FR: 09/03/07 - 09/07/07

09/03/07 – Monday – 09/05/07 – Wednesday – Mini-slump. Some phone game.

09/06/07 – Thursday - Frat Party

I set-up a day3 with Korean8 that I met before I went back to LA.
Note: Don't hang up right away after asking her out.

Went to Still to my frat party. Met some people, but didn't approach... until the very end when a group of 3 Filipina girls came. I was entertaining them for a while, but I lost them because

1) My energy wasn't high enough. They wanted to dance. I could've danced with all 3 of them but I was too pussy to do it. I didn't wanna be embarassed. I have to just let go and have fun.
2) I could've used a wing.

09/07/07 – Friday – Isolating Freshmen Girls.

Me and my lil bro in my frat went to a freshmen / sophomore party. Right away, I realized we were the coolest people there. My wing told me how to open girls who are dancing by simply asking, "Can I get a dance with you?" If we convey enough high passive value, any girl would want to dance with us, he told me. Note taken.

I approach a few sets but nothing really sticks. While I was walking, this Chinese7.5 gave me an IOI, so I approach with, "Why do you look so bored?" (Kudos to myself for recognizing an IOI and approaching.) It's a mixed set with 2 girls and 1 guy. I figure out how they know each other. They just met. I size him up. TOOL. I amog him by ignoring him. My wing comes in to occupy him. I whisper in the Chinese7.5's ear, "These guys are from Poly. We go to the same school. We want to see you for more than one night." They get it. We go outside. They need to go to the dorm and call back. They call back. We go to a sushi bar. Drink and hang out. I think about logistics. We drop them off in their dorms and leave. WTF were we thinking. No, what the fuck was I thinking?????? THEY WERE ATTRACTED AND INTO US. We are seniors and they are freshmen. OMG. In retrospect, we should've been more aggressive and gone to their dorms by saying, "Oh show us your rooms." Instead, they say they'll call tomorrow, but they don't call on Saturday. Oh well. Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I had pretty good attraction and rapport with my Chinese7.

Lesson from tonight: NEVER NEG. I lost Chinese7.5 to my wing because I said, "You don't drink, you don't smoke, you don't sing, what do you do?" She got really mad. Never neg a girl below a 8.5. FUCK FUCK FUCK. And dude, for the life of god, please be more aggressive. They were probably wondering, "Why didn't they come in? We like them."

I also notice from my experience that negs sometimes don't work on Asian girls. Even the Americanize ones. I don't know if other people have the same experience or not.

Congrats on going out and having fun.

Yes, NEVER NEG. I recently negged one girl who was a model and it quickly broke down her bitch shield. That's probably the only one I can think of. Most of us have weak frames or FRAGILE FRAMES. Heck, I remember my old self AFC and if someone would neg me I'd cry like a little 2 yr old.

One way to become more aggressive is to take a competitive sport. Take more chances in EVERYTHING (except work), driving, jay walking across the street, etc. Become a rebel. Become naughty. and eat red meat.

Don't do the same things over and over. Order something different, eat something that's bad for you, drink too much, etc.

I know it's weird but I've become more of an asshole to people I don't really know. To my friends, I've become a better friend.


disclaimer: I'm not advocating lawlessness, but rebelliousness.