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Hey what's up guys,
I'm totally new to the forums and this is actually my first post. Just wanted to throw down my two cents on the APB bootcamp out in L.A. Before I get into super detail here, all I'm going to say is that these 3 days have TOTALLY changed my life.
Before this bootcamp whenever I went in the field, I never really had a goal and as because of that, I never really got any results. I'm sure this sounds kind of familiar for a lot of you guys out there ( well at least it represents me and the wings I usually go out with). For the most part, for the few months whenever we would go out, ALL we would do is just open a few sets and if we were lucky and we might get a number from some mediocre chick and of course never call her back. Personally, for some reason, I can summon the motivation to get out to the clubs and stuff but I couldn't seem to ever summon the motivation to put on my game face and sexually escalate in a club. So like we just constantly found ourselves going to clubs and just spitting half ass game and just getting nowhere.
During this bootcamp with the assistance from all the amazing coaches I managed to kiss-close 2 girls a night. I'm from Michigan, and like, I'm not going to say our girls are ugly, BUT the girls out here, like holy shit, I could literally just walk outside and just spank off to passerby's. And yes, I honestly couldn't believe it myself, but I would find myself locking lips with LA hotties (like white girls too!, and I'm totally just some shlubby asian dude). It was simply amazing and for me personally, I'm just looking for that one special girl and you know sometimes you just meet that one special someone that has that "x-factor" and there's that special chemistry?
On my second night, I saw this absolutely gorgeous girl that initially I was reluctant to approach(she was totally out of my league). So Man-cannon was like fuck it, he goes in, entertains her and her friend and totally DHV's me and waves me in. I go in and from the start, she's nothing but smiles. I shake her hand and sit down with her.
Me:“Wow, you are so fuckin beautiful”
Hb:”awww… thank you, you’re so funny”
Me “No, seriously, you are real…. Frickin… gorgeous”
HB: “Really, you mean that?”
Me: “Yeah, like I’m from Michigan and we honestly don’t get girls out there to your caliber”.
HB: “*hand over mouth, (blushes)*
Literally, that’s ALL I said, I think the real “make or break” here is that I said everything genuinely and looked her straight in the eye. I mean shit, she REALLY was super attractive. Feelin a little one-itis... *shutters*. Here's a better breakdown of the structure and the actions I took
A for ASSUME (Attract then Approach)
Skipped this step for the most part, ManCannon DHV'd me and the instructors dressed me up well, so minimal work was required in this step
B for BE IN THE MOMENT - (Banter & Buying Temperature)
By going in direct, I cut out all the bullshit, she liked me and I liked her. Magic.
C for Challenge (Comfort & Connect)
We started off doing very general kino like me touching her shoulder whenever i made a point. I also used the silencer on her a lot which helped me escalate into sexual kino.
D for Dominant (Direct Interest & Disqualify)
I tried bouncing her over to our booth but for some reason her friend wasn't complying or talking to some other guy, so we just set back down in the same place we had initially started, No worries =P. DId the arch-angel maneuver and her hand was on my thigh. I put my arm around her and she leaned up against my shoulder.
E for Evaluate (Extract & Escalate)
We made out, she tasted delicious =). Dropped the "You really wanna kiss me don't you" closer and she said "maybe, and giggled". I went 90 and she went 10. Awesome! Got her number and the club was closing. Should've closed her..... meh.....
F for Future (Fun! or Fake?)
Another evening with my left hand unfortunately, = /, one of these days though.... one of these days!
Look, I honestly cannot wait to take what I've learned and give it a run back home, I mean shit, i feel like if you can run game on L.A girls, ain't no thang anywhere else (yes, i'm that gangster). Also, if you're a guy(especially if you're asian) reading this and considering taking the bootcamp, here was my thought process before I signed up.
1. I'm an asian guy, not saying mystery isn't good or what not, BUT, this guy has specialized tactics for minorities. He'll take a FOB and totally make him into a stud.
2. Basic supply and demand, check out rates for bootcamps, your bang to buck ratio compared to other companies is just much better. At any point during my in-field game, if I needed an instructor he was available to wing me or give me guidance or critiques. You SIMPLY cannot get the same personalized attention.
3. I'm sure you've read "The Game" already, shit, if you're not getting laid and pretty pissed about it like I was, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. My asian parents raised me to be smart, educated, etc, etc, and Upon graduating from a top notch school (go blue, feel free to contact me personally if you're from ann arbor), I realized that even though I was able to make some decent bank, I didn't have the girl to go along with that and I was still nerdy and socially inept, and hell, what good is that? So I thought to myself, the BEST I can do is get rich and hopefully get a hot trophy wife that would probably spend all my cash buying random crap anyway.
MAKE THE INVESTMENT, it takes time and effort. It took Neil Strauss, the best pick up artist a year and a half going out 4-5 times a week before he even became "good". Anyway, I'll get off my soap box, but if you're not getting what you want, don't be afraid to make that first step.
Best Regards,
Kevin Feng
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My Blog: The K-Feng Chronicles
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