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It was a continuous 25 hour of waking up to get there and when I got there it was evening. I was tired like I have never been before and I needed to pump up my game because its **** Ah the mistake I made. I drank a lot of Vodka before and although I was pumped up, this is the classic mistake we make. Anyways, apart from that, Kevin started my training by going over my sticky points again. We discussed 1 or 2 new openers that I would use for the night. He went over A,B and C again with me. The one on one training is as you would expect. Its about all your issues, your questions and personalized answers. I have asked Kevin questions I should not be asking : ). Kevin has always been patient and answered everyone of them. Kevin stresses on getting the fundamentals correct. Correct posture, correct delivery, locking in, no pecking, teasing, kino and kissing basically leads to a good game. He explained the fundamentals of how to do each of these by giving examples to me. We went out to a night club. It wasn't a surprise that my sets weren't hooking right away because intoxication had blurred my senses. However, I did get very close to a black girl. I opened with openers I have probably not used before. I wish I could tell my openers if I had any recollection. Kevin stood by me for sets tacking notes for every set on his phone. Every interaction was noted down. At the end of the night he debriefed me about the sets.
Next day he went over each of my sets with the mistakes I made and things I shouldn't do. Then, went over the D and E. Kevin explained to me the basic steps to be in D and E. Discussed personal sticky points. Three to Four hours of lecture, then some sleep and I was ready like the dude in the Gladiator movie. Injured from last night but still willing to fight. That's how we should be everyday. Never get discouraged. The first set I opened hooked right away. About 20 minutes of conversation. Its a three set and it went perfect. A, B, and C. However, at this stage I am still wobbly about sexual escalation. I excused myself from the set with the goal to meet one of them later that night and reboot with a direct opener. I didn't realize it wouldn't be possible in this night club. In my mind I knew there was no point in getting a phone number. This is also a loud nightclub I am talking about and the hottest one there. Lot of people everywhere. Kevin explained to me that even though there isn't a point in getting a number, I should have asked for it to help sexual escalation. I approached so many sets. Most sets hooked and I was able to converse in a loud and pumping environment. After every set, Kevin explained to me what I did right and what I did wrong. Whether my posture was right or my posture was wrong, delivery, pecking etc. This is hugely helpful. Through instant feedback, I can correct things I do wrong. I find this one of the best things about the bootcamp with Kevin. This event is for improving oneself and this is exactly how it should be done. Instant feedback! My last set was probably the best. It hooked smoothly and I got the girl laughing and I had started keno escalation. She didn't want to leave but was dragged away by her friends. The last day was about F and Kevin went over Day 2 stuff with me. I had no strength left to sarge that night. So we discussed everything under the world that comprises pick up and beyond. Starting with phone game to every little detail step by step leading to sexual interaction. Kevin explained his secret formula for being energetic. Its strange but I have seen it myself, its highly effective! Yeah I did ask him details about making out I remember hahaha. Just last Wednesday I, prior to this 3 month bootcamp known by all as the perfect example (yeah..not just an unsocial guy but people would point and say : He is an example...look at him hahahaha) of an unsocial guy, have made out in a night club. It is the most aggressive I have been in a while. While I thrust my tongue down her mouth totally against some resistance, I have felt sexual escalation could be very easy if you have built attraction already. Its totally a manly thing to do. My approach was my classic set up, no variations and her friend helped her isolate by going away. I didn't even move from where I met her. I stood there and completed it as it should be. She did say that I was too aggressive. Damn!
What I got out of the bootcamp is gold. I have become the approaching machine I wanted to be. Although some would describe it as a futile attempt, I have no trouble approaching even couples. I still remember Kevin telling me about how all the ABC instructors have gone through several thousands of rejections to be who they are and it is because of this that he can open a random family gathering in Olive Garden. When I heard this, I thought to myself that is who EXACTLY I want to be. A fun, social and interesting guy. This is the statement from this program that I have taken home. I am still not there but am working on it. I need plenty of more approaches. To have no fear of the unknown is probably the most powerful attributes a man can have. While there will always be amogs, your game might not run like you thought it would, in the end like all the ABC instructors will tell you, it is about: Did you leave her better than she was ? Because that is what an ABC alumni is supposed to do. I am trying to be one.
With Love (hahaha),
Flash.
(Funny Moments: Kevin: I can't believe you finished half the vodka bottle and you are still standing here this morning. Me: Its good, its got all the calories you need!! so I can just stay alive for weeks without eating anything. Me: Yeah I have gotten used to the bars in ***. If we were in ****, I would show you how its done. Trying to recollect more...)
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