Tonight was great! I had a lot of fun, and I learned a ton too! I have been keeping these 2 black girls in a holding pattern, making a regular presence in their lives with text and invites out to places. While they declined a few times, I kept persistence. I met them one additional time after the meet, and now I got invited to a house party.
I'm with BigHeadedMouse and RonChi - we start at the house party and I walk in. My 2 girls greet me with open arms and the rest of the party is mainly black people dancing crazy, drunk and high. There aren't a ton of attractive girls there, but I manage to talk to a few and meld in with the social atmosphere. I'm being social, talking to everyone, trying to build momentum, and it works. Near the end, lots of the black girls started approaching me wondering why I'm dressed so nice and who I know here. Although the party was mostly guys, I was able to build more comfort and compliance with my 2 social circle girls.
Unfortunately, one of them is moving away - the uglier one. The hot one is STAYING!!!!! AWWW YEAH
Eventually RonChi and BHM were getting bored so we bounced over to Edison. BHM and I start talking to these 2 blondes
I come in with, "BHM, looks like these girls are giving you a REALLY rough time!" Laughter ensues. I am the winner wingman of tonight. We sit down next to the girls, and I perform Gentleman's Grace,
What's your name? Nice to meet you, I'm Ben. You know what I like about you?
Your a gorgeous girl, and that white dress makes you look tall and slender.
I start fumbling here, but I can tell she's attracted to me. She mentions swing dancing. BT is dropping, step back and re-game!
I start dancing in my seat. She mimics me. I say, "fuck it, let's dance!" I grab her and we swing dance for a while. She is absolutely horrible, but I keep encouraging her. I'm very glad I know basic dance and some swing.
We're hugging and chatting over the dancing and her blood is pumping. We chat a little more and I get a solid # close. She says I'm really good at swing dancing and she wants to go out with me. I think I may have found a swing dance partner! AWESOME! More things to do with girls! YAYYYYYYY!!!!
3 Hot Cougar
RonChi is already talking to these girls. I jump in. BHM jumps in. We grab our targets. We get the job done
I'm spiking BT with this Torpedo Tits Hawaiian Girl. Talking about where I'm from, BT spiking with teasing, etc.
She wants to get a drink. I make it on my terms and say let's chat for a bit and then get one. We chat and chat, then after a few minutes I take her to the bar. She grabs a drink and is hit on by a scrawny white guy. I use BLP to cockblock the little guy. We keep on chatting, then walk back to her friends. I start getting to know the rest of the group and we just chat up. I couldn't get a #close, all I got was a Facebook. No big deal.
The last set made my night. It was a ton of fun. Here's what I learned
*Social Momentum is key to any night. Get yourself into a talkative state. The first 3 sets of the night DO NOT COUNT, as they're warm up.
*My Social Circle is starting to build. I need to keep watering my plants so they can bear fruit. By watering I mean keep them in presence, and by bearing fruit, I mean bearing more women!
I still have a lot to learn, and I'm willing to do whatever it takes to make it happen.
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