D phase - Direct Intent vs. Disqualify??? when to use???

This is just my take on this phase. Based on my experience, I never have to disqualify myself or maybe the girls are not hot enough in the situation for me to do so, or maybe I just never cold approach a mixed set and carry my target all the way to F phase.

APB is right. As an Asian, we always come in under the radar, but sometimes it's because my perceived value is just not high enough to cause any suspicions. That's because I can't vibe fast enough off-the-bat when I get into the group, and other guys get to dominate the conversation. My English is my 2nd language, I just can't vibe as fast enough as other guys who're experienced in social skills. I noticed that it takes at least a couple seconds for me to understand the jokes and banters among the group, sometimes even maybe the jokes are on me. Anyway, I need to more practice on this.

I do express direct intent when I think there's enough comfort, or I do it pretty fast in the set when the BT is high. Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn't work. Sometimes among AFC, I do have to disqualify myself just by leaving the girls alone. I think that's because I havent got good enough to cause a need to disqualify myself among social able guys.

Comments? Thanks a lot in advance.

I'm about 75% indirect and 25% direct at this point and haven't had to disqualify yet. Mind you, I've run into some gorgeous women being here in LA. But, with only a month under my belt since graduation, I'm anxiously awaiting my first disqualification set to get that practice going.

Hey Jester,

I'm revisiting most of my old threads before I go out tonight. I want to thank you again for your thought on my threads. At this point, I notice that disqualifying myself to Asian girls work pretty well for me during attraction, even on those girls who only hang out in chinatown for example. Number close to first date is no problem, but usually fall into friend zone when they often naturally set you for provider frame.

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