Location : Kings Cross - Used to be infamously known for its vices and criminal gangs but now an area increasingly being populated by working professionals.
It was past midnight at Darlinghurst street, Kings Cross and we were walking back to our apartments after a successful night. I was about 10 feet away from JT who was leading the pack. We swaggered along the Cross like we own the strip. People must be wondering,
' Are these the new millionaires from Shanghai?, are these business tycoons from South East Asia? ..or maybe they are the triads...' In my mind I was thinking '.. Who the hell we think we are?.. We have just set foot on the strip not for long and we are strutting about as if we own the place... '. People along the strip were checking us out. As we marched along, by-standers who saw us from afar began to make way as we approached. No one dared to stop us or asked us any questions..
For a moment the scene was like the story in the bible where Moses was leading the children of Israel out of Egypt to take them into the promised land.
Only this time, it is an Asian male role model who was at his best, setting forth an example to his Asian brothers everywhere to save them from a life condemn to starcraft and mediocrity into a life of abundant blessings in the dating world.
There is something about the Asian Playboy. There is an air of confidence about him sometimes bordering on being cocky.( .. and I am all for it because Asian men have been so stereotyped as being passive, shy , nerdy and etc... In fact we need more of such Asian men.. ) Some people call it an aura. And if you are in his company, you will not only sense that aura but you'll be lifted up by it. In other words, you can actually sense and tap into that energy and embody some of that supernatural power yourself..(so to speak)
It was an AWESOME FEELING to walk tall with your heads up like victors returning home after a conquest as the world watches!...
It was a great night.
Kings Cross has never seen such a company of Asian men in their midst. ( most of us short with slender frames by western standards )
And I suspect, they will not see it again... till the next bootcamp.
We certainly need more Asian men in the mold of the Asian Playboy...
If we come off as being cocky, so be it. Its time to loose the fetters that binds us and break out into our destiny...
I flew about 8000 km from South East Asia to another continent to take the bootcamp. I have known the pick up community through the internet for about 5 years now. I have never met any of the guys like Mystery, Style , Asian Playboy and the rest in person before. The things they wrote, images and videos posted online has been amazing and a source of inspiration and envy to me. Having read The Game and learnt mostly classic indirect game with no guidance but the internet, I have found that these routines and techniques actually works!.. Although I knew some of these guys are guilty of exaggeration (who doesn't in business?), I have never seriously doubted that they are really getting the girls... why?.. Simply because I have tried these techniques myself before...
Then I stumbled into the Asian Playboy's video. My interest in his style of pick up and the kind of girls his company is getting gradually increased to a point where I want to live the kind of lives that they were living and get the kind of girls that they were getting...
Its not cheap for me to attend this bootcamp simply because of the conversion rate. But when I read that the Asian Playboy might not personally conduct bootcamps in the near future, I decided to attend one conducted by him before that happens.
I wanted to see for myself and learn from this best Asian PUA. I thought there are certain things that can only be learnt (or at least pick up much quicker) if you see it in action. And I was right...
People have said that you have to see this guy (The Asian Playboy) in action. And now I agree.
He is probably the most confident Asian man I have ever met in person. For this, he has my genuine respect.
Is this bootcamp worth taking? Absolutely YES!.. especially if you are a total newbie.. It can put you on a fast track in improving your dating life and become a more confident (Asian) man, provided if you will also do your part.
I would definitely recommend this program to Winston Wu and his followers. I say this in good spirit...
If you are concerned whether the ABCs of Attraction is a legitimate business and not a scam, I want you to be rest assured that it is a legitimate business. I am not an American and have never met any of these people prior to the bootcamp. They have certainly never induce us (students) with anything to make us say something favorable about them.
Below is a review of the day time classes and night time in-field sessions.
Day 1
A - Approach and Attract, body language, walk of khan, kickstart openers, natural openers, voice projection, smile
B - Buying temperature, be in the moment, bt spikes
Venue 1 (Argyle)- Quite a big club but has many places convenient for conversations.
My social anxiety was quite high as I am in a foreign country in an almost totally new situation. Coaches send us in to do kickstarts. I tried not to think to much and just go into it, feel the energy and try to get into the flow as thinking too much will paralyze you.
3 set at the bar - I kino turned target. Did the kickstart opener ' Cheers! I am a-z...' She was friendly but her friend kept hitting her from behind to send some signal. She became unresponsive. So I said ' nice meeting you..' and ejected.
2 set Brunettes near the bar. Opened with kickstart. They were quite responsive and said 'hi'. I invited them to come over our table later.
1 set Blond -Kino turned and ' Cheers, I am a-z..'
