How Short Men Can Attract Tall Women Tips

How Short Men Can Attract Tall Women Tips

Society constantly sends the message that short men are inferior to taller men. This idea that taller men are better than short men can really hurt the self-esteem of a shorter guy who believes this notion. If you’re a short guy, there are ways to attract women regardless of your height.

You have to accept that you’re short and there’s very little you can do to change that. But here’s the important principal:

If you can’t change it, EMBRACE IT.

Acceptance empowers you. Once you accept that you’re short, you can focus on developing other aspects of yourself to be more attractive. Start going to the gym if you’re out of shape and hire a trainer. Develop some fashion sense and make yourself look good.

Take an improv class so that you can think quicker on your feet and be a better conversationalist. There are all kinds of ways to be more attractive, but you can only start once you get over your insecurity.

Height only makes up a fraction of what women find attractive in a man. In fact, some women may like your height because it’s a unique aspect of who you are.

Women like the whole man, not just singular parts. With that being said, you should never be afraid to date taller women. The biggest insecurity of short men is to date a taller woman because they find it intimidating and it makes them feel inferior.

Attracting a taller woman is no different than attracting a shorter woman. You still have to build a connection, handle her insecurities, and stimulate her senses. Short men have missed amazing encounters with beautiful women because they were too bashful to make a move.

Your height is as much a part of you as your eye color or race. You shouldn’t be ashamed of it. Desiring any other situation is futile, as modern science hasn’t found a way to make you taller. Being awesome for your mind, humor, actions, values, and personality is what attracts women to the point where height becomes a non-factor.

Own your strengths and flaws, and you’ll be better off for it.

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  • guest

    I’m not afraid to date taller woman, it’s just more awkward. I recently got rejected by a super cute girl, she has a boyfriend. She’s attracted to me I can tell (I’m not bad looking) but she was my height and it’s hard to find girls my height I like, really bums me out. I’m too short. I’m done looking, this is stupid, I shouldn’t even asked her, I had a feeling she was seeing someone, I couldn’t figure out why she was being super nice to me but never asked about my personal life, but now I know why.

  • Frank Johnson

    This blog made me think of my early 20’s,
    as I was rejected by the foxes who chased after the Alfa males and showed no
    more interest in me than glancing at a blade of grass next to the highway
    traveling at 75 MPH. And this made me
    think about my own personal experiences with tall women, a slightly different
    story from this blog, but same result due to being a Beta male. One 6’
    tall girl, in a gym, talked to me with such a look of disinterested she
    couldn’t have looked or acted more uninterested if she had wanted to. I approached another, who I estimated being 5
    foot 9 or 10 inches. She got angry with
    me for even asking her out and stuck her finger in my face informing me she
    didn’t date shorter men. On line, I met a girl 5’11”, and we worked out together
    once in my apartment complex gym, after that she did not return my two phone
    calls, there could be others, too, I just don’t remember them all. Now,
    you may say the rejections were because of my looks, that could be true, but as
    I approached girls closer to my height, my success rate went way up.

    This blog also made me think about the
    rejections by tall girls, and it angered me, but not at the time the
    rejection. Only years later, when I actually tallied them up, did I get
    angry. I was rejected not because I was fat, bald, ugly, deformed or had
    a rotten personality. No. The reason I was rejected by all of these
    women was my height. Not a one even
    bothered to put forth the effort to get to know me much less date me.

    I did date three women who were
    significantly taller than me, two at 5’11” and one at 5’10”. (I am 5’8”)
    And all three happened to be 32 years of age, which is more than a
    coincidence and a tie in with this blog.
    No doubt all three wanted a tall Alfa male, and lost, so a safe stable
    Beta male was the next best thing in their 30’s, for I certainly didn’t grow
    any taller and I doubt I got better looking.
    These women were past their prime and worried. I was
    in my late 30’s, at this time of my life, after being married for 10
    years. It was also at this time, I
    could easily date younger women, and I did.
    When I was 38, my first girlfriend was 27, the next was 27 and the next
    was 24 who became my second wife. I
    never dated with any intent of marrying a woman my age. Younger women had no issue with me dating
    them, and I certainly had no issue dating them.
    I remember going to singles events and seeing very pretty women, who
    were my age, who I know 15 years earlier would not have given me the time of
    day. And even now, they may have looked
    better than myself, but now it was me who had no interest in approaching them. I did not want to take time and money away
    from pursuing younger women. Why go old,
    when I could go young? I was amazed how
    the dating game changed in my favor. And
    I used it to my advantage, just as women had done years earlier.

