Day Game w/ Mike "Smooth" + One Liner

One Liner: "Mike has lead me through a door to a new perspective of the world and given me the opportunity/the wings to develop yet another part of my life."

I've attended the Day Game in San Francisco in July 3th and 4th of 2011.

My Background: I've approached girls in my classes in college, but never done a 100% cold approaches like this before, in my life. What makes it more difficult is that I'm an International student where things like this are never practiced in my country (the closest thing that you get to cold approaching is by getting to know girls over facebook and text messaging) and is still not very familiar or used to the social interactions in America. I thought I was a pretty confident guy when getting to know people, but when I was actually told to start conversation with a lady I've never met before, specifically to hit on her, with I actually felt much- more nervous than I usually am around people.

Why Do I Decide Attend This?
+ I feel that I'm quite a handsome guy; but I can't seem to make any attraction with the ladies in America, like I could in my country. The girls that I've met at campus, all only ended up as friends and has no attraction going on whatsoever.
+ I want to see, the actual techniques, what do the pros actually do/say, to get to know someone in the street.
+ I feel it's important for a guy to be able to do this. To improve my character into being a more confident and high self-esteem man.
+ Day game is the way-to-go for me. Because I rarely go to bars or nightclubs, also that I'm under aged to do so too.
+ Because I'm Asian, I really want to know if Asians can really do this.
+ When you find someone who is just, beautiful in the street/mall that could be the one who cares and loves you wholeheartedly and she's right over there, right in front of you. Don't you ever feel like... "There's something I can do about this."

What I've Gained:
+ What pick-up is all about. Go up to someone beautiful, and just start talking. That simple. There's no magic tricks.
+ What the different techniques are, the tools, examples of approach that I can start to develop from there.
+ I understand more about attraction, the thing that girls use to separate a friend from a potential boyfriend.
+ A lot of very good advice from Mike. He told me, how to look more like a Real Man in hairstyle, posture and attitude.
+ Yes, Asians actually can do this.
+ Now when I find someone like that, I can say... "Yes, I can do something about this."
+ A new tool/perspective about women and the game, that I can start to develop on my own.
+ An unforgettable moment in my life. Someone really cute. In 3 minutes. I just don't, freakin' believe it that I can actually pull anything close to that off, ever.

My Recommendation:
Mike is an amazing man. He KNOWS his stuff and he is the person that can exactly give you the examples, tools and support you need to actually BE the pick-up artist. If you have always felt that... that women right there, standing right over there, can be that women of your dreams, and you WANT something to be done about it. You talk to Mike, and he will tell you exactly what you need to do. That's how much he can help you. All you need, some guts to actually do this, willing to walk up to people and say, "Hey" and the determination to improve yourself. He is a kind man to be able to help many individuals like this. He asked me to write a review about him, and I did because meeting him was really just one of those points in life where you just changed to a better man.

Hey Ernest,

I'm glad you enjoyed your workshop experience.

I must admit that I'm not used to working with students such as yourself. So this was as much of a learning experience for me as it was for you. I understand that in your country no one approaches; but now you know that if you expect to meet girls here in America (or anywhere else) you have to be the man to take initiative. You must always be the leader and you can't expect them to move things forward, that's your job. I'm glad you realize now what you have to do in order to separate yourself from friend to a potential parter in a woman's eyes.

Now, what I want you to work on is to not think so much about the outcome and just go and approach. No more hesitation. No more thinking, "what if this happens?" Just go and let the chips fall where they may. Be in the moment and give value. Become a real, genuine person in her eyes. If she "rejects" or "blows you out", who cares. Experience rejections, learn from them, and move on. That's the only way to get better. Just like Tommy said, we all went thru the fire to be where we are now. You'll get there too if you keep working at this.

You're a young guy and lucky to learn this at an early age. A lot of us would do anything to be in your shoes, so take advantage! Next time you see that attractive girl... GO FOR IT! Life's too short not to.

Good luck and I look forward to reading your future field reports.

I just took the Day Game with Ozzie so I know exactly what you went through. It's definitely more challenging than Night Game in the sense that you have to spend a lot more time seeking out sets. Rejections seem more common too.

But it's a great skill to have. You can walk around 24/7 knowing the ABC's.

Thanks for the advice Mike, you know right after that I kinda screw up on the building the relationship thingie.
Cause she said that she was not at all attracted to me, other than my approach was good.
Oh well, experience huh, lol.

I think I make a mistake on building that attraction. I guess I should only focus on that, rather than trying to taking things somewhere.
I believe it's the 10 attraction switches correct?

"Protector of loved ones (financially, physically, emotionally)"
"Socially competent"
"Pre-selected by women"
"Intelligent"
"Confident"
"Funny"
"Leader of men"
"Has standards when comes to women"
"Many girlfriends"
"Sexual safety"

I may need some help/examples on that part again tho.
Once I'm set with the those, I'm planning to go all-out again in saturday.

Ernest,

The reason why she was not attracted to you was because you did not convey enough dominance and sexuality. Also, it's best to spend more time in comfort before getting the number to ensure a solid day 2.

Now, some ways to convey dominance and sexuality:

-Walk to her in a straight line. Do not hesitate to approach. Do not wander or hang around waiting for the "right time" to open her. JUST DO IT. The approach MUST be done right away.
-Ask questions VERY sparingly during the A-phase and B-phase. Save the questions for when you are in the C-phase.
-Hold eye contact and smile.
-Remember to have your chest out, shoulders back, chin up, and feet apart.
-Always appear relaxed.
-Remove approval seeking behavior (for example, do not say something you think she wants to hear and wait or expect a positive reaction from her).
-Talk slower. When you talk slower and maintain eye contact, it can be very sexy.

Here are some examples you can use to build a girl's buying temperature during the B-phase:

-Do some cocky/funny humor like: "Please get it out of your mind that we're going to sleep together tonight, it takes a few dates and a few glasses of wine to open me up." This is also a role reversal.
-You can role play and have her be your "girlfriend" for the next 5 minutes. Then tell her in a sarcastic tone, "Oh you like xyz?! Ugh, it will never work out between us!" Then break up with her. Be playful.
-Allude to sexual activities without directly using YOU or HER in it. For example: "The best thing about a full body massage is the feeling of relaxation when your muscles are being firmly pressed down on. It really relieves the stress. Even better is when you can give that same relaxation to others."
-Both Tommy and I like to frame the target as the type of girl who likes to flirt and pick up men. For example: "Besides coming out to xyz location to flirt with random men, what else do you do in your life?" or "I understand you only came out here to shop, but when you come out dressed like that, you KNOW for a fact you get a bit of sexual charge when guys notice."

This is not an extensive list but more of a few things to do when flirting with a woman. The point is to give you an idea of ways to come up with your own sexual communication techniques. It conveys dominance and sexuality in a playful way.

Note: You must be calibrated when using these examples. So be aware if she is laughing, smiling, and/or touching you. But most importantly, run compliance. Remember the rule of 3. If she passes, continue. If she fails 3, move on. Otherwise you will just look like a creep.