretty cold about.

    Anyway, later I just wondered.  Bumping into later just didn’t seem to happen enough and she later got a job somewhere else in the building and that was pretty much it.  Again, like many other brief instances, I am left puzzled in terms of what to make of it but she was a really cute young lady.

  • Rock Steady

    I am just under 5 foot 7. Dated wayyy more than his 36 women. Have been with women from 17 nations/genetic makeups. Women counts are in the 3 digits. (Only yellow dude I know who has more than me is a lawyer, American born Korean, tall and suave, and a former owner of one of the AM/WF websites that has become huge).You do not need the height to get women. Roughly half of the women I date are taller than me. And by dating, I do not mean hanging out watching movies. I mean going all the way. It definitely can be done. I have no idea why Asian men in USA beat themselves up the way they do. Asian guys in other countries are way more relaxed and enjoy themselves much more than Asian guys in the USA, as far as I have observed personally (by being in these different countries).

    That said, I was in China when I saw a Chinese girl with one blue eye. I asked her how come one of her eye was blue and the other was light brown, and yet she looked totally Chinese. Either it was a gene thing or simply mutation. Not sure if it has anything related to that ‘blue eyed Asian guy’ or not.

  • Rock Steady

    I am just under 5 foot 7. Dated wayyy more than his 36 women. Have been with women from 17 nations/genetic makeups. Women counts are in the 3 digits. (Only yellow dude I know who has more than me is a lawyer, American born Korean, tall and suave, and a former owner of one of the AM/WF websites that has become huge).You do not need the height to get women. Roughly half of the women I date are taller than me. And by dating, I do not mean hanging out watching movies. I mean going all the way. It definitely can be done. I have no idea why Asian men in USA beat themselves up the way they do. Asian guys in other countries are way more relaxed and enjoy themselves much more than Asian guys in the USA, as far as I have observed personally (by being in these different countries).

    That said, I was in China when I saw a Chinese girl with one blue eye. I asked her how come one of her eye was blue and the other was light brown, and yet she looked totally Chinese. Either it was a gene thing or simply mutation. Not sure if it has anything related to that ‘blue eyed Asian guy’ or not.

  • Natia

    Uh… no, not really.
    Usually everyone in Hawaii uses the term to describe someone who’s half Caucasian, half just about anything else. ;; It’s actually used a lot for people who are half Asian.

  • Natia

    Uh… no, not really.
    Usually everyone in Hawaii uses the term to describe someone who’s half Caucasian, half just about anything else. ;; It’s actually used a lot for people who are half Asian.

  • Hx

    If a girl keeps rubbing her thigh or patting her butt while talking to you, it usually means she is interested.

  • Hx

    If a girl keeps rubbing her thigh or patting her butt while talking to you, it usually means she is interested.

  • hx

    She was probably interested in you, but assumed you weren’t interested in her, based on your reaction.

  • hx

    She was probably interested in you, but assumed you weren’t interested in her, based on your reaction.

  • Hxl

    Asian men beat themselves up more in the US than in other countries because there is more anti-asian sentiment here than elsewhere.  The people I meet from abroad (regardless of race) are usually much easier to get along with and are much less stereotyping than the Americans I know.

  • Hxl

    Asian men beat themselves up more in the US than in other countries because there is more anti-asian sentiment here than elsewhere.  The people I meet from abroad (regardless of race) are usually much easier to get along with and are much less stereotyping than the Americans I know.

  • hx

    Once I was on a plane sitting next to a beautiful blonde.  While we were making small talk she made a gesture toward the book she was reading which was “Noble House” by Clavell. So you can add choice of reading material to your list.

  • hx

    Once I was on a plane sitting next to a beautiful blonde.  While we were making small talk she made a gesture toward the book she was reading which was “Noble House” by Clavell. So you can add choice of reading material to your list.

  • Sarah

    She was totally into you!! She was basically showing a scenario that she probably wanted to have with you. Granted, not work appropriate, but you could have taken her out for sure. That was a direct indicator of interest on her part! 

  • Sarah

    She was totally into you!! She was basically showing a scenario that she probably wanted to have with you. Granted, not work appropriate, but you could have taken her out for sure. That was a direct indicator of interest on her part! 

  • moneyball1000

    Things seemed colder after that incident. Maybe a blowned opportunity who knows.

  • moneyball1000

    Things seemed colder after that incident. Maybe a blowned opportunity who knows.

  • moneyball1000

    Damn. I just wasn’t sure. Just frozen not knowing what to do. It is my downfall. But I wish a lady would spell things out bit better rather than going about it in such an awkward way. I kinda noticed at the time she was looking at me from the corner of my eye, a pause of sorts, as she was waiting for me to figure out what I was watching.

    I wasn’t sure if she was just playing a joke on me, just teasing, me being the butt of it or just really trying to make a connection.

  • moneyball1000

    Damn. I just wasn’t sure. Just frozen not knowing what to do. It is my downfall. But I wish a lady would spell things out bit better rather than going about it in such an awkward way. I kinda noticed at the time she was looking at me from the corner of my eye, a pause of sorts, as she was waiting for me to figure out what I was watching.

    I wasn’t sure if she was just playing a joke on me, just teasing, me being the butt of it or just really trying to make a connection.

  • moneyball1000

    Damn it hurts now just thinking about this. A lot guys liked her in the office and got promoted out fast. She could have almost been a twin of the brunette Tmobile gal.

  • moneyball1000

    Damn it hurts now just thinking about this. A lot guys liked her in the office and got promoted out fast. She could have almost been a twin of the brunette Tmobile gal.

  • http://twitter.com/theasianplayboy JT Tran

    Well, as you’ve shown her, trying to “spell it out” simply backfired on her. Its the Asian gentleman’s duty and privilege to act with confidence in order to pursue her. But sadly, more times than not, an Asian guy will literally freak out when a non-Asian woman tries to be more aggressive and approach him. 

