FR 7 Blonde 2-set, African American Girl, Blond 2-set.

I'm just going to give a more abbreviated report of last nights activities. I tend to be wordy. Plus I don't want my reports to be an ego driven thing.

I find the act of writing down what I did very revealing, kind of like watching the game film to improve one's performance. I'll try to keep things to the facts of the night. I appreciate constructive feed back from ABC Graduates and Instructors.

Blonde two-set,
Approach
Kino turn both and say, "My buddies and I must approach the cuties girls in the bar. Can you intro me to those girls over there?"
BT spikes. Intro and handshakes with girls.
Banter/Comfort and Direct Interest.
Do a cold read on the girls. One does marketing the other a bar tender. Both from out of town. Tried to play Fuck/Mary/Murder but bartender already knew that game. Ended up doing pilsbury dough boy. BT pike. Girl to my left is more interested and I focus conversation and kino on her. Friend to right excuses herself from set to find friend.
Left blonde opens me an asks me what my story is. We go into comfort talk. I go direct and interrupt her with, "I'm sure you get this all the time. Your eyes are amazing. Sorry go on with your story." She BT spikes and trips over some of her words continuing with the story.

Her girl friend pops back into set and I try to include her so she doesn't kill the set. She leaves again. I continue with more comfort conversation. I lean against the bar now. Left blonde is from Minnesota so she tells me the differences of Californians and Minnesota people. She's liberal and was surprised that Sacramento (where she lives) is more conservative. I banter that if she were conservative we couldn't date. Her friend comes back into set and says they have to leave. I get Left Blondes number. She tells me to call her phone so I'll have her number. She gives me a hug before she leaves.

Things I did well: I opened immediate with high energy (did pre-game routine to get into state), 2) banter was good, playful. 3) got into comfort and showed direct interest.

Things I could have improved: 1) I could have introduced a DHV story but conversation was good 2) I could have BLP and moved the girl to the wall so that I could see her friend come back into set and used silencer. 3) could of played "5 Wrong Answers" instead of pillsbury doughboy.

African American Girl
Approach
Walking out of bar, I'm smiling. Girl smiles back at me. As I walk past, I tell her she has an amazing smile. Introduce with name exchange.
Banter
Do a cold read on her. Banter on the incorrect read. Ask her what we are celebrating tonight. Her guy friend is staying in the hotel across the street. She is waiting for him to end his music gig. Find out she is from Ukiah but now lives in SF. We banter about her being and outdoorsy hippy chick and city girl. Meanwhile she is dancing to the music being played breaking out of conversation. So I dance with her a bit. Try to pull her in from the waist. She doesn't come in closer. Try to do more comfort conversation. She is doesn't really want to talk deeply. She just wants to dance. I break off the interaction and get the number. She gives me a hug.

Things I did well: 1) opened immediately, 2) banter was good and confident.
Things I could have improved: 1) had higher energy when she wanted to just dance, 2) followed it up with isolating her to a seated area to try to get into comfort.

Another Blonde Two-set
Approach
In a night club with loud music and people dancing all around I open with: I have say high and your cute dresses. Are you guys in fashion?"
Banter
They BT spike, introduction on names. Ask how they know one another. Do a cold read on them. Banter on how wrong I was. They are college students. They cold read me. Banter on how wrong they were. Ask what they are celebrating. It's their friends birthday, banter that I'm also celebrating their friend's b-day. Tell them their dresses are super cute. They say one is borrowed and the other is old. I say it doesn't matter they both look hot. I do the PUA spin for both of them. Laughs and giggles all around. BT spikes. I tell them to both give me a hug. BT spikes. They love my velvet jacket and both keep touching me. I tell them they owe me $10. I eject out of set because I thought they are too young for me. I'm 44 (but asians say I look 30) and they just turned 21 and still in school. I tell them I have to find my friends and they give me group hug. I gave value to them and we had fun. I got good social value as the club saw me with these girls.

The Good: 1) came in with higher energy since club environment. 2) Bantering much improved and I'm actually enjoying being playful and fun.

Need to Improve: 1) need to get over the age difference. I need to honor the process and take it as far as I can to push myself beyond my limits 2) try to stay in set as long as possible and not eject. I should have tried to pull both girls to a seated area to get them into comfort. I was looking back and I could have tried to kiss them both.

Summary of the night. I got one number that I think will answer my call (1st blonde). I felt a genuine connection and got to learn about her, but it was still a brief interaction (due to their leaving to meet up with friends). Moving forward I need to honor the process and push myself out of my comfort zone and take it as far as I can and not self-sabatoge.

First blonde 2-set, I feel that was your best set of the night. You opened, bantered, comforted, direct interest, everything, except there was her friend. Usually, that's where a wing comes in handy. Since you didn't have one though, it can be difficult pulling.

African-American set, She had high energy since she kept dancing, sounds like the chick was ADD and ONLY looking for fun. You could've went with some more CT's and then escalated to SCT's. I mean, you did pull her in, but she wouldn't follow through. Banter game was solid, she didn't want to connect...
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You should've had more BT in you and then spike her BT even more! Then when she's high as a kite off your energy, you can bring the energy level down and have a real conversation where you'd connect with her.

Okay, and the last blonde 2set, you should just ignore their age, because once its 18+, your $

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