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 Post subject: FR #60 - CTing, Awesome K-close at LA Bootcamp
PostPosted: 10 Apr 2012, 12:49 
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Joined: 28 Jun 2010, 15:50
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Location: Los Angeles, CA
Bootcamp Graduate: YES (BC: Chicago Jan 2011)
It's night 2 of the ABCs LA Bootcamp. Earlier I had some girl drama that I got dragged into, so my mind is unfortunately a bit hazy. I've got 6 students standing around at the beginning of the night and I made sure that they went out and talked to girls. Me and my student J Lyfe ended up getting 2 girls to come over and sit down with us. The other 5 students were already talking to girls, so I turn to Asian Playboy and tell him I'm taking a lunch break.

J Lyfe is with his girl and I'm with mine. It starts off awkward as she just isn't showing ANY attraction, or ANY IOI's. This is a popular dilemma with a lot of guys.

We're all on the couch and I start to compliance test my girl - A year ago, I was still hunting for IOI's to gauge attraction. This is very foolish! Compliance tests are the way to go!

"Let's move to another couch, it's cramped here." She gets up - General CT PASSED!
I hold out my hand for her. She takes it and stands up - General and Sexual CT PASSED!
I sit down and tell her to sit on my lap - Sexual CT PASSED!

Our rule of 3's at ABCs is 3 general compliance tests, and 3 sexual compliance tests, then go in for the kiss close.

After more chatting, she still doesn't seem into me, so I just grab her hand and squeeze it. She's passing ALL of my general and sexual compliance tests, but she isn't showing anything - there is definitely some degree of attraction here - so I end with one final compliance test...

"Butterfly kisses!" - I move my head in about 80%, she moves in the last 20%, we shuffle eyelashes like kids.

"Eskimo kisses!" - I wiggle my nose with hers, she's still smiling and enjoying it

Without saying a word, I kiss her, then I lean back and let her estrogen take over - she's making out with me before you know it.

After snuggling with this girl, I look over and J Lyfe is making out with his girl, who happens to be her sister. I grab her number and we keep on hanging out. It was a beautiful and romantic night in Hollywood that neither of us will ever forget- even if she is just a tourist from North Carolina.

Ben J



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 Post subject: Re: FR #60 - CTing, Awesome K-close at LA Bootcamp
PostPosted: 11 Apr 2012, 20:21 
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Joined: 29 Dec 2011, 01:52
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Location: Palm Springs, Ca
Bootcamp Graduate: Yes 1on1Ben June2012
Amazing Ben J, the lack of IOI's would devastate most guys in your position and possibly force them to eject early

You, however, stuck with it and persisted and knew, logically (& perhaps unconsciously), that through CT's you can gauge where you're with with the girl

It'd be really cool if you can share some other CT's that are applicable in daygame and whether or not kissing is recommended (per situation of course)


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