    I had some of my girls chime in with advice on how single girls can meet Asian men and as you can see, they can’t be too obvious: http://www.asianmanwhitewoman.com/heather/interracial-dating-advice/cute-girls-guide-how-to-meet-and-date-asian-men/

    The truth is, if you look back at your life, you probably had TONS of girls giving you hints and signals. You either weren’t experienced enough to see them for what they were or, in many cases of Asian men, didn’t BELIEVE in them because you’ve been ostracized and stigmatized by the media.

    Either way though, these are easily solvable obstacles, but only if you’re willing to put in the effort and investment in yourself to succeed, win and ultimately be happy with yourself.

  • http://twitter.com/theasianplayboy JT Tran

    Well, as you’ve shown her, trying to “spell it out” simply backfired on her. Its the Asian gentleman’s duty and privilege to act with confidence in order to pursue her. But sadly, more times than not, an Asian guy will literally freak out when a non-Asian woman tries to be more aggressive and approach him. 

    I had some of my girls chime in with advice on how single girls can meet Asian men and as you can see, they can’t be too obvious: http://www.asianmanwhitewoman.com/heather/interracial-dating-advice/cute-girls-guide-how-to-meet-and-date-asian-men/

    The truth is, if you look back at your life, you probably had TONS of girls giving you hints and signals. You either weren’t experienced enough to see them for what they were or, in many cases of Asian men, didn’t BELIEVE in them because you’ve been ostracized and stigmatized by the media.

    Either way though, these are easily solvable obstacles, but only if you’re willing to put in the effort and investment in yourself to succeed, win and ultimately be happy with yourself.

  • I_own_you

    You fucking Asian losers only get a chance when a white girl wants to try something new. That will be your 15 minutes of fame… lol.

  • I_own_you

    You fucking Asian losers only get a chance when a white girl wants to try something new. That will be your 15 minutes of fame… lol.

  • tardika

    You’re wrong and you seem bitter. It’s easy to assume that maybe you were rejected by a girl who wanted an asian guy.

  • tardika

    You’re wrong and you seem bitter. It’s easy to assume that maybe you were rejected by a girl who wanted an asian guy.

  • moneyball1000

    Yeah. Thanks.

    I told just one guy in my office about it because I did not want her to get into trouble.

    He said that she was sending enough clues while she was temping but really took a chance and risk to break the ice with me with this move. He said I put too much of a shield up so it was almost an act of desperation on her part.

    Problem with me is that sometimes I’ll think a cute gal is interested but often times she is just being nice and when I make some kInd of move the discussion of her boyfriend comes up or her reaction might not be consistent with what I’m hoping for.

  • moneyball1000

    Yeah. Thanks.

    I told just one guy in my office about it because I did not want her to get into trouble.

    He said that she was sending enough clues while she was temping but really took a chance and risk to break the ice with me with this move. He said I put too much of a shield up so it was almost an act of desperation on her part.

    Problem with me is that sometimes I’ll think a cute gal is interested but often times she is just being nice and when I make some kInd of move the discussion of her boyfriend comes up or her reaction might not be consistent with what I’m hoping for.

  • moneyball1000

    Ouch. Lets not start a war. This is a love forum not hate forum. I like white ladies yes, Asian too and other ethnicities. There are not many Asian gals where I live though so I start thinking about these things.

  • moneyball1000

    Ouch. Lets not start a war. This is a love forum not hate forum. I like white ladies yes, Asian too and other ethnicities. There are not many Asian gals where I live though so I start thinking about these things.

  • moneyball1000

    I asked an AA gal out once but she sent subtle hints about race complications. She was really pretty (pepsette gal and really genuinely nice)

  • moneyball1000

    I asked an AA gal out once but she sent subtle hints about race complications. She was really pretty (pepsette gal and really genuinely nice)

  • Jenna

    I find asian men, specially japanese men very attractive. Although, the only asians I’ve been able to see in my country were tourists. I really hope there would be asian guys living in here, but so far no luck. This doesn’t mean I’d date just any asian guy, just because he would be an asian. We should definately hold things in common and the guy should not be fat, because fat men are not attractive. Normal, even nerdy asian guys are so attractive. I saw that many of the 10 signs apply to me. Thank you for the article, it was very interesting.

  • Jenna

    I find asian men, specially japanese men very attractive. Although, the only asians I’ve been able to see in my country were tourists. I really hope there would be asian guys living in here, but so far no luck. This doesn’t mean I’d date just any asian guy, just because he would be an asian. We should definately hold things in common and the guy should not be fat, because fat men are not attractive. Normal, even nerdy asian guys are so attractive. I saw that many of the 10 signs apply to me. Thank you for the article, it was very interesting.

  • Eternal Phosphorescence

     Yeah, I find Asian men attractive, too. Especially Indian men….

  • Eternal Phosphorescence

     Yeah, I find Asian men attractive, too. Especially Indian men….

  • Sarah

     what country do you live in?

  • Sarah

     what country do you live in?

  • Westerngirl

    Dear asian men, i am a western woman and this is MY advice to You:

    Most western women dont care if a man is caucausian or asian! They only look at the man himself! In fact many western women go realy CRAZY for asian men! And You can tell very easy from these 2 First and most important signals: 
     
    First: She’s always searching eye contact with You and keeps looking at You all the time!
    Second: She smiles at You when You look at her!
     
