The final day had arrived for ABC Bootcamp, I didn’t really want it to end. Hanging out with JT, Johnny Wolf and William was extremely fun in the field and I wish I could learn more off these guys. But in the end, its one’s own life journey and you gotta be able to make it on your own.
The last day’s lessons were E & F. It’s the zone where I find great difficulty coming from a nice guy mentality. JT explains about asian culture and how our generation of men are behind in the dating scene. Something a lot of us could relate to.
We learnt about approaching mix sets and how they’re generally the better sets compared to the all female sets. As a woman, having guy friends around gives them that reassurance that they’ll be protected and generally they’re easier to talk with.
We also learnt about AMOG and its important uses. We had a fun game with the girls who helped us with the BootCamp. With our fellow ABC Bootcampers, we either had to cockblock em or steal the girl away. I would be the first to attempt this with JT, which I failed miserably hahaha.
Johnny Wolf explains the importance of logistics and having a good game plan from A to F will get you successful lays.
Finally, both the ABC instructors and the girls gave us fashion tips. I got good style, but I really, really need some decent nice shoes The Field
Sunday nights are generally pretty quiet in the city of Sydney. The first venue we hit for the night wouldn’t let Johnny Wolf inside. Its boggles the mind why Sydney seems to discourage men from having an individual preference, Johnny Wolf having his red Mohawk and all. Johnny Wolf seems to crack them a smile by doing his best hair comb over, which the bouncers chuckled and I put the final touches by declaring its Johnny Wolf first time in Sydney and we’re showing him around the best places in Sydney. The bouncers eventually let us inside.
Ironically enough, there was another girl in the same venue with Johnny Wolf’s dyed red hair.
Originally we were supposed to run AMOG game with our fellow bootcampers, but the idea didn’t seem feasible due to the limited supply of women on the night. William had given me a mission tonite, talk slower….reallllllllll………slooooooowww….JT…Sssslllloooooowwwwww.The three nurses
As we established our little VIP area again in the venue, JT states to the group there are three women by the little table, who is up for it. I jumped to the opportunity and head off to the trio of females.
I run my natural opener, these women were a little older for my preference but that’s ok. I had introduced myself with a new way of using a deeper tonality, something I learnt from chatting to a brunette Aussie on Day 2. Engaging all three of these women was simple and I was having a great time.
Throughout the interaction, I made myself aware that I had to slow down the tonality and lowered the use of my hand gestures. I had introduced PO into the group and I began winging him by talking with the other two nurses. Comfort and Connect was going pretty well, but I pretty much stopped there.
I would reserve Direct and Dominance with girls that I was truly interested.Little Blonde from Melbourne
We decided to bounce to another venue, which was more dance game than anything else. I walk in with PO and he immediately starts dancing with a brunette from Melbourne. For some odd reason, most people from Melbourne are generally friendlier than the people of Sydney. I winged PO by chatting up to the little blonde chick and start dancing with her.
PO is doing pretty well, as he is already pashing the brunette. At this moment I decide to go in for a kiss, which the little blonde shows some resistance. She didn’t run away, but my nice guy mentality kicks in and I’m just dancing with her.
I would end up dancing with another blonde in the group, which I go direct. The thing I really need to work on is my mind-set. An Alpha male who makes no apologies with his desires for women, a man who doesn’t care about the rejection and takes what he wants. Something that will take some time to work on I’m sure, but with discipline and dedication, I’m sure I’ll get there. Mix set
Jamestopdog and I decided to check out another venue in the Cross area. We had to open at least one set within the venue and I was pretty keen to push myself out of my comfort zone and open a mix set.
A new record, I opened a mix set within 30 seconds of entering a new venue. Usually I wait a while before making a mental decision to jump in. I open the guys in the mix set and engage everyone with the topic of my opener. Within 10 mins, I was already part of the group. Both guys and girls within the group were pretty friendly.
I found out they work in one of the clubs/bars in Sydney where Asians generally hang around. One of the girls I would eventually recognized, because she was one of the attractive bartenders I see when I go to this Asian club/bar. Would have love to bang that hottie.
Inexperienced with extracting girls from a mix set, I decided to move on.Final critique of me
Physically and mentally exhaustion was upon us. The final last moment of the session includes a review on us before and after the bootcamp. JT asked what I thought of myself and I mentioned that I had at least attempted to slow the fuck down. Making a conscious decision to lessen excessive hand gestures.
JT mentioned that I have the most potential for direct game. Learn to speak JT slow. JT also mentioned that women can generally talk for hours upon hours and that I’m not in the sets to out talk them. It’s to present the fine ladies I meet that I’m a sexual guy and that I’m giving them the opportunity. Better me than any other jerk out there.Thoughts on the Bootcamp
This Bootcamp was definitely very special to me. With JT, Johnny Wolf and William all appearing to teach us the arts of seduction was definitely worth every penny. I never really had any proper role models to learn from.
Having a complete structure allows me to understand where I am with the women I am interacting with. I know which sections I will need to improve on and having better preparation will definitely help me better in the field in the future.
I would like to say special thanks to the ABC instructors.
JT, it was an honour to learn off you. Many times I’ve seen you in action and see how much balls you have. I’m glad that you’re one of the positive asian role models out there that shatter the excuses about being asian and height, especially within the interracial racial relationship context between AM and WF.
Johnny Wolf, as you know, I’m really glad you didn’t fully retire and that you came to Sydney to teach us asian brothers. It was always fun when we winged each other and introducing different girls. I learnt a lot from your tutelage and still have both mini you and JT telling me to “Go”.
William, I wish I had more opportunities to go in field with you. But within the teachings of our bootcamp, you were the perfect example of a dedicated man who changed his life by acting upon it. It’s very inspirational and I will use the lessons in vocal tonality, improv talking and body language (I now make a conscious effort to face people directly hahaha, thanks) to further my success. What I got from the Bootcamp
Prior to the bootcamp, I had pretty much reached a stagnated part of pick up. The new things I’ve got from Bootcamp include:
1. New goals
2. A better understanding of the latter stages in pickup and why LMR was stopping me
3. New role models
4. New brothers in arms
5. More confidence
6. More desire to put up field reports and areas to improve on.
Once again, from the bottom of my heart, thank you. I look forward to meeting in the future, as a role model for other asian brothers who are also looking to crack into the interracial dating scene and achieving the ‘Asian Dream’.