SpacePirate's unintentional 30-day direct challenge

Didn't really mean to do this, but I've already done 4 days in a row, so might as well continue. I have to make a couple of changes to this though. I can't do 30 days in a row, because I only have the opportunity to go sarging 4-6 times a month (not even day game). But I will do it 30 days in a row where I actually see a HB. Also, there's no ABC (Already Been Chewed) wings around me, so I will have to donate the money to a Tourette's charity or something. Shit balls.

Day 1:
(at club)
SP: You are fucking adorable.
HB: Thank you.
SP: (5 minute girl friend)
HB: laughs and hugs

Day 2:
(at airport. Missed a couple of opportunities, so really had to pump myself up to do this)
SP: I love your shirt.
HB: Backturns, walks away, does a double take, turns around, smiles and says thank you.

(She was a bit chunkier than I realized. Maybe she doesn't get a lot of compliments. lol.)

Day 3:
SP: I love your glasses.
HB: Thanks!
SP: You've definitely got the herd look. Do you know what a herd is?
HB: What?
SP: A hot nerd!
HB: haha

Day 4:
SP: I love that dress. You're fucking adorable in it.
HB: (a bit weirded out) Thanks.
SP: (5 minute girlfriend)
HB: (fake laugh, weirded out even more)

At this point, I'm not sure what to do. So I stand there. Further creeping her out. After 30 seconds, she runs away. lol. It's weird how this was very similar to day 1, but I could definitely tell that my delivery was odd. I should be able to correct this next time. Alternative would have been to talk about something else.


That's it for now. I'll post more days when I have the chance.

- SpacePirate

here you go:

http://www.abcofattraction.com/community/viewtopic.php?f=45&t=12

Thanks Sight!

Day 5:
It's Sunday, and there's nothing going on in the entire city. Finally got to the place at 11:50, and there's nothing but couples. I decide that paying $10 is better than getting punched in the face.

Day 6:
Was solo sarging in a club, and was having a bit of trouble getting into state. Finally decided, "Fuck it, what do I have to lose? I'm going to at least approach a hottie and eject immediately." The problem is that the opener hooked, and I walked away as she was trying to respond to me!

This was the first time I tried "I love your style, especially the xxxx" and it was money. Definitely going to use it again.

Day 7:
Same club, just a few minutes after midnight, so I'm going to count it. Went with "I love your necklace" and then talked about my own necklace, then transitioned to making her qualify herself. Pretty cool stuff. Very natural if you do it right.



As an aside, I started this challenge at the same time that I started going solo sarging a lot. I had done this with great results after bootcamp, but had gotten away from it recently. The first time going solo again was really shitty, but by the third time it was really cool again. I love it.

As another aside, William's BAM podcast really helped me turn the corner. Previously I was very humble and accentuated the negatives (like all Asians). Now, I have a super positive outlook and it's made sarging so much more fun. Two quotes in particular really helped me:

1. Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits.
2. Instead of thinking of reasons you can't approach her, think of reasons you CAN approach her.

Thanks William!

- SpacePirate

P.S. Almost got killed by the Russian mafia tonight for talking to this guy's sister. Fortunately she disarmed them for me. If nothing else, this 30 day challenge is going to leave me with a lot of great stories.

are there really Russian Mafia in Nightclubs?

I see russian hookers here though.

Does it count if she goes direct on you? Yesterday, I was standing around at a bar, and this girl comes up in front of me, reaches around and grabs my ass. She squeezes for about 3 seconds, and then walks off. I finally think of what to say ("That'll be five dollars!") but she didn't hear me. Oh well.

Day 8:
Was at a massive concert at night. Maybe it was me, but seemed like there were no unattached females and everyone was very standoffish. Oh well, another $10.

Day 9:
Same concert, but got there during the day. Everyone was much friendlier. Went with "I love your hair." She lit up. Banter a bit, and decide to get funny and said "I love your hair too" to her friend. First girl comes back with she loves my hair. SHOULD have said something like, "Hey, easy now. We just met." or something C&F. Instead went all AFC "aw, shucks, thanks."

Day 9 bonus:
Opened 3 sets during the day, and all went pretty well, so was feeling bold. Then it became night time and everyone became really standoffish again. Kino turned a girl, opened my mouth to say "You are damn cute. Just thought you should know." I didn't even get out the "You are" part before she backturned and ran.

Day 10:
Luke-warm approach. We were all hanging out with the same group. Hadn't met her yet, so I will count it. Went with the weakest of the weak: "I love your sunglasses."

Day 11:
At a sporting event. There were 1 or 2 sets I could have gone direct on, but it would have required extraordinary effort to get to them. Plus, hanging out with my non-community friends really brings my state down. I know that whatever I do, good or bad, will be told to all our mutual friends. Sure enough, the next day I was hearing about myself (I opened and hooked a big-tittied HB later that night). Oh well, another $10.

Day 12:
Dunno what's wrong with me. Having trouble getting into state. Another $10. Did #close an HB9.8 (no such thing as a 10) that night though. Possibly the hottest girl I've ever #closed, certainly hottest since I joined the community.

Day 13:
Even worse than day 12. Could not get into state at all. It's not AA. I think I'm just tired because work has been shitting on me lately. Another $10. Shit!!!

- SpacePirate

Day 14: Was chatting with some chick. We were talking about nice guys, and she says "Nice guys finish last." I hear "You have a nice ass." So I grabbed her and turned her around so I could check out her ass. Then I kino turn the girl on the other side of me (not in the conversation) and say, "You have a nice ass." She sticks out her ass and starts shaking it around.

Day 15: Walking down the street. Interrupted the conversation to approach a girl with a flower in her hair. "Hey, I love your style. I love that flower in your hair." Walk off and continue conversation.

Day 16: Oh well, it's only $$. Another $10.

Day 17: Practicing day game at Wal-mart. Girl looks great from behind. Walk past her and open with "I love those shoes." That's when it hits me - whoa! Talk about Buttaface! Exchange a couple more comments, but can't get over the gap in her teeth. Eject.

I've stopped updating this thread out of laziness. But I go direct at least a couple of times every time I sarge. Direct is awesome! As JT says, it's a REQUIRED part of every Asian man's toolbox.

- SpacePirate