I posted this as a field report.. but, feel like this thread is a written record of my challenges.. so, for those of you that find it here:
Last weekend while I was in the field, I learned that you should never EVER give up too soon.
Some nights turn out way different than you expect. I could even go to a deeper level and say most nights could turn out way different that you're letting them. This field report is about what you can accomplish by trying! Have you heard the saying, “When life hands you lemons... make lemonade." ? But, I ask you... what if you are the one that is choosing lemons?! Then I would say, you have no one to possibly blame but yourself.
I will admit that I was a total AFC all night... except for 1 reason. New skills that I picked up from training with J.T. and Gareth.
This is why that in spite of making mistakes like only approaching one set that I went 1 for 1 and batted 1000. I should actually say I went 2 for 1. My new skills allowed me to get 2 women from 1 approach. Now get this.. This was the only approach I made all night long! Talk about feeling like Ichiro at the plate!! In retrospect, I'm ashamed to admit I made that single approach all night. But, at least I made lemonade from that bad choice. You see I'm still starting my 30 day challenge and I need to approach many women.
Now on to the field report.
My wing and I started the night out by hitting the west side. We venue hopped around a street walk with clubs. We were supposed to meet up with a couple friends and got side tracked looking for other friends that were supposed to join. We had made the commitment to half party and half sarge (my other friends don't know about "fight club"). When those friends flaked we went to a bigger venue. This particular venue is very target rich. VERY DARK and VERY LOUD. Personally I don't like it... it's a dance club. My wing went to aeronautical school at Daytona Beach, Florida ( former MTV spring break USA ) so he is obviously partial to the dance floor setting. Since he just moved back from NY the venue was his choice.
We dance and look for some set's to approach. I'm feeling my way through the dark. This sucks. I need night vision goggles to figure out who I'm talking to and that is really pissing me off. Of course I complain. AND.. that's when he does it... "I haven't seen shit... you went to boot camp. I'll bet you right now a round of drinks you will not go talk to a girl." It was like a little J.T. on my shoulder at boot camp telling me to do something. I forgot about the shit venue... I forgot about my bad attitude.. my training kicked in... I turned into a sarge ninja.
I had spotted a 2 set of HB10s dancing together like lesbians in heat. I wanted between them so bad it hurt. Odd because they were dancing away from the dance floor and between the bar and the wall of china. There were multiple groups of girls hanging out in this zone. Next to them I've been noticing an HB7ish Latina holding 2 beers and just standing there. I have to just laugh. It's been 15 secs since he issued this challenge.
I walk over next to HB7 sweet Latina and stand next to her. I make direct eye contact, but turn my body out from her and look at the two girls dancing while I open her. "You've got to be kidding me.... you're just standing here holding drinks for your friends while they dance and have fun?" I noticed that this got the HB10 "lesbians" attention. Odd how every action results in changes.
HB7 sweet Latina - "Oh no.. I don't know them.
ME - With a quizzing look, "Haha.. so then you're just standing here and double fisting? You know they have meetings for that."
HB7 sweet Latina - Laughing.. "No.. I'm DD and my girlfriend went to the rest room.. I'm just waiting."
ME - "Are you kidding.. She left you standing here by yourself?? Isn't that against girl code or something.. I thought you guys do everything together?"
HB7 sweet Latina - "Haha.. well, no.. my other friend is on the dance floor with this guy she started dating and tonight we are seriously trying to get her laid. It's a long story, but.. it's been like a year"
ME - "oh wow, yeah... is he a nice guy?"
HB7 sweet Latina - "yeah.. and she really likes him. we think tonights the big night"
ME - "HAHA.. well then let's get her laid!! (PAUSE.. in low voice I whispered in her ear) So you really are like the mother hen - house mom taking care of all your girls?"
HB7 sweet Latina - starts qualifying herself.. knows how to have fun.. yada yada
At this time my wing comes over with the drink I won. She has a shocked look when some guy just walks up and hands me a drink. It was a DHV. I put my arm around her and did introductions. I accidentally handed my empty glass back to him. Didn't mean to DLV my wing. This is because I was pumped about showing him up, didn't know what to do with two glasses, and the other one was grabbing ass. This was funny because she giggled and walked the glass to the bar. When she returned she jokingly scolded me. To which I joked back that she REALLY was a mother hen and it was universal justice that he had lost a gentleman's wager ( more DHVs ). I introduced him as my good friend and we were celebrating at his favorite club since he just moved back. After introductions my wing went away to the dance floor and leaves us isolated.
At this point we are maybe 5-6 minutes in.
At this club we already were in comfort. That's because there is no where to sit down unless you have a VIP section. We banter about places to go out. I tell her a story about how I was in a brawl at this club because of a friend's fight and pretty much got jumped by 8 people, but wouldn't leave my friend who was knocked out on the ground out back. This story communicated to her that I'm a protector of my friends. I tell her that I'm mostly here tonight for my wing. I'm using social circle proof by telling her who I hang out with, where I go, and about my experiences.
