Guidelines to Proper Solo Sarging

ShadyWun

I have been to Atlanta once..Buckhead..those girls are hot...This one girl from Alabama was really friendly to me but back then I didn't know about game. She offered to let me stay at her place if I visited Atlanta again..back then..I was dumb.

SC

Yessir Buckhead gots plenty of HB9s and 10s. Still a bit intimidating for me so right now I'm aiming for HB7s and 8s. But yeah definitely man feel free to hit me anytime your back in town....Im sure we can have a good time.

Mad respect to you as well solo sarging....I searched for "solo sarging" posts and your name was like on every one of them . I can admit like a man that I read your posts for motivation before heading out solo. In fact, I'll probably re-read some more of your stuff in a few hours before I head out for the night. Keep it up bro...maybe one day we'll be able to shoot the shit and re-live the glory that is SOLO SARGING!!!!

Yeah ---- I have studied a lot of pick up material but I must admit I don't go out as much as I should. I am 40 so I don't have a group of friends like when I was 20 and we used to go out all the time.

These days i find myself solo sarging more and I am trying to get in the habit of doing 3 times per week.

Some concepts I am starting are:

1) Invite fellow lair members. On the local lair website --- I am starting to post ads for a weekly pub night out on Sundays to Wednesdays and anyone who wants to join me can...otherwise I am fine sarging alone.

2) I switched over from normal pubs to karaoke bars --- if you can just sing 1 song that the crowd likes --- it is a DHV and this type of bar is more interactive and gets me noticed.

3) If the local lair guys (or who ever I befriend at the bar) look AFCish --- I know much PUA literature says it makes you look low value as well. IF asked who I'm with ect...I am thinking of just saying co-workers (instead of friends). That way I can detatch from the AFC bunch easier. I am hoping this is a comfortable balance between soloing and going with friends.

4) When I go solo sarging --- I dress well and try to use as much BL as I can to look high value.

5) This might sound like making excuses...but when asked why am I alone...I just say I own a computer consulting business and I just finished some work for a client just few blocks away...it had been a very long day.

6) I tend to go out and start conversations with smokers (assumes you smoke)...for some reasons smokers are very easy to open so I light up too.

I guess the only way to get the experience is to go out with or without a wingman. Being a Newbie, getting past my front door is the hardest part. Damn its hard to write here at Starbucks on Wilshire LA..Just had the most incredible Amazon black chick sit down across from me...News at eleven !

Good post! However I have to disagree to number 10 to a degree.

Sometimes you are never in a good mood to go out. Going out by yourself will make you grow and sometimes you need to push yourself and go out when you don't feel like it.

Good post overall.. I have a feeling that guys dont go out enough by themselves.