This is my curse: No second dates!

Alright guys, I recently met this girl in the 2011 Udie Run. She was very cute, tight body, and a cute face. My wingman, votcho opened a 2 set with the line, "hey, you guys look cute, lets take a picture!" We were having a great time interacting and went our separate ways with eachother's numbers. Later that night she texts me saying, "Hey! so what's up for tonight?" That night I ended up being really busy sleeping, (don't judge me! haha) so I ended up texting her, "I am really busy, but I would love to take you out on a date." She agreed by saying, "I would love for you to take me out! I am counting on it." So I made the plans and everything was set for the next following day. The night went amazing, I took her to the best view of the city, with a fruit salad picnic.

We ended up in the backseat of my car making out and randomly all of our clothes came off, leaving us naked and ready for some action! We had a great time, and I don't have to go into detail on what actually happened...(69, blowjob, fingering, boob job, hand job.) If you noticed that I didn't type down sexual intercourse, well it's because it didn't happened. She told me we wouldn't take it that far, because it was only our first date, but she said in our second date I would be able to fuck her. So after I finished in her face, we put our clothes on and called it a night. I will mention my radio was on the whole entire time, so obviously my car battery died! My wingman, votcho had to come jump us and later we were on our way home, (what a night, huh?) The next day I text her, " I loved our date, your really fun to talk too " and she replied, "Me too Thanks for talking to me!" I followed up and said, "I have something planned out for us, but this time is 10 times better! " Well, she never replied. This is where I need your help. So I texted her 5 days later, and this is the full conversation:

Me: I just saw the cutest thing that reminded me of you.
Her: Awh, what was it?
Me: I was in blockbuster and I came across the Notebook...(She offered to watch this movie with me, because I have never actually seen it.)
Her: hahaha cute! watch it!!!!!
Me: You would say that! Can you imagine a man renting that movie by himself, haha
Her: Haha so what!? They'd think you're sensitive.
Me: That's what all men want to believe, and maybe when I am with a female companion i'll consider renting it, haha.
Her: Hahah a female companion!? Jusss get ittt!
Me: Too late I ended renting something else, but I appreciate your enthusiasm.

Now, that was the second time she has stop replying to my text. My friends are telling me she is just playing hard to get, because I had such a great night, and even made future plans with her. I believe I can generate enough attraction and comfort in the first date, that I can end up hooking up with women. (Me losing my virginity to a 28 year old, when I am only 18 years old, can be used as an example.) This has been bothering me so bad...Am I doing something wrong, why am I not generating enough attraction to get the second date? Any advice would be such a help.

Thank you my good friends!

Not sure where your going wrong here,

But one thing I do know for sure is that some girl's like flings, for some girls anything that resembles a relationship scares them. Think of when you screw a girl and run and then she'll always sms and call you, sometime's you don't reply. Girls can be the same, this game works both ways.

And also how often does this problem happen for you? you call it a curse but would you say it happens 10 out of 10 sets?

Dont worry about it..after two sessions with Gareth my score is...
Hot girls 12
Eric 0
How is it that everything is ok ?

Couple things I would've done differently:

1. Not sent the "i loved our date" text. It's obvious if you jizzed on her face you enjoyed it. I would've been a little more neutral about following up.

2. I would've seeded future date ideas way way in advance. This can begin during casual chatting during the first date and it shows you're thinking about doing plenty of stuff with her in advance. It's an early LMR (last minute resistance) technique. I wrote about it in my recent LMR article: "To Close, Or Not To Close?"

3. Less texting after the date. The whole Notebook thing, I would've turned into a request for the next date like so:

YOU: I just saw the cutest thing that reminded me of you.
HER: Awh, what was it?
YOU: It's a hilarious story. I'll have to tell you in person. Btw, when are you free this week?
HER: blah blah blah
YOU: Perfect, see you then.

4. I'm assuming the picnic was in the day time. I always do dates at night since F Closes are almost always at night. This is my method: Date Planning Made Simple Both my wing and I have tested it with great success.

Good card Jester. I would of played it similar.

I was just giving him a different view and angle of approach to the problem. A lot of the time's it won't even be our problem when the girl flakes but any random stupid reason she didn't want to see you again.

Some newbies are abit too hard on themselves.

Minh N: Your right, I wont take it too serious or personal next time! This girl I slept with a few days ago keeps texting me, and I rarely reply back, so thinking about it..the game works both ways. Great advice man!

The_Jester: I will read your LMR article as well as the "Date Planning Made Simple." I appreciate the awesome advice!

Malibu51: Thanks for the advice as well man!