I mention that what I really want to do is go eat. I'm hungry and that they should come have breakfast with us later. To which she says "yes, here's my number". During this time her GF, cute little HB7 red head pops up. We make introductions and I banter and joke. I can tell HB7 red is interested right away. I tell them I need to look for my friend and I'll catch up later.
I find him at the dance floor.. dance around looking for god knows... "wookies in the dark"??? I tell him she has a friend and drag him back around the club. We go stand in that area, but I can't spot them. We're talking when I feel something like a rolled up foil gum wrapper hit me in the nose. I'm like.. "what the hell?" HB7 cute little red was the one that threw the wrapper at me. We walk over...
Oddly enough all this is happening VERY close to closing time.
ME.. "You hit my nose.. could you be any better of an aim? Really!??"
HB7 Cute red - giggling..
Me.. "Ok.. well, we're talking about breakfast and you're welcome to join us"
THEM.. "resounding yes.."
Somehow HB7 Latina mentions something about knowing how to make really good pancakes.
That was my hook for the rest of the evening. I would just go... mmmmmmm pancakes. It was easy to get her to agree that she would show me how to fix them.
We end up walking across the street to this little pizza joint that lots of people in the area go to for after party eats. During this time I'm holding hands, walking, and escalating touch with HB7 sweet latina while my buddy instantly does the same with HB7 cute red.
While we are in comfort eating our pizza I did some storytelling but, mostly remember some buying temperature (BT spike gambits) I used to keep conversation going. These turned the conversation sexual.
I quizzed, Apples or Oranges? Looking from one girl to the other. They answered me giggly quick and to me that indicated they were hooked and complying. HB7 cute red head answered apples and I went ewwww... I don't know if I can be close with you. Then I asked Redsox or Yankees? Generally because no one really cares... But, everyone knows both teams and the rivalry. As fast as they could answer.. I fired back my last one: straight or curved? HAHAHA... their mouths drop open and they look at each other. Latina puts her hand on the inside of my thigh and with no hesitation says "I like a little curve". Red head giggles and says.. well what do you mean? I laugh and say.. to Latina "you don't let her out by herself do you?" I turn to the red head and look her straight in the eyes.. " you know exactly what I mean." She giggles and the conversation goes sexual. They bring up wondering where their friend is and say they bet she is having sex in the car. Which of course I say I love car sex. Latina and I kino and paw each other under the table.
HB7 cute red notices my iPhone and asks if I have words for friends. This is a game you play online with someone else. I act excited.. "YES! I do.. I love it!!" She takes my phone and puts her word for friends user name in. This game is cool because it is scrabble and has a chat feature. Meaning her and I are going to start playing each other!!!
**KEEP READING THIS IS WHAT MADE EVERYTHING SO COOL**
Anyways, I ask them to come back to the apartment.. we hangout and HB7 Latina is ready to take me home with her. She's laying with me on the couch and HB7 red is doing the same with my wing. Now she has already expressed interest in me too.. but, I'm happy with the arrangement. My wing really isn't into her attitude and fucks it up. She gets pissed because he goes off on her for deleting photos we took earlier while she is looking at his camera. So... they leave. HB7 Latina texts me her address for me to come over the next afternoon ( decided we both wanted to sleep ), while HB7 red is playing the scrabble game on her iphone with me. That whole night and even at HB7 latinas house I'm playing the scrabble game and chatting with HB7 red through the games functionality. I don't even have her number yet.. but, we are talking. Pretty cool way to have talked to her without offending the HB7 Latina. I chat that should get her number so we can text. She responds that she is worried that her friend likes me and sends the number. I respond that I just met them both and I haven't hung out with anyone so how could anyone know? I ask her if she thinks I'm just a piece of meat. She responds yes. To which I say I have some meat.. and it continues as you can imagine.
Anyways.. I FCLOSE HB7 Latina and kept HB7 Red on the hook. After I leave HB7 Latina's place... HB7 red asks me to hang out. I end up seeing her the next day. I have to tell her not to worry about her friend and that we all just met and that I'm interested in getting to know them. Pretty much let her know I wasn't going to say anything. There was some initial resistance, but HB7 Red pounced on me and FCLOSED.
HB7 Latina says I have the biggest cock ever and I can come over whenever I want. That she's going to be talking about me for a long time. I think HB7 red was a one time thing.. she probably doesn't want her friend to know.
Anyways... my wing was amazed and commented that there was a 100% difference in my pickup abilities.
So there you have it my friends.... a good night for the record books!!!!
You can also read this in my 30 day challenge by clicking on the link below.
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