Joined: 17 Sep 2007, 11:00 Posts: 331 Location: San Fran, Feb 08
Everybody wants to make a connection and everybody wants to meet someone new. They all yearn for it, so when you just talk to them like you already know them then they will be more likely to reach out their hands and accept you. It's like the beginning of the movie Hitch.
I remember I was in my genetics class and the hottest girl in the class was sitting by herself. She's the HOTTEST girl in there but she's sitting alone. Why is that? Cuz she doesn't have any friends in there. She doesn't know anybody. So, I started talking to her. The next day she saved me a seat. I found out from talking to her that she did not know anybody else in the class besides me. She took the discussion for this class and knew who was in her discussion, but for some odd reason she didn't make any connections with those people probably because none of them took the time to actually just talk to her. She transferred to Davis from a community college so she didn't know anybody. I just happened to be the first person to talk to her.
The same was true for this hot redhead girl with big tits nice ass cute face in my biochem class. She sat all by herself during lecture. It was mind boggling. When you get in the upper divisions of biology/biochem you get less hotter girls and there were two in my class. She had lab partners, but she never sat with them or talked with them outside of class. Nobody talked to these girls. It was fucking weird... Her life was hella normal. She goes to school, goes to work, goes home, cook dinner, watch tv, do homework, sleep and go to school again. Her idea of fun was a dinner party with wine or play boardgames with friends. Really nice girl. All I did was just start talking to her hella casually over the course of the class and by next quarter every time she saw me at the coffee house/walking she'd come sit with me for lunch or say hello and catch up with me.
I was 19/20 when this happened, I just read the game and finished reading Juggler Method and tried to learn how to have conversation with people. I didn't even have any game when I did this. I was still doing my newbie mission of saying hi to 30 people and starting small talk conversations with strangers. Who knew I'd actually meet cool people and make new friends.
This is just some of the examples. Hell this is how I started doing strongman and met some of the coolest and most caring people I've ever known. Just cuz I started talking about regular ass shit with them. This leads me to go off on another tangent...
Not everybody can be your core circle of friends, but be cool with other people.
Post subject: Re: Reach out and touch somebody
Posted: 22 Nov 2009, 02:21
Joined: 30 Dec 2008, 20:23 Posts: 75
Bootcamp Graduate: YES (BC: July 09, Sydney Australia)
you just got me watching Hitch for the first time
Does anyone here even do that 90 / 10 thing hahaha
I might give it a go next time
I'm like...hmmm I could use JW Wolf trap...I could use MM kiss tactic....ahhhhh fuck it
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