San Francisco 4-12-08 Day#2 "Sensory Overload" with Pictures

Day#2

Lecture: Learned about Comfort & Direct Interest, Approaching Seated Sets, Recognizing IOI's, Compliance Testing, Going Direct.
Objective: Isolate & Go into Comfort.
Venue: Dance Club, Tri-Level.

Were at the Club around 10pm, No Line. [EDIT - "We set up a home base so that we have a comfort location."] Theres a Bouncer gaurding the entrance so not everyone can come in. There are waitresses that make sure that your drinks are taken care of. Our area had a Huge Sofa that could fit like 10 People. It was perfect for Isolation and Comfort.

Tonight we were expected to just open our own sets & Invite them to our homebase at the VIP area. Sounds simple. Well, I wanted to make sure that they were worthy & derserving to come and join our group. Asking them to just come to our VIP area with free drinks just seemed to easy.

Me & Pimpdaddy scope out the place first, we checked the different floors, the Bars, potential Isolation areas & smoking areas. Shook hands with the Bouncer watching our VIP Area.

Time to open, Bam! I see a 3 set, I open, they bite, I stay in. After a while, showtime comes by, I introduce them to Showtime & he asks them to come to the VIP area. ( I said to myself, No I didn't want these girls I was just warming up ).

JT introduces himself to them, they greet him Happy Birthday ( We all just agreed that we were Celebrating his Birthday ) the way JT presents himself to the women, he smiles, he's charming, It's his body language. He say to the ladies " Have a Seat, Enjoy yourselves " When you see him, you would mistake him as the owner of the Venue, Very Alpha.

JT notices I'm not talking to the girls, they are just sitting around. The reason why is.... I just wasn't attracted to them. A very Important Point that JT stressed to me was to warm up & get practice in at every opportunity, because when your HB 10 comes around the last thing you want to happen is for you to choke. After a lot of Buying Temperature, they wanted to get up and dance, so they left.

I look around, approach & open with no success. I invite to VIP area. HB's say "Maybe Later".

I get back to the VIP area & there is HB Blond & HB Brunette dancing in Our VIP area. I get introduced to them and I freak with them a little bit. I BT with the HB Blond girl. This set was brought in by Showtime, I found out because she's wearing his belt.

Pimpdaddy shows up with 2 more HB's, I love the HB one with tight low rise jeans and a short tight blouse, She was just Rockin those Hips! Her girlfriend was just as hot with her babydoll short dress. We had the Hottest Lookin Girls in the Club!

I'm saying to myself, these aren't any of my girls I didn't bring anybody to the VIP area. I go back out and start opening and trying to bring some sets back. No success. I learned for the most part that the ladies will let you finish your opener & then you'll get a sense if thier not interested. I never encountered a mean girl or a girl saying, " Get Lost ".

I get back @ the VIP location, More Hot Chicks! I don't know who brought these chicksin, but I get introduced by JT, Being a gentleman I offer a drink,
Apex: Did you want Vodka with OJ or Cranberry?
HB Brunette: Vodka, Straight up.
Apex: (Ohhhh Yeahhhh).

Sensory Overload!


My Turn with HB Brunette. Thank You Showtime! He He He He

I'm not sure how it happened, but the next thing I know the side of HB Brunette Lips Carress mine & I'm not sure if she was trying to Kiss my Cheek or My Lips. I remember how surprised I was, How I didn't move & enjoyed that Half second of our Lips touching. I knew it was for real coz our faces were so close together I got to smell either her Lipstick or Make-up. It was a pleasant smell. Is she smokin Hot or what.

Unfortunately Her unpopular friend pulled her, you could tell she wanted to stay with us & finish her drink. I really would have worked this one, she had a good Vibe.

I go out again looking for my Set to invite to our VIP area. Still no success for me again, I head back to our VIP area.

Back at the VIP location, no one's there. A few minutes Later, BAM! ShowTime comes in with 3 Smokin Hot Indian Chicks! Tall, Slim, Heels, Long Legs, Short Dresses. Immediately, I squish my self in between them ( The alchohol has kicked in and I just dont care anymore ) Compliance testing " Scoot Over", a little BT, Hi Fives, more Compliance test. The 2 girls that are sitting next to me are in Medical school and wanna become Psychiatrist.


Indian Chicks, They were so Cute!

Apex: Oh your gonna become a doctor, I love Doctors, I cant talk to you guys.
I lean over to the other indian chick my foream is leaning on their laps and legs, Ohhh more Kino! and there getting comfortable with me, Were all laughing.

Apex: to 2nd Indian Girl, Oh your gonna become a doctor too, I love Doctors, I cant talk to either.

3rd HB Indian Girl: I'm not in Medical school, I Blah Blah Blah... ( Oh my, was she just qualifying herself to me? )

I BT more going back and fourth between the 3 girls.

Apex: Are you the kind of Punjabi girls that listen to your parents wishes & just date your own race or are you the Independent kind of women that follows you heart.

