Lesson from tonight: NEVER NEG.
please be more aggressive.
Congrats on going out and having fun.
Yes, NEVER NEG. I recently negged one girl who was a model and it quickly broke down her bitch shield. That's probably the only one I can think of. Most of us have weak frames or FRAGILE FRAMES. Heck, I remember my old self AFC and if someone would neg me I'd cry like a little 2 yr old.
One way to become more aggressive is to take a competitive sport. Take more chances in EVERYTHING (except work), driving, jay walking across the street, etc. Become a rebel. Become naughty. and eat red meat.
Don't do the same things over and over. Order something different, eat something that's bad for you, drink too much, etc.
I know it's weird but I've become more of an asshole to people I don't really know. To my friends, I've become a better friend.
disclaimer: I'm not advocating lawlessness, but rebelliousness.