Hello everyone. My name is Brian and this is my first post for the ABCs of Attraction forum. I will be giving my review of my workshop with Andrew Showtime last weekend. I've never acquired the services of a dating coach prior to this so I came in feeling very excited since I really didn't know what to expect. I just knew that I would be absorbing a lot of information, approaching women and hopefully having loads of fun in the process. Well I can say for sure that all three were fulfilled. A little bit more about me before I go further;I'm a 31yo Asian male who has never had a girlfriend. I've approached women and gone on dates before but it's been about five or six years since. When I sat down with Andrew for the first hour or so I disclosed just about everything that held me back when it came to dating and being successful with women. For the longest time I've been an AFC(Average Frustrated Chump). Not only did I have the victim mentality that many Asian men have regarding their racial image but I also suffer from Asperger Syndrome(a mild form of autism; some of the symptoms are poor language pragmatics and difficulty conveying and understanding subtle nonverbal cues) making it extremely hard for me to sustain intimate relations with women. Andrew however was very understanding of my situation and he got me to throw away everything that I felt was holding me back whether it was something in the past or present that hampered any potential success I could achieve. And it really did work because all weekend long my focus was on approaching women and becoming better at conversing.
Since I hadn't dated or approached women in so long I had to basically be taught everything from scratch. The first day of training was all about having me reframing my attitude so I could be much more at ease in approching women. By the end of the first day I was surprised as hell that I was able to go up to women with far less hesitation than ever before. For far too long my face would be drenched in sweat just being around a beautifull woman but at the end of the first day I actually went up and talked to a pretty chick without breaking a sweat while being able to lead and show interest in the conversation and being totally relaxed at the same time. In addition to gaining the confidence I needed Andrew also taught me the right mindset, skills needed and what to say when approaching and conversing with women. At the end of the day I really surprised myself with what I had accomplished and really looked forward to the next day with great anticipation.
The second day started out with Andrew having me write down some important notes to remember from how to improve my chances in attracting women to overcoming my challenges in being able to maintain a woman's interest in me once I've acquired it. From thereon we took the subway to the mall right by the Hollywood walk of fame. The whole day consisted of Andrew guiding me tthrough the ABCs of attraction bit by bit when I approached and conversed with women throughout the day. And before the training was over I was able to apply all the ABC attraction steps. I knew my training with Andrew paid off when I got the e-mail address of a cute Swedish girl(looking back I should've asked for her number even though she said she wouldn't be in the U.S for long). All in all I approached twenty women for the duration of the weekend and even though I didn't end the workshop with a first date I felt I had come a long way in just two days. Before the workshop, I broke out into a sweat everytime I was around beautifull women, I had zero confidence in approaching any female and to top it all off I held onto very destructive and self limiting beliefs towards myself and my ability to interact with women. By the end of training I was able to approach and chat with women on a level of confidence I never thought possible as well as reduce my sweating to a minimum. Overall I gained a lot from my workshop with Andrew. He's a great teacher, is patient and a lot of fun to be around. The techniques he taught me were very practical, straight to the point as well as empowering. So to anyone wanting to take a daygame workshop like I did I would highly recommend Andrew Showtime.
Peace out.