Blond : oh hi!.. I am..where are you from *smile*
Me : I am from... (chat awhile then did the 'I love you' routine..)
She did not buy what I was saying maybe there was something incongruent in my delivery..
After a while she said ' Enjoy your stay in Sydney ..' We parted.
1 set HB9 with black hair near another bar- Kino turned and 'Cheers, I am..you look friendly.. Drop by later..'
HB9 : Hi I am.. *smiles* (by this time her other hot friend signaled to her and basically cockblocked me)
So in total I opened about 8-9 sets in this first venue. I was in the mood by now although some sets didn't went that well. But thats ok. Its just the warm up.
Venue 2 (Hugo) - A cool place, many hotties.
Its a louder club. So we needed to speak louder.
2 set blond- Kino turned, ' Cheers! I am..'
HB1 : Hi..(she was friendly and chatted) ..Do you smoke? I said no.
Pulled them over to introduce to JT, where JT talked to target's friend while I talk to target. The friend ask JT for coke.lol
Then JT said to abandon set because they were some stoned chicks..
3 set cuties next to pillars (One of them tall blond)- I smiled and opened the one nearest.
HB : hi..(she was partially friendly. Then saw her tall and hot blond friend next to her who was a head taller than me and basically staring down at me. Decided to open her.)
Me : You are absolutely gorgeous! Hi, I am a-z...drop by at our friend's birthday party.
( She was very responsive with the smiles and all..I hi-fived her. One point she talks about her Asian guy friend. I asked her if she dated an Asian guy. She said no. But that Asian guy always say that she is his girlfriend. Then, I told her the Asian discount routine and she giggles and said 'do you mean that I am old?'.. in a fun way .
At one point she actually reach towards my chest and pulled my shirt out to see if I had chest hair!.. When she saw that I had none, she said ' I like that ..' ).
Then I knew it was time to isolate her. Although we haven' t gone to this point yet in the bootcamp, I have learnt from my own readings and practice that I should attempt to connect with her at a deeper level.
So I said I have to play a little game with her. I said we should go to that spot there (5 meters away from her friends) which is quieter. I ask her friend if its ok to do that. After hesitating a bit she said ok. Then I took her there by the hand and did the cube routine on her.
And she lit up!.. She was so excited she pulled her friend over and asked me to do it on her friend. I did it on her friend too to show what kind of fun guy she is hanging out with. And she was excited too and pulled in a 3rd friend who was a cute blond and said that I was a psychic and asked me to do it on her too. To avoid being perceived as a clown or some dancing monkey, I said I am not a physic. They were so excited and the blond blurted out ' but you are so popular '... lol
Then my target (tall blond) and I talked about our families a bit.. About our siblings etc...(there was connection at this point)
Then she offered to buy me a drink for all the fun stuff I told her. By that time I drank quite a bit already and really didn't needed one anymore and I was still holding a drink in my left hand.
An idea came to mind. I told her that I don't need another drink but that I have only one week left in Sydney and that we can meet in the middle of the week and she can buy me coffee. She said yes.
We chatted awhile more and I got her number and chatted a bit more (to avoid being perceived as just out to get her number). Then we split.
(JT commented later that I just discovered the most powerful secret of the Asian Playboy :
No one approach girls in general, No one approach tall girls and certainly no short Asian men approach tall blond girls. So when a short Asian men approaches a tall blond girl, she will be blown away by it..)
What I did well -
Just got into it and didn't allow too much thinking to paralyze me and I got myself into the right mood.
What I can improve on-
Need to speak louder in club environment
Need to smile more
Day 2 - C- Connect- emotional
compliance test
D - Dominance , Direct interest
Venue- IVY is a huge club with 2 floors. We were in the VIP.
So we went in and started to do some warmups and survey the club.
1 set blond - JT and Gareth were at the tables. I just came back to the tables after doing some kickstarts around the club when JT yelled and signaled to me ' 1 set blond texting...go direct! '
So I looked and saw a fuckin hot blond with titties almost hanging all out leaning next to the lift and apparently texting on her cellphone. Immediately I walked towards that direction but then turned back awhile because I couldn't remember the line for going direct. After a split second I recalled the line. I was quite anxious this time as although I have tried direct approach on a couple of Asian girls before, I have never tried it on a smoking hot blond before. But I went in with the walk of Khan and not allow the anxiety to paralyze me. In my mind I was thinking ' Shit I have to do this to overcome that level of anxiety. It was social kamikaze in a foreign land and with JT and Gareth watching on, you cannot not do it and maybe its a chance to show off some balls too...
Me : (with a fuckin big smile on my face and my feet firmly planted on the ground wide enough for some air to ventilate my balls, I opened my mouth...)
