It has been about one year ago since I had my 1 on 1 with JT. I usually like to track my progress on how I have evolved with game. I came from a long journey and I would like to share this with you guys. Since I have many guys ask me: "How does 3 days change your life with game? Is that possible 3 days 3 nights will change your game" - YES AND NO
No it will not change your game within 3 days.
Yes it will IF you keep working on it and never give up (I swear there are times where I want to give up)
I remember it was in March of 2010 when I was living back in Michigan and I came here to LA (before I moved here) to do my 1 on 1 with JT. I had many problems with women on just getting a day 2. Prior to my 1 on 1 I took a Vensuain Arts bootcamp a year ago as well. If you have already taken a bootcamp I suggest wait a year and if you are not going anywhere maybe consider a 1 on 1 after a year of your bootcamp which I did. You can read my review here (
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So looking back within the past year my game has evolved. I can say that I have grown. After the bootcamp a few months later I pulled a girl to the back seat of my Acura RSX (tiny ass back seat) and made out. I was close to closing her when she said "do you have a condom?" - That is supposed to be they key word saying "Wait" and using Gareths LMR tactic but then I did not know about it and I said yes. Then she hit LMR and said wait no - I don't know you yet. I was struggling with LMR.
Some of you guys may say like "Well Ralph, you're a good looking guy, why cant you get girls?" I know I'm good looking but you can be good looking and without the proper tools and training you will get no where trust me on this. Mind you I have been working on my looks and what works for me. Before I was getting dates and stuff with girls but I was being such a pussy to escalate then it just drags along and I wouldn't get the girl. Then it would evolve to just being friends. So after with that girl I was like man this is not going any where so I dropped her.
During that time I was still sarging and practicing. Learning reading up upon social interaction such as body language basics/understanding human interactions etc. After the bootcamp I was still improving and learning. I did not stop until I started to get results and I still kept going.
So then I moved to LA not just for PUA but the work pays well for me here. After moving to LA I met up with this girl I knew. We started dating but I was getting heavy ass LMR for about 3 weeks. Until Gareth wrote his post about LMR tactics. I read it and re-read it about 3 times till I understood it. One night we were making out and I pulled the LMR tactic and BAM closed that night. A few months go by and I was not into her anymore. I was also taking an online class which made me really busy to sarge other women.
After I finished that semester I met another girl though a friend. Then I heard key words "do you have a condom" then again I did the LMR tactic just in case and BAM closed.
Then she was really nuts and I left her. Then in March I met another girl. We have been texting for a month till we finally met up again. I was using my day 2 game then while we were at the bar I hear another key words "Are we going to have sex tonight" then again I use my LMR. Then closed her that night.
This past weekend I was at a club a girl was asking me what I am doing after? Again key words "what are you doing after this?" I say I dont know just gonna eat or something she says me too I am hungry. Then I suggest pizza at my place by my apt. She agrees to go then another key word she asks "are we going to have sex tonight?" I do another LMR she shakes my hand on it that nothing is going to change between us but she realizes that she drove and cant leave her friend. Close call but I have put it as second nature for me to say those things.
So with all that in mind during my bootcamp I remember I thought it was so hard to bring a girl back to a table just to sit and chat. When I took my bootcamp I brought back 6 girls to the table to chat. Some were 2 sets one was a single girl us chatting. I was like WHOA I NEVER KNEW IT WAS THAT EASY! Isolating a girl is pretty easy after you understand on how to do it.
Another issue I had was how to I extract the girl and bring her back to my place? Just a few weeks ago A girl came to meet me up. I suggest a movie and she agrees to come to my apt. That was my very first pull to my apartment from the bar which was about 20min drive. I was freaking out that this is happening. (This will happen to you guys, you'll start to freak out when things are turning out as planned) In my mind I was thinking HOLY SHIT shes coming back to my apt. I didnt close because she fell asleep since we watched the whole movie. Its okay because it was a learning experience.
So looking back within the past year has been pretty good I cant complain, I mean we're human and wish we can get them all. I mean I didnt close like 2397497294 women but I have been pretty consistent. Now I am running into after game problems which is relationship management, like not being too needy and always thinking about her (this is normal) but hot girls dont want that shit. So in conclusion YES a 3 day bootcamp will change you IF you work on it. I know some of you guys say I work 5 days a week etc. and can only go out on the weekends. Shit I work too and I work midnights. Most of you guys with day jobs can at least day 2 a girl after work on who you met over the weekend and have dinner with her during the week. Unlike me I cant day 2 a girl since I work midnights. So it is possible if you work a full time job.
Other Alumni who is nearing their one year after bootcamp post up a review of your progress and let me know. Im curious to hear how you have changed and evolved. I still consider myself a student and I will always be learning. Ill write another 2 year progress after bootcamp and see how I have changed from now. Now I just have day game issues which ill be working on lol.
Good Luck
Ralph