Indian Girls: Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah.

And these girls were telling me stuff like there aren't any really good Indian men out there, I was like. Well then.... Everthing was going well, were all laughing they are comfortable with me.

My big mistake here was I needed to pick JUST ONE and concentrate on just one. The problem is they were all frickin Beutiful, I'm thinkin I'd really like to go down on all 3 of them. All 3 of them looked like Models to me. We were just surrounded by all these Beutiful women. It was SENSORY OVERLOAD!

Then My HB Blond walks back in and sits right across from us. I focus on her because I may be able to go the duistance with her & remember my goal is to be with a white women. I'm BT'ing with HB Blond and the next thing I know the 3 Indian Models were letting me know they had to go " We have to Go now " These girls could have just gotten up and just left but they made it a point to say goodbye to me. I really connected and bonded with these chicks. I should have kissed each one of these girls on the cheek, I will make it a point to kiss a girl on the cheek, coz that's how Filipino's are when they greet there close friends.

That's what JT teaches " use the fact that your asian to your advantage"

BT, BT, BT with HB Blond, I'm talking to her for awhile now. Oh Oh I start hearing voices again in my head
Unknown Voice: Quawify erk
Apex: What?
Unknown Voice: Qualify Her.
Apex: ( Oh it's ShowTime )
ShowTime: Qualify Her, Ask her if she likes Dogs.
Apex: Do you like Dogs. ( I don't have a dog )
HB Blond: I have a Cat, but I Love Dogs.
Apex: ( Wow did she just Qualify herself? )

I make my move and I some how maneuver myself behind her and start giving her a shoulder massage, It's going well, No tension, She's completely relaxed. In order for me to talk to her I have to lean in to her Ear, her hair smelld great. I'm massaging her arms. I move down her back, to her lower back.
Apex: How's that
HB Blond: It feels good, I'm falling asleep.
Apex: Let's go to my place I can do your whole body.
HB Blond: Alright.

I'm like oh shit! This is Crazy, I'm gonna be performing tonight, I cant believe this is happening. Did I leave my Hotel room neat before I left, Lotion - Check, Condom - Check, Viagra - Check. Alright.



Apex: Did you drive?
F#$%^&CK! she becomes logical.
HB Blond: I gotta wake up early tomorrow.
Apex: I gotta car, I can drive.
HB Blond: No, It's OK.
I didn't push it anymore.

I learned a Valuable lesson tonight.

JT gave true brutally honest constuctive criticism. It was great because he gave a perspective of outside lookin in. From the outside, i looked like a horny asian guy mackin on a white chick. While, I was thinkin this was great! Massive Kino! WRONG! ....JT said she just can't have it for free, make her work for it. make her want it. Like:

#1. Hey it's my turn now, let me see how good you ....are.
#2. Lets see what you got.

JT Said be playful: something she has to look forward to, something like " Ohhh you gotta come to my place, I'll give you the Crazy Dragon Claw Massage" The point is be playful, keep the BT up.

JT was able to observe this from afar without hearing the interaction, Like I said they are watching you.

It's true, I realize now My comfort and connect would have been stronger! she would have been more invested in me. I realized I jumped just way to fast, a whole lot of BT to D, But no real Comfort or Connect. I never kissed her on the cheek, i never held her hand, I never went into comfort with her, she barely knew me and here I am Touching her body and asking her to come home with me. When I asked her to come home with me, It probably sounded horny and needy.

All in all, for me it still was a great, great great night. I was never ever able to pull anybody to our VIP area. But for me it was still a success on how I Didnt have much AA, I was able to talk with really Hot HB's and get attraction. My confidence level was going up.

Here is Showtimes Post on our Day 2 of our Bootcamp "Professional PUA vs PUA".
Thank You Brother.
http://www.abcofattraction.com/communit ... f=15&t=912

Great FR...that was a valuable information to share about comfort and connect! I will keep that in the back of my mind in the future!


Straycat

Hey Apex,

You're a pretty good writer Great storytelling heh. We can get pretty brutal with our criticisms but it's always in the student's best interest.

"Quawify Erk" lol.

Thanks Brother, I know you have some good stuff posted out there, I just havn't had a chance to read everything. Peace.





Thanks Brother, I've read some of your stuff and that's good Sh#$%^T! I know my Grammar and spelling isn't great. But hey, I'm posting for the benefit of the brothers.

Showtime, I'm always thinkin what a lucky guy and how kool it is to be in your shoes right now. Your helping the homies to be better men, you'll be traveling around the world meeting beutiful women. Your gonna keep on growing and learning from the masters.

If I was your age I'd make the same choice, Dude even now, when I saw JT's post that he was hiring someone to work for ABC's and to do some Clerical work, I was like dam!, Can I somehow fit this in my schedule.

Just like Johnny Wolf said in a Bar when he was talking to a Chick.

HB: What do you do?
JW: I help guys become better men.

Sh#$%^&t, how cool is that.

Showtime, I envy you. Peace Brother.