    I am now married and have 4 sons. I
    have 3 degrees, and I have co-authored 2 US patents. I could have
    provided a good life to any girl. I wanted a taller girl because of the
    physical turn on and to for fill one of my desires, yet not one single tall
    girl (in her 20’s) gave me a chance. I was turned down consistently and without
    a second thought. (Maybe due to the Alfa male fascination) So, if you find yourself in your late 20’s or
    early 30’s with no prospect of a husband or children in the immediate future,
    you have no one to blame but yourself. There were men like me, who wanted
    a leggy female, but they, like me, were never accorded the opportunity. (This
    also applies to average height women, too)
    And the reality is that the vast majority of tall women will not even
    consider a shorter man (and Beta males) until it is too late. You would
    think it would be obvious that if you included shorter males (and Beta males) in
    your suitor selection, your odds would increase of finding a mate. There
    are a lot more short and medium height males than there are taller ones.
    So my advice would be to accept the advances of all men and get to know
    them. I, who would have relished the opportunity of having curvy broad
    hips and a tapered waist to hold all night and to make love to into the early
    hours of the morning, was never, not once, even given a chance to start a
    relationship. Throw away the yardstick, for you may find someone like me,
    who would love to share his life and love with a tall girl.

    By the way, another tie in with this
    article and be found at this web site.

    http://shortguycentral.com/P-57/beware-of-the-reformed-heightist-woman

    This writer tell about his rejections in his 20’s by
    women only to find that women now chased after him, in spite of his height, now
    he is in his early 30’s. He warns of the
    dangers of the “Reformed Heightest Woman” who are desperate after wasting their
    life chasing the Alfa male and now want a stable Beta with a steady pay-check.

    Here is anther on how women who
    found the Mr. Average (Beta Males) were worth nothing in their 20’s and now
    that these women are in their 30’s can’t buy a date, even from the Beta Males

    Why women lose in the dating game

    http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/why-women-lose-the-dating-game-20120421-1xdn0.html

    During their 20s, women compete for the most highly desirable men, the
    Mr Bigs. Many will readily share a bed with the sporty, attractive, confident
    men, while ordinary men miss out. As Whiskey puts it at
    whiskeysplace.wordpress.com: ”Joe Average Beta Male is about as desirable to
    women as a cold bowl of oatmeal.”

    ”I
    can’t believe how many men my age are only interested in younger women,” wails
    Gail, a 34-year-old advertising executive as she describes her first search
    through men’s profiles on the RSVP internet dating site. She is shocked to find
    many mid-30s men have set up their profiles to refuse mail from women their own
    age.

    Talking
    to many women like her, it’s intriguing how many look back on past
    relationships where they let good men get away because they weren’t ready.
    American journalist Kate Bolick wrote recently in The Atlantic about breaking off her three-year
    relationship with a man she described as ”intelligent, good-looking, loyal and
    kind”. She acknowledged ”there was no good reason to end things”, yet, at
    the time, she was convinced something was missing in the relationship. That was
    11 years ago. She’s is now 39 and facing grim choices.

  • Harry_Hogfart

    Short in height is no problem, short in penis is a deal killer, no self respecting woman wants to be molested with a Vienna sausage

    http://oi63.tinypic.com/27zi055.jpg

  • Juan Ortega

    I have always felt inferior because of my being height challenged as a male 5’3″ and in early years high school and college I may have had a total of 3 or 4 dates and now in my late 40s and
    having been very financially successful my extreme shortness seems not to bend as much a problem with older taller women and in fact a woman I have been with the past year is 5’11” and thinks nothing of wearing hi heels and thinks nothing of our extreme height difference and claims to find towering over me as a total turn
    on even though the stares and comments are always evident especially at valet and going in a
    restaurant.

  • Jack Granger

    It was suggested I look at this blog and as a male 5’6″ it hasn’t really provided anything that helps with my frustration of what seems to always being a head shorter or more than the beautiful women I come in contact with and it seems they have no problem telling me how good looking I am it’s your just to damn short for me to be with.
    On one occasion a very tall woman over 6′ wanted to see what the novelty would be like with a man who came up to her boobs and she so indicated that and later told me it was the best sex she ever had and we will see each other we just don’t go out in public.