    This already means: You have gained her attention! Very important: give her some Signals back, to let her know, You are interested in her: Smile back at her and keep eye contact!!!!!! I know, many asian men are feeling very shy to talk to western women…
     
    If she is a bit more offensive she will try to make the first step and talk to You. Even if she is the one that talks to You first: YOU SHOULD TAKE THE COURAGE TO INVITE HER!!!
    AND dont forget: there are also many very SHY western Ladies! And they are just waiting for the man to make the first step!!! Many very pretty Ladies are shy, and the most men dont eaven dare to talk to them, because they think they will not have a chance anyways! This is a big mistake men make! So: If You see, she is not taking any action but she keeps looking at You all the time, YOU should try to make the first step!!! It is ok, if You are shy, many western men are also shy in the beginning. In fact, we girls think its realy cute if a man is a bit shy ;)

    But dont forget the rule of love: MALE HUNTS FEMALE! This is international! ;) No matter how modern we western women are, most of us would like the men to make the first step!

    Just be polite, talk to her friendly, ask her where she’s from, show some interest in her, smile at her often and ask her, if you can invite her (for exsample for a drink, or a restaurant). You can eaven ask her kindly for her phone number… If she says “Yes” to Your invitation, it already means she IS interested in knowing You better. If she says “No, Thanks” You know she is NOT interested! Even if she says “no” it will not be the end of the world, dont forget, You have nothing to loose!!! At least You have tried, and You will not Keep asking Yourself: Why didnt i asked this pretty girl… 

    But You will see: many western women will be HAPPY, if You invite them for a date!
    And very important: After the first date, Keep contact with her, if You realy like her! Dont wait one or two weeks to Call her again! This is a big mistake many men do! Show interest in her! YOU have to take action! Tell her, that you would like to see her again! AND: invite her at the same time for a second date! If she is still interested in You, she will say Yes again. Then You can start seriously dating her. :)
    Ok, much luck boys! And if You fail with one woman, dont give up! As i said before: there are many western girls that would be happy to date a nice and sweet asian guy!
     

  • Westerngirl

    Dear asian men, i am a western woman and this is MY advice to You:

    Most western women dont care if a man is caucausian or asian! They only look at the man himself! In fact many western women go realy CRAZY for asian men! And You can tell very easy from these 2 First and most important signals: 
     
    First: She’s always searching eye contact with You and keeps looking at You all the time!
    Second: She smiles at You when You look at her!
     
    This already means: You have gained her attention! Very important: give her some Signals back, to let her know, You are interested in her: Smile back at her and keep eye contact!!!!!! I know, many asian men are feeling very shy to talk to western women…
     
    If she is a bit more offensive she will try to make the first step and talk to You. Even if she is the one that talks to You first: YOU SHOULD TAKE THE COURAGE TO INVITE HER!!!
    AND dont forget: there are also many very SHY western Ladies! And they are just waiting for the man to make the first step!!! Many very pretty Ladies are shy, and the most men dont eaven dare to talk to them, because they think they will not have a chance anyways! This is a big mistake men make! So: If You see, she is not taking any action but she keeps looking at You all the time, YOU should try to make the first step!!! It is ok, if You are shy, many western men are also shy in the beginning. In fact, we girls think its realy cute if a man is a bit shy ;)

    But dont forget the rule of love: MALE HUNTS FEMALE! This is international! ;) No matter how modern we western women are, most of us would like the men to make the first step!

    Just be polite, talk to her friendly, ask her where she’s from, show some interest in her, smile at her often and ask her, if you can invite her (for exsample for a drink, or a restaurant). You can eaven ask her kindly for her phone number… If she says “Yes” to Your invitation, it already means she IS interested in knowing You better. If she says “No, Thanks” You know she is NOT interested! Even if she says “no” it will not be the end of the world, dont forget, You have nothing to loose!!! At least You have tried, and You will not Keep asking Yourself: Why didnt i asked this pretty girl… 

    But You will see: many western women will be HAPPY, if You invite them for a date!
    And very important: After the first date, Keep contact with her, if You realy like her! Dont wait one or two weeks to Call her again! This is a big mistake many men do! Show interest in her! YOU have to take action! Tell her, that you would like to see her again! AND: invite her at the same time for a second date! If she is still interested in You, she will say Yes again. Then You can start seriously dating her. :)
    Ok, much luck boys! And if You fail with one woman, dont give up! As i said before: there are many western girls that would be happy to date a nice and sweet asian guy!
     

  • Cryd

    //sigh// too bad we can’t all be beautiful caucasian women… some of us are just second class… well… i guess without us, the beautiful girls would just be mediocre (average at best)….

  • Cryd

    //sigh// too bad we can’t all be beautiful caucasian women… some of us are just second class… well… i guess without us, the beautiful girls would just be mediocre (average at best)….

  • Sarah

     I agree that it’s very important for men to be proactive and take some initiative. Very rarely will a girl take the first step. It’s also important to recognize indicators of interest and give off indicators as well. Women of different races are looking for all types of men so don’t buy into those limiting beliefs!
    -Sarah

  • Sarah

     I agree that it’s very important for men to be proactive and take some initiative. Very rarely will a girl take the first step. It’s also important to recognize indicators of interest and give off indicators as well. Women of different races are looking for all types of men so don’t buy into those limiting beliefs!
    -Sarah

  • Fiurhthi

    u asshole -__-

  • Fiurhthi

    u asshole -__-

  • Asian man

    if you were successful… you would not be having so much hate in your heart…

  • Asian man

    if you were successful… you would not be having so much hate in your heart…

  • Sl1200

    You must be a lonely round eye for even searching something like this. Just a reminder to you… China owns 80% of America. Who do you think bails out the US Govt.?

  • Sl1200

    You must be a lonely round eye for even searching something like this. Just a reminder to you… China owns 80% of America. Who do you think bails out the US Govt.?