' You are fucking ADORABLE.. Hi, my name is a-z..'
HB : (Big smile).. Thank you...I am bla bla..
Me : ..you look friendly, we are celebrating our friend's birthday...drop by to say hi...
HB : ..oh I am so sorry.. My boyfriend is waiting for me.. ( pointing to a dude 10 meters away..and the dude was looking at us.. It is her bf..)
Me : cool..It was a pleasure meeting you..
So I ejected and JT yelled back 'Good try!..'
Although the set was pretty short , it showed me something important. It showed me that beautiful women respond very well to direct approaches provided if it was executed correctly.... as seen in the positive and genuine reaction from the hot blond..
Secondly, I got over the anxiety of going direct after that set...
In fact, I find going direct to be damn fun after that night...
There were also some highlights during this bootcamp such as being opened by 2 girls waiting in a line for the washroom which I later discovered were hookers..I was a bit suspicious when they were so friendly and finally after flirting with them for awhile one of them said 'we charge by the hour'...
Of course I said good bye... lol
3 set (Hot Czech and 2 Irish girls)-
Me : Cheers..I am a-z.. You guys look friendly.. We are celebrating one of our friend's birthday... We have a table the VIPs.. Come on over to say hi..
HBs : oh hi.. Bla bla..( hesitate a bit whether to with me.. Then they all say ok.. And led them up one floor to our tables..)
At the tables, I introduce them to the birthday boy (Gareth) and the rest. Everyone was like super friendly to everyone... They enjoyed themselves... On our tables there were many other white women talking with other Asian bootcamp mates. It was quite a scene that probably does not happen often.
So I asked the hot Czech girl to sit beside me and she sat...(she looks a bit like Uma Thurman.. Lol )
Me : so how did you guys (the girls) know each other..?
HB : bla bla..
So we fluffed a bit.. And then I held her left hand with my right and place it on her lap to test compliance. She did not resist.
Me : I want to show you something about yourself... Are you good with colors? (I did the cube.. And it still works!..)
HB : that was good... (apparently she is not very expressive and definitely not the ADD type. She is actually a finance student. Smart and hot.. And we were still holding hands..)
Then she wanted to go for a smoke and I ask JT where was the smoking area?
Since I don't smoke I did not go with her. I thought I would re-engage her when she comes back. But what a mistake!... I should have went to the smoking area with her and move to phase D, which is to show direct interest and physically escalate more.
So I went to open other sets and basically lost sight of her...
So it was a pretty good night. Although I wished that I could have done more. Near the end of the night I was winging another bootcamp mate by talking with the brother of the bootcamp mate's target. She was a hot latina with smoking body.. He was attempting for a full close...
What I did well -
Didn't allow approach anxiety to paralyze me.
Found out direct approach is fun.
What I can improve on -
Have to improve on voice projection in a loud venue. Yell if need be.
Need more storytelling materials and interesting topics to flow from one to the other.
Need to change my fashion style a bit.
Day 3- E- escalate - physical & emotional, BIT AMOG
F- FUN!
venue-Hugo
1 set petite blond hottie- Saw her as I was walking to the other side of the club. Walk straight up to her without hesitation. By this time, I was having fun with direct approaches..
Me : ( Big smile ) YOU are absolutely cute. Hi I am a-z...
HB : smile* .. Hi I am bla bla...smile*
Me : Come here, I want to tell you something... ( I put out my hand and she took it!.. and I lead her to our table... and introduce her to everyone... and sat her down... )
Me : I saw you from afar and I thought that there was something special about you, so I came over to tell you that... So whats your story...?
HB : giggled*.. I am studying in Sydney...bla bla...
Me : Nice.. Whats the most exciting thing you have ever done?...
HB : bla bla... hey, I need to go to the ladies, I 'll be back...
Me : ok... ( and we kissed , not a make out.. It turned out that she has a boyfriend who was also in the club that night when I saw her again later...)
3 set Brunette -
Me : Cheers!.. I am a-z... you guys look friendly... we are celebrating our friends birthday... come by and say hi..
HBs : Hi!... ( they introduced themselves.. )
HB 1 : … oh thats cute...! ( she reached over and grab my hat... ) Are you a hip-hop artist?... ( that is a first for me
)
Me : hey.. take it easy.. Tell me something interesting about yourself first.. *smiles*
HB 1 : umm.. ummm.. I don't know... ( then I turned to her friend and ignored her for awhile )
So I talked with her friend for awhile. The set started off very well but then somewhere along BT spiking my energy level suddenly dropped... The conversation with the set gradually became flat... Shit.. I did not eat that much that evening... yeah.. blame it on that lol...
