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If you are reading this, you are probably considering taking an ABC bootcamp, here is my honest review of the experience.
About me, I am an early 30's white guy, very new to the community.
Before I review the experience, I want to present my list of rules you should follow if you want to get the most out of the bootcamp.
#1 Have fun! If you aren't having fun being out and being social, you are wasting your time. Always remember you are in a club, having the VIP experience with new friends, and you should enjoy going out and being social. Women can immediately tell if you are not having a good time and you will give off the creeper vibe. No bueno.
#2 Listen to the coaches. I know, I shouldn't have to type this, but I will anyways. So what if a coach asks you to talk to a girl that is not your type or whatever. How can they help you if they don't see you in action? I know we are all in this to help us get the 9's and 10's, but every bit of practice helps. Besides, if you blow it with a girl you don't want to date, who cares? I would rather do the wrong thing and then get feed back from a coach to fix my game so I don't make that mistake on a woman I find attractive.
#3 Personal logistics. I live about an hour drive from the bootcamp, I should of stayed in a local hotel. Sleep deprivation does not help your game. Introducing the birthday girl, Sarah as Samantha because you are tired makes you look like an ass. Trust me.
On to the good stuff:
I am not going to give a play by play review, I will leave that for others. I will describe the overall experience and focus on the coaches, since most reviews read more like field reports.
Be prepared to learn. There is so much information in the lecture portion, you will be challenged. ABC offers a solid curriculum that is well thought out, tried and true. All of the coaches are very good at what they do and truly have your best interests at heart. They will push you out of your comfort zone, which is required for you to grow.
Here is my opinion of the fine staff at ABC's of Attraction.
JT is a great person to be around and is very good at what he does. I had a great opportunity to watch him work on Friday night and it was amazing how much you can learn by shadowing a coach. It's a lot easier to copy the wheel instead of re-inventing it. Watch what works and take copious mental notes. He is bluntly honest with students in after action reviews. Remember him beating around the bush blowing sunshine up your ass does not improve your game. You learn from your mistakes and feed back on how you present your self and your mannerisms is invaluable. You only get one chance to make a first impression.
Gareth is a great coach and the life of the party. Once again, watch what the coaches do and learn from it. He is a great motivator to get the lead out of your ass and get talking to some lovely ladies. I was standing outside of the club chatting with Gareth and saw three gorgeous women, obviously frustrated at the long line to get in the club. I pointed them out to him and said, "That's my type!" Gareth gave me a quick line to use and next thing I know, three lovely ladies were at our table in the VIP area and everyone was having a good time.
Samantha, just kidding Sarah! Sarah is great wing-woman and pushed me on the first night. I was standing chatting with her, suddenly she turns me and says "Blond girl, Asian girl, GO!" I was forced into action by her voice. Of course those ladies joined us back at the table, using the ABC method. She also wants every student to succeed and meet their dream woman. Make no mistake, don't think because she is a woman she won't push you like the other coaches.
[Edit for clarification - Moderator]
Andrew/Showtime is also a great instructor and is very observant on the little details of your game. I am definitely planning on making time to take his day game boot camp.
Bullet is also another alumni. Another friendly guy that is full of useful tips and help me improve my game in just a few minutes. I watched him approach a gorgeous seated set in a loud club and work his magic. I can't say it enough, watch and learn guys.
Hopefully, you have noticed a pattern for all of the staff with ABC's of attraction. They are good people that honestly want you to succeed. I have heard about other companies that just take your money and go out and party on your dime and don't care about the students. This is not the case with ABC's of attraction, you are the priority. If you are on the fence, sign up for the boot camp, it is worth it and will take your game to the next level.
Note to any potential non-Asian students, 99.9% of the curriculum is about how people interact and applies to everyone. Don't make the mistake of thinking this program won't help you.
*Special thanks to our fine host for the lecture portion.*
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