  • Sl1200

    So in short….Call us friend or call us Boss

  • Sl1200

    So in short….Call us friend or call us Boss

  • Westerngirl

    Hello Cryd
    Real beauty comes from inside!
    I think there are no second class women. I teach many ladies in my classes and i dont consider one of them as ugly. Not every woman has to look like a Supermodel. Every woman can look good in her own special way. No matter what kind of skin color, age or clothes size you have. Every woman can be charming and attractive and you dont have to fit in clothes size S or XS to attract.There is something for every taste.

  • Westerngirl

    Hello Cryd
    Real beauty comes from inside!
    I think there are no second class women. I teach many ladies in my classes and i dont consider one of them as ugly. Not every woman has to look like a Supermodel. Every woman can look good in her own special way. No matter what kind of skin color, age or clothes size you have. Every woman can be charming and attractive and you dont have to fit in clothes size S or XS to attract.There is something for every taste.

  • Cryd

    While your truly deep words are greatly admirable, generally I can find puddles deeper than society. We live in a superficial world. My “inner beauty” won’t really take me far if I want to seek a life in modeling or acting. It just doesn’t work that way. It’d be nice if it did; and in a perfect world, it would. But this world isn’t perfect. I’ve accepted a long time ago that I’m not stunning and gorgeous. I’m cute. I’m not going to sell myself short. I have a cute face… and some guys may find the 5’3” chubby frame extremely cute… but in truth, it’s nothing sexy, it’s nothing alluring. Yeah, I can look DAMN GOOD with the right make up, lighting and a professional cameraman. I’ve had it done. Those were the best pictures I’ve ever seen of myself… but it looked nothing like the real me.

    Your words are wise and mature, but until I see a change in society, your words are worthless. This is the world we live in. I’ve accepted it. Maybe it’s a defeatist’s attitude… but there’s nothing I can do for it.

    Good day.

  • Cryd

    While your truly deep words are greatly admirable, generally I can find puddles deeper than society. We live in a superficial world. My “inner beauty” won’t really take me far if I want to seek a life in modeling or acting. It just doesn’t work that way. It’d be nice if it did; and in a perfect world, it would. But this world isn’t perfect. I’ve accepted a long time ago that I’m not stunning and gorgeous. I’m cute. I’m not going to sell myself short. I have a cute face… and some guys may find the 5’3” chubby frame extremely cute… but in truth, it’s nothing sexy, it’s nothing alluring. Yeah, I can look DAMN GOOD with the right make up, lighting and a professional cameraman. I’ve had it done. Those were the best pictures I’ve ever seen of myself… but it looked nothing like the real me.

    Your words are wise and mature, but until I see a change in society, your words are worthless. This is the world we live in. I’ve accepted it. Maybe it’s a defeatist’s attitude… but there’s nothing I can do for it.

    Good day.

  • Cryd

    maybe so. but I’m also realistic.

  • Cryd

    maybe so. but I’m also realistic.

  • Lonely_grla

    Hi Cryd, I thinkk the problem is thta you dont accept yourself. I am very sure most of the people will find you cute. If you are not stunning so what?? You can be the prettiest one but if you dont feel confident no man will find you interesting. Remember the best attribute a woman or a man is confidence.

  • Lonely_grla

    Hi Cryd, I thinkk the problem is thta you dont accept yourself. I am very sure most of the people will find you cute. If you are not stunning so what?? You can be the prettiest one but if you dont feel confident no man will find you interesting. Remember the best attribute a woman or a man is confidence.

  • derp

    Acting actually has little to do with being physically attractive, and more to do with being good on camera and having an interesting face or air about you. Modelling has less to do with being “pretty” and more to do with fitting the fashion world’s “image”, which unfortunately is being crazy. About being 5’3″ and chubby with cute features- that’s what I am! I am friends with lots of Korean guys and they are constantly telling me I am cute, or even sexy! My boyfriend is Korean and says I am SOOO sexy with my chubby body hahaha. You just have to find a good guy, everyone likes something. :) 

  • derp

    Acting actually has little to do with being physically attractive, and more to do with being good on camera and having an interesting face or air about you. Modelling has less to do with being “pretty” and more to do with fitting the fashion world’s “image”, which unfortunately is being crazy. About being 5’3″ and chubby with cute features- that’s what I am! I am friends with lots of Korean guys and they are constantly telling me I am cute, or even sexy! My boyfriend is Korean and says I am SOOO sexy with my chubby body hahaha. You just have to find a good guy, everyone likes something. :) 

  • Ajk

    Ooooh, any Asian man can ask me if I find them attractive, any day ;D
    Being as I fit a majority of the signs listed above, I will be the first to admit I find Asians very, very attractive~

  • Ajk

    Ooooh, any Asian man can ask me if I find them attractive, any day ;D
    Being as I fit a majority of the signs listed above, I will be the first to admit I find Asians very, very attractive~

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=755048850 Jazz Abreu

     Hmm… I fit most of these descriptions. It’s because love Asian Culture. Yes the food, the fashion, the K Dramas, and the Kpop music, I love it all. But I feel like you’re making us “rare” white females, look sort of villainous to the Asian Male population. These women, who are smart enough to actually venture out and learn about another culture and in which some cases, branch away from their own and absorb Asian culture even as their own, (god knows I do) are not out to exploit Asians. In fact I read your other Article about the women who do exploit Asian men, but we should all keep in mind that you will find those women EVERYWHERE you go. They don’t just fling around signals just to go after one race of man, you find them everywhere.

    And to be honest, some of the things on your blog….
    It’s about getting into the women’s pants. Hows that not exploitation? Sure, I am attracted to Asian men, specifically and strictly, but I still wouldn’t ever dream of settling either unless the man I was talking to was genuine, kind, and carried all the other virtues a woman would want in her man. Not just because he’s Asian. It goes a little deeper then that with us ladies.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=755048850 Jazz Abreu

     Hmm… I fit most of these descriptions. It’s because love Asian Culture. Yes the food, the fashion, the K Dramas, and the Kpop music, I love it all. But I feel like you’re making us “rare” white females, look sort of villainous to the Asian Male population. These women, who are smart enough to actually venture out and learn about another culture and in which some cases, branch away from their own and absorb Asian culture even as their own, (god knows I do) are not out to exploit Asians. In fact I read your other Article about the women who do exploit Asian men, but we should all keep in mind that you will find those women EVERYWHERE you go. They don’t just fling around signals just to go after one race of man, you find them everywhere.