But I learnt something very important in that set. How well the set will go will depend very much on ME. It will depend largely on my body language, facial expression, quality and energy level etc...
I read somewhere that girls are generally energy vampires. They will suck and suck and suck erhheemm... absorb I mean... where ever they can find the kind of energy they are unconsciously looking for...
When you no longer carry that energy, they can sense it. When there is nothing left for them to absorb and respond to , the conversation becomes flat...
So I left the set after awhile to gather myself together again..
2 set white guy & Asian girl near our table. So this is a chance to practice the BIT AMOG that we were just taught..
Me : (Smile ) Cheers!... I am a-z.. ( talking most of the time to the girl but turned to the guy and acknowledged him .. )
Asian : hi.. how are you doing?.. I am bla bla..
Me : You are friendly!... thats rare for an Asian girl I must say.. but I like that quality..
( gave a smile and friendly slap on the white guys shoulder.. )
So how did you guys know each other?...
Guy : She is my wife.. ( and I looked at Asian girl to see what she would say.. )
Asian : ( she smile sheepishly and shakes her head... she is not his wife …)
Me : Ahh.. I see... wow...Isn't it kinda late.. So who is taking care of the kids back home? * smiled* ( I was just playing along.. )
Guy : ( slapped me back on my shoulder... and laughed but didn't say anything .. )
I left the set not long after because I don't like Asian girls... lol
2 set Swedish girls- One a bit chubby ( CB ) and the other one, my target, had a beautiful face (BF)...
Me : Cheers !.. I am a-z... You two look friendly.. bla bla... come over and say hi...
CB : Hi..! ( They were hesitating a bit on whether to come with me... then they started to follow me to our table... and there I introduce them to everyone... and sat them down... I started to engage the target , BF )
Me : Where are you from?.. I can tell you have an accent...( not an Australian one )
BF : We are actually from Sweden... *smile* ( at this point her friend ,CB, was getting restless and not very friendly to the others despite everyone trying to befriend her and me turning every now and then towards her to engage her... I found out why later.. Then CB said they need to look for their friends and will come back later and took my target away.. )
So I went to talk to other girls and just hangout at the tables with the guys for awhile..
Later in the night, JT told us to go out for the last time and re-engage the sets we have opened earlier to close them...
So we went out. And I saw the 2 Swedish girls again. This time with 2 other Swedish girls and one other guy..
So I went into the set..
Me : HHEY..!! How are you all doing?.... ( I introduce myself to the other two girls and the guy.. )
So where are you from? ( I asked the guy... )
Guy : I am from Sweden too.. ( but doesn't look Swedish and sounded more like French. I started talking to the two new girls and ignored the guy … lol )
At this point one of the other bootcamp mates called me on my cellphone and said that they have all left the venue... So I had to cut short the set... But I had to re-engage that beautiful Swedish again (BF ).. I walked straight to her..
Me : I sincerely think that you have a very pretty face .. * smiles * ( she strike me as being very conservative.. )
At this point her friend (CB) started to be somewhat irritated.. lol I was wondering why?.. She was friendly and smiling when I was talking to the other 2 Swedish girls.. But when I started to talk to my target she basically became a bitch/cockblock...
She actually started to BLP me! Lol
But I was not about to give up... I also wanted to know why she was behaving like this.. So when CB cockblocked me, I basically moved to other side of the set to re-engage..
But this time CB actually elbowed me out of the set!.. lol
I thought .. wow!.. that was very intentional!
Then it dawned upon me... Everything makes sense now... They must be lesbian partners! And my target must have been her girlfriend!... lol...
What I did well :
My approached anxiety has further lessen after the bootcamp.
Gained a better idea of what fashion style would suit me more
What I can improve on :
Need to improve on my energy level
Need to have a wider range of facial expression
So that was the third and final night of the bootcamp. I think for most of us it was awesome!... We had so many fine white honeys at our tables taking pictures and kissing. This scene made someone in the club comment “ These guys must be the triads.. “
I laughed when I heard that... But it is also sad to hear that. You mean if you are Asian then you need to belong to the triads to date white women?
No we are not the triads. Most of us are students and working professionals... and if you are an Asian you don't need to be in the triads to date the kind of women you want!...
I think most us are not trying to put white women on a pedestal. I think its more like we genuinely like white women, we want to have the power to choose who we date and we want to break some stereotypes surrounding Asian men...
I personally not only like white women. I also like Latinas and the Northen Indians...
On the whole, I have no regrets attending the bootcamp. I not only have no regrets, I am also extremely glad to have met both JT, Gareth and the rest of the bootcamp mates.
I believe this bootcamp has brought my game to a new level. The days ahead will prove this to be true!...
