This night was a culmination of just about everything I've done in Chicago. I went out with 2 guys from the last Chicago bootcamp, Cesar, and a friend from Chicago Lair. We went to a new place called public house, which was more of a bar setting, but it was an absolute blast! After applying some new tactics, I am able to consistently build attraction right from the beginning and I learned a little bit about social circle game and what I need to do in order to build that when I go to Los Angeles.
The first girl I approached, I did gentlemen's grace, all the Hi-5 BT spikes and slipped into comfort in a beautiful fashion that got her energized and emotional. Here's the stackA PHASE
You're Fucking beautiful! *Kiss hand*B PHASE
Banter about whatever (I remember Chivalry and how hipsters suck at it)
Hi-5 jellyfish jellyfish jellyfish
Rock Paper Scissors
Pilsbury DoughboyC PHASE
While doing all of these, I slowed down my speech and started qualifying her during comfort. Are you ambitious? Adventurous? Would you say you're close with family? While all of these were going, I was able to answer my own question and talk about my attraction switch stories. In this set, I talked about sexual safety and adventurous attitude. The girl is melting into my hand. She's leaning in and I see tons of IOI's, but I know better than to act upon them, except CTing!D PHASE
I go for the number close, hold her hand and start working the sexual nature into conversation. She's enthralled and a little overwhelmed by all the stigma that's happening. I get her number, a few kisses on the cheek and it's obvious she wants to kiss me, so I give her a little peck. The boys are in the corner of my eye and are pointing at me, cat calling me from the other end of the bar. This is just set 1 of the night and I am already on a hot streak. Unfortunately my fellow wings were unable to keep going and her friend pulled her a way. She kissed me goodbye and I told her I'd talk to her later. Unfortunately, HB8 never came back A PHASE
2 Blondes standing by the door. A wing is already in set and needs my help. I enter in and say, "I leave you alone for 2 minutes and these girls are HITTING ON YOU!?" The girls laugh. Immediately, I talk to my target, HB8 and get into a position of power so she can only see me and she is isolated from her friend.B PHASE
I let myself go and she laughs. Blah blah blahC PHASE
In comfort, I keep qualifying her and she keeps talking herself up to me. She wants my Asian cock and doesn't even realize the jedi powers at work. Mwahahahaha. Unfortunately my wing wasn't able to keep up in set and the friend pulled her away. She didn't want to leave and gave me a LOOOONG kiss on the cheek. She wanted it, but the friend was cockblocking... EFFFFA PHASE
HB10 in the corner, I've fallen in love and can't get up. "You're fucking absolutely gorgeous!"B PHASE
Bantering and bantering, I heart it, she loves hearing about me doing stuff and just talking.C PHASE
After a nice dovetail into C, I keep on qualifying her. She's a doctor (YES! HOT AND A SUGARMOMMA, I LIKE IT). She's here for a bachelorette party and needs to do these ridiculous things with her friend. I say hello to the bride to be and we do the chicken dance together, we role play and pretend I'm a cowboy, amongst other things. HB10 and company say, "YOU'RE AWESOME!!!!!" D PHASE
I get the number close and she says to me, "Oh my gosh, you're so charming and fun, but I'm sorry, I'm currently seeing someone." The fact that she said that at this phase and in an earnest and honest fashion means that she really does, and it's fine with me. I do the whole, "once you go yellow, hello!" bit and say to her,
"Just because you're taken doesn't mean we can't hang out and get coffee. Give me your number."
She complies. Of course I want to add HB10 to my social circle. Her friends are hot as well. Why not? We talk for a very long time. I can tell she is incredibly attracted to me, but she couldn't act upon it because she is loyal to her man, and that's fine. Later on I saw her getting hit on by a black dude. I go in and say to her,
"Did that hurt?"
"Did that hurt? Because he's hitting on you HARD!"
Black dude looks at me. The facial expression turns from fear to pure depression as HB10 laughs. Black man with the sad face walks away while Team Asian talks up the HB10 like old friends. KAPOW!A PHASE
Gorgeous Girl, another HB10. I just talk to her. She is immediately dazzled by me after I tell her how absolutely gorgeous she is. Her friends jump in and say, "YEAH! Isn't she gorgeous?" I turn, acknowledge the friends, and turn back to the girl. I was able to get my back against the wall with her.B PHASE
All the necessary banter, but not as much since she didn't need that much as I was showing all the "fun guy!" vibe that needed to be there.C PHASE
I go qualify her and let her take the reins of the conversation here and there. We are chatting and every attraction story I tell, she melts a little more. This HB10 is easy... She's also in med school (SUGARMOMMA 2!) This is fantastic. D PHASE
I go in for the number close. She gives me her number, but says she has a boyfriend. I ask her how long she's had that problem, she laughs.
"No but really, I have a boyfriend!"
"That's the dumbest excuse I've ever heard. Give me your number."
Girl number... Mmmmmmmm. I kissed her on the cheek and she gives me a MWAHH! I go in for the K close after the triangular eye gaze and got rejected, by just a turn of the head, but it's cool. Her friend pulls her away and I lost her, but as I held her hand, she fought her friends all the way to talk to me!LESSONS LEARNED TONIGHT
First off, BT IS EVERYTHING. Guys need to learn that energy is infectious, out of control, and when you learn how to manipulate the energy levels of the people around you (by injecting FUN! Into their lives,) then you can basically get them to do whatever you want. By building enough BT, you can get girls to keep you around and hook them more often.
Secondly, Qualification in comfort is important if not absolutely necessary. I was able to build comfort and it also let the girl take the reins of the conversation. It starts at 80/20, then to 70/30, then 60/40, and finally 50/50, when you are both talking and having deep conversation. In comfort, building attraction comes swiftly and after manipulating energy levels it gets easier and easier to talk to the girl. I'm pushing her buttons, taking her on an emotional roller coaster and throwing her into extraordinary adventures she's never dreamed of hearing about that make her sad, happy, excited, and sometimes feel romantic and sexual.
Finally, being the fun maker is important. There's a plethora of white dudes in this place that have no game and are plain creepy. I was able to AMOG a few guys tonight because they just have no game whatsoever. It's probably going to be a little different in LA, but the biggest part of AMOGing is having more energy than the d-bag. When your energy is higher than the D-Bag and you inject fun into the girl's life, the AMOG will always admit defeat.
This was my last night out in Chicago before flying now next Saturday to LA. I am looking forward to hanging out with everyone and meeting the SoCal lair. My best wishes to everyone in Chicago, you have all influenced me to be a better person and to pursue my passions in life. It's time to tear up LA!!!!!
I'm too big for this city. Time to step up to the big leagues.
P.S - Does amogging have 2 g's? Is it AMOGing? AMOGGING? AMOGging? AMOG'in? What the fuck?