    And to be honest, some of the things on your blog….
    It’s about getting into the women’s pants. Hows that not exploitation? Sure, I am attracted to Asian men, specifically and strictly, but I still wouldn’t ever dream of settling either unless the man I was talking to was genuine, kind, and carried all the other virtues a woman would want in her man. Not just because he’s Asian. It goes a little deeper then that with us ladies.

  • Eternal Phosphorescence

    Yeah, I have a huge crush on Indian and Middle Eastern guys!

  • Eternal Phosphorescence

    Yeah, I have a huge crush on Indian and Middle Eastern guys!

  • MontanaALJ

    Im Asian and I’d lol. 

  • MontanaALJ

    Im Asian and I’d lol. 

  • MontanaALJ

    She Knows More About Your Mother Country Than You Do <- true LOL

  • MontanaALJ

    She Knows More About Your Mother Country Than You Do <- true LOL

  • BMAN

     Are U jealous or racist? i think you’re both…..

  • BMAN

     Are U jealous or racist? i think you’re both…..

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/JDDO4QKRAU7M2AI7ZOZ46I2JAY CaraT

    I’m a white woman and I generally (like about 90% of the time) find East Asian men physically more attractive than men of other races/ethnicity, however, I would not date a man SOLELY because of his “Asianness” so to speak.  He would still have to be a decent dude in all other ways lol.  For me it seems to be a product of conditioning as I’ve had a heavy interest in Chinese and Japanese culture for most of my life and it’s come to include entertainment, food, language, martial arts, what have you.  It’s probably a cinch to assume someone whose diet in movies is about 90-95% Hong Kong/Chinese movies is going to find the men attractive.

    That being said, I think these are pretty accurate signs as I have used or would use most of them myself to express interest since I have continuously gotten the impression over the years that Asian men don’t think they have a chance with white girls and personally in my experience, the majority of the negative stereotypes (such as an attack on manliness) out there come from white men.  I’ve heard them quite a bit myself concerning the celebrities I’ve found attractive over the years, for example.  So I pretty much assume that if I don’t put out some kind of indication of interest (such as these things, at least it’s genuine in my case lol), an Asian guy is unlikely to put himself “out there” so to speak and risk rejection.

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/JDDO4QKRAU7M2AI7ZOZ46I2JAY CaraT

    I’m a white woman and I generally (like about 90% of the time) find East Asian men physically more attractive than men of other races/ethnicity, however, I would not date a man SOLELY because of his “Asianness” so to speak.  He would still have to be a decent dude in all other ways lol.  For me it seems to be a product of conditioning as I’ve had a heavy interest in Chinese and Japanese culture for most of my life and it’s come to include entertainment, food, language, martial arts, what have you.  It’s probably a cinch to assume someone whose diet in movies is about 90-95% Hong Kong/Chinese movies is going to find the men attractive.

    That being said, I think these are pretty accurate signs as I have used or would use most of them myself to express interest since I have continuously gotten the impression over the years that Asian men don’t think they have a chance with white girls and personally in my experience, the majority of the negative stereotypes (such as an attack on manliness) out there come from white men.  I’ve heard them quite a bit myself concerning the celebrities I’ve found attractive over the years, for example.  So I pretty much assume that if I don’t put out some kind of indication of interest (such as these things, at least it’s genuine in my case lol), an Asian guy is unlikely to put himself “out there” so to speak and risk rejection.

  • Sarah

     Thanks for reading and for the support!

  • Sarah

     Thanks for reading and for the support!

  • Be Kus1

    i ma thailand

  • Be Kus1

    i ma thailand

  • Be Kus1

    i  ‘m men single 38 from thailand

  • Be Kus1

    i  ‘m men single 38 from thailand

  • Kaitlin

     I wish I could get an Asian guy

  • Kaitlin

     I wish I could get an Asian guy

  • Kaitlin

    (Jrock lover here) and I was lucky enough to go to Japan… I came back last weekend, but sadly I don’t know Japanese, and when some high school boys came over, I had to run the opposite way because, if they said something, I would look more stupid not knowing what they are saying…

  • Kaitlin

    (Jrock lover here) and I was lucky enough to go to Japan… I came back last weekend, but sadly I don’t know Japanese, and when some high school boys came over, I had to run the opposite way because, if they said something, I would look more stupid not knowing what they are saying…

  • Sam

     I’m going to disagree with you on this. I have a female friend that is physically the same in stature and similar to how you describe yourself.  This girl cleans house getting guys. She’s not slutty and isn’t trolling bars. Yet, she still manages to meet men.

    I was actually really attracted to her to as well which surprised me.  It really was how she carried herself. She knew she was bigger but she worked out, accentuated the pluses she had, maintained and reflected a positive/fun attitude and focused more on having a good time. That’s what got her the guys.  She didn’t focus on her weight as a big deal and that reflected back into the world.  I don’t think I’ve ever seen her get rejected or a date for that matter because she’s so fun to be around.

    I agree you can’t change society but you can change yourself.

  • Sam

     I’m going to disagree with you on this. I have a female friend that is physically the same in stature and similar to how you describe yourself.  This girl cleans house getting guys. She’s not slutty and isn’t trolling bars. Yet, she still manages to meet men.

