So .. I took the SF bootcamp with Johnny Wolf (and Garreth Jones and Andrew (showtime) ) this past weekend.
It was one of the best decision I've made.
A little about me, I'm 27 year old "average guy", meaning I'm not very good with women, and definitely scared ass shit to cold approach attractive girls. But in this bootcamp, Johnny, Garreth and Andrew has shown me what's possible (or I should say doable!) and equipped me with the tools to do it.
I'm not going to bore you with too much details about how the bootcamp is set up. Instead, I'll tell you things that surprised me.
The first night we went clubbing, within minutes most of us were all over the floor approaching girls, opening sets using techniques and openers we've learned earlier during the day. I expected that most of us would fail miserably and leave the place with our tails between our legs. But instead, almost half of us were bringing girls back to our homebase! Unfortunately, I wasn't one of them. I was having major approach anxiety. I was so scared, but I pushed myself to open a few sets. Nevertheless what I saw opened my eyes!
We just learned the techniques and openers a few hours earlier. So obviously, we were not good at using them. And yet, they worked!
So the second night, I came into the club with a higher energy and confidence in the stuff that Johnny, Andrew and Garreth taught me during the day. I was able to open a few sets and practice my openers, dhv and bt spikes. But I was a C student in this class. The A students, they kiss closed, got numbers and GOT LAID! Yes, two of them got laid in the second night. I'll let them write their own report on this
Third day, was the most interesting one and the most fun for me. We went to a club in oakland. And it was a black club. (Yes, I said black, and I don't mean to sound racist, just want to describe my experience as vividly as possible). To be honest, I felt very out of place. Here we are, a group of mostly 10 asian and 2 white guys in an all black club. And our task that night was to open mixed sets and the hardest sets and AMOG other guys. Again, to my surprised, the techniques they taught us to get disarm and get rid of the guys in a mixed sets works!
Now, you can read all these techniques on the internet. They are all there. But some information just cannot be transfered well from reading or watching videos (I'm know this not just from experience, I can point you scientific researches that have proofed it). Pick up is definitely one of them. Before I took the bootcamp, i've heard/read almost all the things they taught us from the internet. But I could never apply them with any success.
There are two reason for that. First, you can't pick up voice tonality, facial expression, and other "emotional" communication from print! Not even from video! You just can't replace face to face interaction.
Second, without the coaches next to you, nobody is giving you the feedback you need. They tell you what you did right, wrong, or need improvement.
Lastly, what I found very beneficial from the bootcamp is that you went through it with a group of people like yourself. All nine of us become close, and we're going to help each other to become great PUAs
As I'm writing this post, I'm planning to throw a party in a few weeks with my bootcamp brothers and bring as many girls as we can to the party. It's going to be awesome! I'll let you know how it goes
Take the bootcamp. If you found that I'm not telling you the truth, I'll reimburse you... Yeah right!
No seriously, it's worth it. If money is the problem, think about it this way: how many times have you gone to a club or bought drinks/dinner/gifts for girls and ended up jerking off at home anyway? Some of you might've even gone on vacation to europe/south america/asia, secretly fantasizing that you'd meet someone on the trip and get laid. Am I right or am I right? Now, how many thousand dollars have you wasted doing all those and still not got laid?
I rest my case.