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 Post subject: THE 30 DAY DIRECT CHALLENGE GUIDELINES
PostPosted: 24 Nov 2008, 08:19 
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 Post subject: What is the opener???
PostPosted: 24 Nov 2008, 12:54 
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Okay! Want to do it!

BUT please: What is the kamikaze opener? (I will find out when I take the bootcamp next month, but since the challenge is up now...)

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 Post subject: Re: THE 30 DAY DIRECT CHALLENGE GUIDELINES
PostPosted: 24 Nov 2008, 13:25 
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The following link is for a glossary of terms:

viewtopic.php?f=49&t=1700

An example of a Kamikaze opener is:

"You are ridiculously hot, I had to come over and meet you"

By the way, I would like to offer to be the one to take your money if you need someone to do that.


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 Post subject: Re: THE 30 DAY DIRECT CHALLENGE GUIDELINES
PostPosted: 24 Nov 2008, 13:58 
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What the hell is a boomerang and ninjitsu? And, the kamikaze definition is very vague too in that glossary.

Can we just make all the terms simpler, instead of using weird Japanese suicide words for this stuff? :lol:

"You are ridiculously hot" - A super-direct opener.



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 Post subject: Re: THE 30 DAY DIRECT CHALLENGE GUIDELINES
PostPosted: 24 Nov 2008, 14:02 
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 Post subject: Re: THE 30 DAY DIRECT CHALLENGE GUIDELINES
PostPosted: 24 Nov 2008, 18:36 
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sweet thanks ofr creating the 30 day direct challenge.
the kamikaze opener is quite ballsy but i think i can do it.
i've been doing mostly giving sincere compliments.
kamikaza is similar but a bit more ballsy.


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 Post subject: Re: THE 30 DAY DIRECT CHALLENGE GUIDELINES
PostPosted: 25 Nov 2008, 02:58 
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Hello:

Still here lurking and reading.

I've been doing the indirect approaches and attempting to build a social network.

I used to work in the Hotel Industry (70% females and most young, single, foreign) and it was jam packed with opportunities, which I did not take advantage to the fullest.

At least, it made me less socially inept.

when do we start?


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 Post subject: Re: THE 30 DAY DIRECT CHALLENGE GUIDELINES
PostPosted: 05 Jan 2009, 06:08 
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This is a fantastic challenge that I encourge everyone to do. Good luck to everyone.

One word of advice, when going direct, especially with the Kamkazi openers, you have to dedicate yourself, go in alpha yet vunerable, and give her an honest compliment. Put your ego aside and allow yourself to succeed AND fail, and you'll have amazing results.


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 Post subject: Re: THE 30 DAY DIRECT CHALLENGE GUIDELINES
PostPosted: 01 Feb 2009, 04:51 
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I love this thread. I've been doing direct daygame for about 2 months now and have reached a point where I am consistently getting numbers but having a hard time getting them on dates.

Just like APB requested, I've been hitting on ladies of all different colors.

Just so everyone here knows, I am a 22 year old graduate student in Philadelphia. I think that I had pretty solid social skills before I found the game but I definitely could be doing better.

Going direct is a very liberating experience and will give you confidence to go do it again. Many of the obstacles you face in a nightclub suddenly disappear during the daytime, although you will have to deal with a different sort of situation. For example, you don't have to deal with drunken AMOGs or blaring music. If you get blown out in a club and all the girls see you, your social proof goes down a bit. However, during the daytime all you have to do is eject and go to the next street/store to find another girl.

Based on my results, I've figured out that I get a number from about 1 out of every 6 women that I hit on. This is not because they don't like me, it's because I'm a newbie and I eject for no reason sometimes!

I generally say something like this:

"Forgive me for being so forward....but you...are SO beautiful. I just HAD to come over here and talk to you or else I'd be kicking myself later."

"Hey, where can I get a good cup of coffee around here? Actually....I didn't really care about the coffee. I just wanted to come over here and flirt with you."

Both of these work very well. When you deliver it right you see her melt in front of you and it's just amazing. I feel like once you get the first one out of the way the rest of them become very easy. It may seem scary at first but definitely try it! You won't regret it.

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 Post subject: Re: THE 30 DAY DIRECT CHALLENGE GUIDELINES
PostPosted: 10 Feb 2009, 11:01 
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ok uh. fuck. i decided that sometimes you just gotta set it up so that you either succeed or burn, if you want to succeed. and; your goals need to be inspiring.

so I am going to do this even if its just 3 dollars a day/approach. (college student).

class now. but more later.


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