    I was actually really attracted to her to as well which surprised me.  It really was how she carried herself. She knew she was bigger but she worked out, accentuated the pluses she had, maintained and reflected a positive/fun attitude and focused more on having a good time. That’s what got her the guys.  She didn’t focus on her weight as a big deal and that reflected back into the world.  I don’t think I’ve ever seen her get rejected or a date for that matter because she’s so fun to be around.

    I agree you can’t change society but you can change yourself.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002178474247 No Compunction

    You must be suffering from schizophrenia or some shit like that, Americans own America and Japan actually owns more of the States than does China.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002178474247 No Compunction

    You must be suffering from schizophrenia or some shit like that, Americans own America and Japan actually owns more of the States than does China.

  • Crock

    This is the biggest crock of shit I ever read. “She likes anime” what the fuck? I know tons of people who are Asian that could care less about it. All Asian people like Anime? I don’t think so, not even, I KNOW so because I live in Asia but I’m not Asian myself. A chick is interested in a man who is different, not who is Asian. There’s no true fetish, but only a preference, so stop trying to gain hits on your bullshit site and for the sake of the non-idiotic, stop writing in general. You know nothing about attraction or sociability for that matter, losers.

  • Crock

    This is the biggest crock of shit I ever read. “She likes anime” what the fuck? I know tons of people who are Asian that could care less about it. All Asian people like Anime? I don’t think so, not even, I KNOW so because I live in Asia but I’m not Asian myself. A chick is interested in a man who is different, not who is Asian. There’s no true fetish, but only a preference, so stop trying to gain hits on your bullshit site and for the sake of the non-idiotic, stop writing in general. You know nothing about attraction or sociability for that matter, losers.

  • :)

    Im dating an asian guy. It just happened didnt plan it :) He is even shorter then me (3 cm only) At first i thought that why does he like me because i have heard asian guys dont like asking white girls out haha quess i was wrong .

  • :)

    Im dating an asian guy. It just happened didnt plan it :) He is even shorter then me (3 cm only) At first i thought that why does he like me because i have heard asian guys dont like asking white girls out haha quess i was wrong .

  • ThatGuy

    Will, if you dig a good looking single asian guy whos fun, smart, down to earth, and loves to enjoy life. Here i am!! (=^o^=)/

  • ThatGuy

    Will, if you dig a good looking single asian guy whos fun, smart, down to earth, and loves to enjoy life. Here i am!! (=^o^=)/

  • Realist….

    Lmao wow Im surprised your over-inflated head even allows the remotest interest from women…Just through your speech patterns its clear that you don’t have much respect for women OR …..Maybe its just WHITE women. I think its so funny though that you keep harping on this connection key, when in all reality it just boils down to attraction. Which for everyone is a personal choice. I myself have never cared for blonde men so would I seek one out…No. We all like what we like and thats it in life. A lot of your stuff is so stereotyped too I dont know whether to be offended or laugh….Lifes to short to get pissy so I guess i’ll choose the latter.

  • Realist….

    Lmao wow Im surprised your over-inflated head even allows the remotest interest from women…Just through your speech patterns its clear that you don’t have much respect for women OR …..Maybe its just WHITE women. I think its so funny though that you keep harping on this connection key, when in all reality it just boils down to attraction. Which for everyone is a personal choice. I myself have never cared for blonde men so would I seek one out…No. We all like what we like and thats it in life. A lot of your stuff is so stereotyped too I dont know whether to be offended or laugh….Lifes to short to get pissy so I guess i’ll choose the latter.

  • Guest

    you are the loser dickhead, you are definitely retarded and this is your 15 minutes of fame right here!

  • Guest

    you are the loser dickhead, you are definitely retarded and this is your 15 minutes of fame right here!

  • http://twitter.com/XxB3ACHxANG3LXx Leslie Morendez

    This is me in a Nutshell this is bad lmao

  • http://twitter.com/XxB3ACHxANG3LXx Leslie Morendez

    This is me in a Nutshell this is bad lmao

  • http://twitter.com/XxB3ACHxANG3LXx Leslie Morendez

    Im Laughing So hard 1-10 is me in a Nutshelle 

  • http://twitter.com/XxB3ACHxANG3LXx Leslie Morendez

    Im Laughing So hard 1-10 is me in a Nutshelle 

  • RayMShaw87

    My boyfriend is Korean & I’m white & I am more attracted to him or anyone else in the world than I have ever been.

  • RayMShaw87

    My boyfriend is Korean & I’m white & I am more attracted to him or anyone else in the world than I have ever been.

  • 419975872@qq.com

    I am gamer as well. You said these games that I almost played and cleared.

  • 419975872@qq.com

    I am gamer as well. You said these games that I almost played and cleared.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_XUNMZOUALEHPCGRP3L4UACGK3M Jerry

    The point is that a girl who likes anime might be into Asian culture and is more likely to date an Asian guy. Nowhere does he claim that all Asians are into anime or that all women who date Asian men are into anime. I’m an Asian guy and I never liked anime.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_XUNMZOUALEHPCGRP3L4UACGK3M Jerry

    The point is that a girl who likes anime might be into Asian culture and is more likely to date an Asian guy. Nowhere does he claim that all Asians are into anime or that all women who date Asian men are into anime. I’m an Asian guy and I never liked anime.

  • tris

    I just find it amazing that some people actually buy this? It’s sad if Asian men really feel like this, you don’t have to, we (females with a brain) don’t find it very important where you’re from, it’s how you act, and if getting laid is all you’re after you’ll always get the same kind of women, no matter where you come from.

  • tris

    I just find it amazing that some people actually buy this? It’s sad if Asian men really feel like this, you don’t have to, we (females with a brain) don’t find it very important where you’re from, it’s how you act, and if getting laid is all you’re after you’ll always get the same kind of women, no matter where you come from.

