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Hey everyone
I took the Vegas bootcamp with Cantor and Prize - our instructors were Johnny Wolf and Sonic. I had one HELL of a time.
First, let me tell you a bit about myself. I'm your typical FOB programmer nerd who is awkward around people - *especially* women. I come from a conservative old-world country where pick-up is either non-existent or very deeply buried (it's all arranged marriages there so very few guys have real pick-up skills). As a result, when I came to the USA and heard about the community (about two years ago), I didn't even believe such a thing existed... until November 2009 that is. That November, I went clubbing with a female friend and one of her friends - AND SAW HER GETTING PICKED UP, RIGHT BEFORE MY EYES. I didn't realize that was pick-up in action back then of course, but the makeout session between the girl and the PUA was so heavy they were practically having sex right there in the club. I was FLOORED. How was it that this guy could get a random girl to do this within 30 minutes of meeting her when I had trouble getting girls to even notice I existed? The feeling that I was missing out on something BIG just wouldn't leave my head. I was obsessed with finding out what the PUA did that made him so appealing to women.
To cut a long story short, I went online, bought a copy of "The Game" and haven't looked back since.
I signed up for the ABCs boot camp because I read this one blog post by APB where he talked about how the students he has are way more difficult than those that other companies have. I am sad to say that I am one of those difficult students because I've started my PUA journey from *way* behind where most American-born guys have. Therefore, I figured, I needed someone who had the experience teaching people like myself and boy has my choice been good.
Cantor in his post has described in excellent detail what went down for our three nights in Vegas so I'm not going to repeat it here save for pointing out a few of my own highlights and disappointments:
My main goal in going to Vegas was learning how to make out with women at clubs. I didn't manage to k-close but hey, I *knew* I had a lot of learning to do, so I'm not disappointed. I have a long way to go and I'll keep trying. However...
I did my first club isolation ever! We had a private table on night two, so I used (or abused) it mercilessly to bring girls back there. I started with a pair of Scottish sisters and then moved on to a Mexican MILF who also brought her whole gang along. It was awesome.
My approach anxiety is gone. The funny thing with the ABCs methods is that when you first look at them on paper you're like "Dude seriously, I paid $1400 bucks for this shit?" But then when you try them out in the field and you see the girls' eyes light up and them beginning to jump up and down in excitement it dawns on you ... THIS STUFF ACTUALLY WORKS!
As Cantor mentioned in his post, Johnny made out with this hot British girl... once again, seeing a master in action from beginning to end right before your very eyes is so... inspirational. I can't WAIT till I'm better.
Also, I'm making great progress in terms of my look and my body language thanks to advice from Johnny. Incorporating everything he said into my routine is going to take months if not years so there's still a long way to go, but I'm taking baby steps...
Overall, it was definitely an excellent experience. I'm thinking of taking another bootcamp just to sharpen up my skills. Unfortunately I was stuck in the A and B phases on all three nights this time because I started from so far behind, but hopefully by next time I'll be able to progress to something more.
If you are like me and find it hard to attract girls, taking a bootcamp will definitely put you on the path to becoming a stronger, better, more confident you that will enable you to find the woman (or women) of your dreams.
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