What an amazing and interesting experience!
First, my reviews of the coaches and their lecture...
JT is a fantastic instructor and I thank him for all the things he taught me during the 3 days of "the suck" as he likes to call it. His lecture was well organized and very clear. Everything in his lecture was broken down so that it was very easy to understand. He always took time to answer questions and made sure we understood the concepts of the stuff he was teaching. He really pays attention to his students.
Tommy Wu gave excellent feedback and always brought the positive energy. I don't know how he does it. Even though you knew he was tired... or SHOULD have been tired... he never truly showed it. I suppose he was the reason why I never really felt that tired after those long nights of sarging. He always kept me motivated. Thanks Tommy!
Sarah Ann was absolutely AWESOME. Having the benefit of practicing drills on a beautiful woman really helps. She gave us feedback on our approaches and techniques which were very helpful. She also gave us her perspectives on a woman's ideal of a good date vs bad date as well as a bunch of other stuff. On our first night of in-field training, we had a nice one-on-one talk where she gave me her point of view of what she thought the ideal style my game should be for approaching and interacting with women. She opened my eyes to things about myself that I wasn't aware of before. She added that extra bit of fire up my ass.
Night one in the field...
Our goal for our first night in the field was to successfully do -- A (Attract, Approach) and B (Buying temperature, be in the moment). Once we opened a set, we had to continue raising buying temperature. I opened several sets and never realized how easy it was. I used the "kick-start" opener a lot and was surprised to see how social a lot of people can be from an opener like that. The first set I opened with was a 4-set of cougars. Yes, that's right... COUGARS. Don't hate. Even though they were cougars they were still a lot of fun to talk to. Hey, even cougars need lovin' too. I stayed in that set for a long time.
Shortly after that set, I began walking around using the canned opinion openers I learned to open several sets. All sets opened successfully. Having Sarah around for social proof was great. I told them that a bunch of us were here for her birthday, even though it really wasn't her birthday. Much of the girls in the sets I opened were being real haters toward Sarah from across the courtyard and/or bar. Having Sarah around for social proof helped a lot and you could really feel the jealousy they had toward her. It was pretty funny. I told Sarah about her haters at the end of the night. JT seemed to get a kick out of that.
Toward the end of the night, I was introduced to several girls. After applying A and B, I got the chance to get to know one of the girls. JT was keeping a close eye on me and my body language. He would hand signal me to get physically closer to her. After a few minutes I eventually walked away with her cellphone number.
Night two in the field...
The second night was much more challenging. To be completely honest, somehow we ended up in a club full of bitches. Opening was becoming difficult but in a good way. It challenged me to up my game. I was able to bring two girls to our table on two different occasions during the night.
The first girl was a hot Brazilian babe. We exchanged contact info and I had her give me a kiss on the cheek before she had to leave the venue. At one point in the night, the same Brazilian chick and another chick gave me a kiss on each cheek at the same time. I honestly don't really remember how that happened, I just know Tommy took a picture of it. I felt like a pimp.
The second girl was a very cute White chick whom I built very good comfort with. Whenever we held hands she squeezed which was a good sign. My goal was to get a kiss close. Unfortunately, I choked when it came time to escalate things. After using one sexual compliance test on her, she shit tested me right away. Before she left, I shook her hand. Lame I know. JT came up to me and said, "A HAND SHAKE?! A HAND SHAKE??!! WTF???!!!" I don't blame him for that reaction. I said the same thing in my head after she walked away. Looking back at the moment it was funny but I also learned from it BIG TIME.
Night three in the field...
This was more of a laid back night. Our goal was to AMOGing, cockblocking and doing mixed sets, more importantly, just have fun. I start the night out by warming up and opening sets. I get in a really talkative and social mood. Some time during the night I see Tommy talking to a beautiful Irish girl who I opened earlier in the night. I walk up and ask her how she knows Tommy. I immediately say something to make Tommy look bad. Tommy had that look on his face like "Oh hell no. Is he doing what I think he's doing." I get this girl to turn her back to Tommy and face the big screen TV with me. He was suddenly out of the conversation. SUCCESS!! No hard feelings, Tommy!
I continue opening more sets like a machine and get another number close. Opening becomes easier and you realize that it's not so hard once you apply the ABCs method. It truly is as easy as ABCs.
However, one of the most important things I learned and experienced for myself during in-field training was that even if a set goes horrible or if a girl just doesn't like you or if she just isn't having a good time, you can still change her mood. By changing her mood you change her perception of you which can then lead to a close if done properly. For example, at one point in the night I approach a 2-set (1 blonde, 1 brunette). I go through phase-A and I open direct, "You ladies are FUCKING gorgeous. I had to say hi." The blonde responded positively but the brunette did not. The brunette looks at me disgusted and looks away. I get a little sarcastic with her. I tell her, "You are so friendly... But you also look so bored. Tell me what's wrong!!" She says, "Everyone here is ugly." I tell her, "I know what will make you feel better." I get right to phase-B. I get her mood so high and fun she can't control herself. I become part of the set and use the blonde girls camera to take several pictures of the 3 of us together. GOOD TIMES!
In conclusion, ABCs taught me that I have the power to make others feel good... and THAT is a great power to have. Having power like that makes you a high value person.... and having high value makes you appreciate yourself even more which then leads to greater confidence. That, at least for me, is what I got out of it. So thank you JT and the ABCs crew!!
I recommend an ABCs bootcamp to anyone wanting to learn game, to get better at game, or to just gain more confidence in themselves. ABCs will help you reach your goals! So just sign up and do it already!
--Bullet