  • Sarah Ann

     A lot of Asian guys feel like non-Asian women aren’t interested in them because of what the media and stereotypes have lead them to believe. This also causes them to not even want to try dating out of their comfort zone.

  • Sarah Ann

     A lot of Asian guys feel like non-Asian women aren’t interested in them because of what the media and stereotypes have lead them to believe. This also causes them to not even want to try dating out of their comfort zone.

  • Elizamannion

    I have never laughed so much because I see myself in what you said and I have never dated an Asian guy but I do find them very attractive and cute. that whole Martial Arts stuff makes me swoon and I like the mix of calm and strong. Love the Rule 1: “Leave a woman better than you found her.” Good manners when dating any woman!

  • Elizamannion

    I have never laughed so much because I see myself in what you said and I have never dated an Asian guy but I do find them very attractive and cute. that whole Martial Arts stuff makes me swoon and I like the mix of calm and strong. Love the Rule 1: “Leave a woman better than you found her.” Good manners when dating any woman!

  • MuyijnAL

    I am Asian and I feel bad when other foreign girls know more history of my country than I do lol

  • MuyijnAL

    I am Asian and I feel bad when other foreign girls know more history of my country than I do lol

  • Sarah

     You should take it as a compliment. It means they find the culture interesting. You can also relate to them on a different level.

  • Sarah

     You should take it as a compliment. It means they find the culture interesting. You can also relate to them on a different level.

  • Sarah

     Thanks for reading and commenting!

  • Sarah

     Thanks for reading and commenting!

  • SamalieSama

    Can you do one that tells girls if an asian man is interested in a different cultured girl?

  • SamalieSama

    Can you do one that tells girls if an asian man is interested in a different cultured girl?

  • SamalieSama

    Oh and this is soo true but not just for white girls…im black and i am all of those things but i do know more than jus how to buy pho….i know a whole lot more lolz XD

  • SamalieSama

    Oh and this is soo true but not just for white girls…im black and i am all of those things but i do know more than jus how to buy pho….i know a whole lot more lolz XD

  • Gnvgjv

    No I’m white and this is all true for me

  • Gnvgjv

    No I’m white and this is all true for me

  • SamalieSama

     ? huh? i unsderstand that…i said its not only true for white girls…im black and its all true for me too but i knw more than just how to buy pho…

  • SamalieSama

     ? huh? i unsderstand that…i said its not only true for white girls…im black and its all true for me too but i knw more than just how to buy pho…

  • SamalieSama

    hit me up :D

  • SamalieSama

    hit me up :D

  • marisona tsume hayai

    Dear Asian guys , I love you. I am white, and a female, and I am very much attracted to Asian men. please don’t believe the stereotypes, as I would never trie to hurt a man intentionally. I love anime, and Asian food,and I’m currently learning Japanese stop thinking you have no chance with white(and other races) girls as you are beautiful.

  • marisona tsume hayai

    Dear Asian guys , I love you. I am white, and a female, and I am very much attracted to Asian men. please don’t believe the stereotypes, as I would never trie to hurt a man intentionally. I love anime, and Asian food,and I’m currently learning Japanese stop thinking you have no chance with white(and other races) girls as you are beautiful.

  • Ellanewington

    damn this is a description of me ! where are all the asian guys i wanna date!! :(

  • Ellanewington

    damn this is a description of me ! where are all the asian guys i wanna date!! :(

  • AsianBoysTurnMeOn

    I’m really attracted to asian guys, but I don’t live by any:(

  • AsianBoysTurnMeOn

    I’m really attracted to asian guys, but I don’t live by any:(

  • ARandomAsianGuy

    Right here.

  • ARandomAsianGuy

    Right here.

  • ARandomAsianGuy

    Well shoot..that sux :(

  • ARandomAsianGuy

    Well shoot..that sux :(

  • Kira

    what kind of Asian food? try lechon, barbecue , inasal.. XD XD yummmy 

  • Kira

    what kind of Asian food? try lechon, barbecue , inasal.. XD XD yummmy 

  • Solitary_genius

    -he enjoys spending time with you 
    -he is nice to you
    -he feels shy?… >w< LOL 
    -he talks to you everyday =_=

  • Solitary_genius

    -he enjoys spending time with you 
    -he is nice to you
    -he feels shy?… >w< LOL 
    -he talks to you everyday =_=

  • Kira

    I actually find white girls attractive but I feel inferior when I talk to them.. =w= 
    they have those  expensive gadgets while I just have some..and blah2.. just a bit jealous here… T^T they live in a welfare/rich states.. =w=

    and sometimes.. I find it hard to understand some of the phrases they say.. I mean I prefer formal English.. not those “gonna”, “wanna” and other weird phrases/slang OwO 

  • Kira

    I actually find white girls attractive but I feel inferior when I talk to them.. =w= 
    they have those  expensive gadgets while I just have some..and blah2.. just a bit jealous here… T^T they live in a welfare/rich states.. =w=

    and sometimes.. I find it hard to understand some of the phrases they say.. I mean I prefer formal English.. not those “gonna”, “wanna” and other weird phrases/slang OwO 

  • Dioskuret

    racial inferiority at its best , congratulation slanty eyes

  • Dioskuret

    racial inferiority at its best , congratulation slanty eyes

  • Kasey Donahue

    Take it from a white girl who really loves Asian guys, this is SOOOO right it’s ridiculous. Right now, I’m learning Chinese, I have 信 on my back, I love K-Pop and I work at a Chinese restaurant and wear a qipao to work every day. 

    The sexiest thing in the world to me is an asian guy with confidence. 

  • Leonidaz

    I’m a bit surprised, since all the signs JT mentioned are waayyyy too obvious. I dont think the guys who asked JT were expecting these answers, you’d believe there are more subtle signals. Although I completely agree that you shouldn’t limit yourself to your ethnic group.

