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bootcamp field report, day 2, by man cannon
One of the lessons we learn in the ABCs of attraction is regarding emotional intelligence-- how to understand and control your own emotional state, and how to understand and control someone else's emotional state. There are far too many bachelors who are unable to master the most basic of these (understanding your own emotional state), and thus experience repeated failures when meeting women.
On day 2, I saw a transformation in one of our students, Jason. He actually had lots of experience in "the game," and he knew many principles, concepts, routines, and scripts that are freely available on the internet. However, he still had some issues with controlling his own emotional state. It wasn't crippling, but it was there, and I could see that in some small way, the outcome of the previous set was affecting his ability to go into the next set. I am certain that this crippling mind-set has affected him for his entire life, however, from this day forward, this will never be a problem for him ever again.
Here's a snipped of what happened in the field: --- [at this point I had sent this student into 4 or 5 sets which didn't work out so well]
student: Could you help me out and demo a set for me? Tonight just isn't working out for me. me: Sure. I'm going to open a set, but I'm going to need you to watch me so that when I am ready to bring you over, you have to come directly into the set. student: sure
[about 7 minutes later, I look over my right shoulder and I see the student with his hand on her inner thigh and her hand on his thigh.] ---
The set that you're in has NOTHING to do with the previous set!! Just because you got blown out of one set, 2 sets, 3 sets, or 100 sets, that doesn't mean that the next set isn't going to be totally awesome. My student realized this on night 2 of the ABCs of Attraction bootcamp. He's learned how to control his own emotional state, and he was definitely able to positively influence the girl's emotional state. Have you?
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_________________ Formerly known as Man Cannon: Visit my blog: www.BetterAsianMan.WordPress.com: A lifestyle blog & podcast for Asian American men.
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