  • Park

    You guys are such losers

  • lauren

    I think Asian men are so handsome in so many ways! I had to come here to
    see how obvious i made it when i talk to Asian :D

  • Kate

    You hit the nail right on the head. I’m a white girl, and have always preferred Asian men. I display all of what’s listed except for the first one.

  • Non-Hater

    Got a good laugh out of this one XD
    People you hating too much on an amusing article

  • Rudy

    I’m black. I don’t actually fit into most of these categories (except for interracial babies and the fact that I speak Japanese- actually speak it). But I do love Asian men-so much- too much! Lol

  • CK

    by seeing so many non-Asian girls commenting on and complimenting our Asian men, I just can’t wait to see y’all show up in front of me. I swear I will keep you and not let you go. We Asian men are usually shy, but when we get comfortable, we are pretty fun people to be around with. So hit us up!

  • CK

    Dear White girl, good choice!

  • Yunchie

    Sad totally over looked the non white females….glad many Asian men haven’t…

  • Thomson Bryan Lim Uy

    Only if it’s that easy. White females have a good tendency to only date their own kinds.

  • Thomson Bryan Lim Uy

    If only there’s more of you. Lol

  • Jennifer

    Some of these are true for me. I date all types of guys but find I am most attracted to Asian men. I like Asian food, have a Chinese best friend, have travelled to Asia & dated Asian men before. I think all this has contributed to me being open to dating Asian men.

  • Chester

    Here’s a community where you can network and make friends with Asian males and white females. http://amwfsn.com/join?refuser=3933

  • Sammie_eme

    I’m half Mexican/half Irish and I admire Asian guys. I’ve dated an Asian man who is half Cambodian and half Vietnamese. I’m also multicultural and his family likes me. :) Our relationship lasted for six months but it didn’t work out because of long distance. Now I’m dating a Vietnamese guy who just immigrated from Vietnam. We both are compatible because we are in the same category/common interests. ^_^ Even better, we live closer to each other! :3

  • relmneiko

    Lol oh this article made me feel so awkward. As a white chick, I would wince at seeing another white chick with some terrible tattoo in a language she doesn’t understand! I freaking know Japanese but I could never get a tattoo because of the embarrassment factor… I’m too white for that stuff XD Not that I haven’t seen Asians with embarrassing/incorrect tattoos in European languages!

    I feel like white chicks who are into Asian guys get away with a lot more weird stuff/fetishization than white guys who are into Asian women, probably because we’re in the minority, and gender dynamics change things as well. But I still feel a little creepy knowing that I’m more attracted to Asian guys, though I try not to be creepy about it. I mean, the individual is more important in the end. But I feel like it’s not kosher to have a racial preference. I dunno if I’m the only one who feels this way.

  • joije

    You obviously love us! Let us become ninjas! :)) LOLZ.

  • Chang

    To all the non asian girls who like asian guys, if you are really interested in a guy and it so happens he’s asian don’t plz don’t do all of the things mentioned in the article.. really it makes us feel awkward, just make a casual approach, just say hi, smile, make a lousy comment, plz don’t drop on your knees like you are praising Buddha or make the V sign, or start talking about sushi.. really..

  • Asswipe

    I’m sorry, but 1, which has the quotations, indicating that she “Kmows” meaning a few words, 3-9 are all fetishizations.
    Not anything she would actually do IF she was interested, especially kpoppers, and cosplayers.

  • Cute Hana

    Oh yes I love asian guys..im a blond girl that loves asian guys…
    But noone is living near :(
    Maybe text my : CuteHana

  • Les

    hahaha man!!! SO TRUE!

  • eoin

    hahaahahhahah good choice im asian and livng in scandinavia now and i never see a couple with asian man and blondie girllllll

  • Harry_Hogfart

    The United Nations world health organization has declared the asian penis to be a new subset of sexless non-reproductive organ. One of the doctors on the council who did not want to be identified said

    ”Well it is certainly not a vagina although the tiny asian penis does somewhat resemble in size the enlarged clitoris of women on high doses of testosterone, yet the tiny asian penis is not quiet a real penis as it is incapable of sexually satisfying a women. Taking a cue from the field of
    astronomy who recently renamed celestial objects like Pluto as Dwarf Planets we at first thought of classifying the asian penis as a Dwarf Penis but we did not want to cause confusion with people with Dwarfisum (who’s penises are larger than that of asian males) so we settled on the term Tiny Asian Penis Syndrome (TAPS) with the colloquial terms Dinky Dongs and Widdel Wangs.

    The problem is compounded by the fact that most asian men suffer from a mental disorder known as penile dismorphisum that is they look at there own tiny asian penis and see a big fat cock a literal throbbing python of lust ware every one else sees the reality of just another mini size love worm It is not unlike girls with anorexia who although starved half to death look in
    a mirror and see themselves as a fattycakes

  • Kia

    Find a girl who doesn’t see any differences based on race. A man is a man. As long as he grew up in the same country – you most likely have a lot of things in common. If you happen to fall for a girl of another race, realize she is a girl like any other girl.

    I’m a white girl dating an Asian guy. I absolutely adore his features, but that isn’t the main reason I am dating him. I’m dating him for who he is as a whole and how he treats me.

  • Luong the Viet

    Please get off your drugs. We Asians have already replaced whites in numbers. Now we Asian men will STEAL ALL your beautiful sexy White girls :-)

  • Luong the Viet

    I’m a Viet guy and I love having sex with beautiful sexy White girls. And I’m encouraging more Viet guys to steal your White girls from white men so your white race will become extinct even faster :-D

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH

  • Luong the Viet

    Good luck with that Sammie! I personally know of another Viet guy who is dating a half-Mexican/half-Irish girl, too! They absolutely LOVE each other :-)