ABCs Orlando Bootcamp Review - Kevin, Will, and Gareth

The ABCs bootcamp of Orlando is the most transformational experience I've ever experienced.

This was accomplished from a 34-year old asian, software developer who grew up as the shortest boy in school, and under a sexually repressed household. Consequently, NEVER approaching women, asking for phone numbers or dates (at least not intentionally), and NEVER being the first to express attraction.

I came to the bootcamp with the purpose of:
1) Getting over approach anxiety
2) Developing flirting skills
3) Developing skills in sexual expression

Basically.... EVERYTHING!



My Breakthroughs:

Day 1: Approaching 10 women the first day, getting 1 number. THE breakthough is that I pushed beyond my boundaries and approached 10, and was not at all bothered by the 9 that didn't work out!! Anyway, the one I did get a number from... was someone I was talking to for over an hour!

Day 2: Approaching and talking to 2 women, and getting both of their numbers. More importantly, I learned that I could be direct. Heres 2 examples:
1) I never thought I would approached a woman and just say "I thinking you are F*#&ing adorable, and I just wanted to come here to meet you". I started that line with a cute blonde, and bantered and build comfort for 15 minutes and number closed (I would have talked to her longer but we had to leave).
2) I have a hot blonde isolated in out booth, and talk for quite a while and I tell her "I am very attracted to you"!!
I went from repressed to bold! I've read from some other "gurus" out there that you shouldn't never compliment a woman on her looks... what a load of shit. It just a matter of being real.

Day 3: Getting a rude awakening to my image (even though I had already been doing well). Keving coached my greatly on this, and now I have a look of an edgy entrepeneur!

The final results: I got numbers from a cute blonde, a cute puerto rican, and a hot blonde who was 11 years younger than me. I've got a new level of confidence, and to this day I'm still having success (I got 3 numbers last weekend, and took 1 of the girls home). MORE IMPORTANTLY, I'm still approaching!

Bottom line: Guys... if you just do EXACTLY what these guys tell you to do, WITHOUT questioning them (at least, not until AFTER you've done it).
You WILL improve, you WILL find out where your thoughts, behaviors, and actions have been dead wrong. You will get the arrogance of your ways but you WILL succeed.
If you have approach anxiety, they will set up a safe environment for you to get past that. If you suck at banter, you will be trained to improv. They cover everything in this bootcamp.

Finally, I really can't give you any on the field examples of how adept the instructors are. I can only tell you that they were pulling women, but I couldn't tell you how many because I spend most of my time (90%) locked in and isolated with a woman each night. IOW, I was with talking to a woman for so long on each night, there was no opportunity for use to wing each other!

The only thing I found lacking was more detailed training on text/phone game, but Gareth is already on the case, and I definitely will take is course. I mean come on! This guy can make a trip to a Cafe sound sexy.

Gareth -
One of the most masterful story tellers I've ever met... and if I may be so bold, I'm a well-trained story teller. It only takes him a few seconds to spot the main point of a story. It also blows me away how he knows how to make the most boring story sound interesting! The man also really knows how to tell romantic, sensual, and sexual stories. BTW, on the Sunday night after the bootcamp, I went out with Gareth and our hosts and I got really drunk, and crashed at our host's place. I work up at 4am to hear some seriously heaving female breathing and the rythmic sound of a couch moving, and left because I could sleep through that. Gareth, you rock!!


Kevin - You WANT to have Kevin as a coach because he is a lifetime student of pickup. The last coach you want to have is someone who has stopped developing himself. Kevin is always developing himself and leading the way. Very real, personable, and completely adept. He always had some coaching to give, given the vast knowledge that he has.

On my nights out sarging... my AA was VERY high. Kevin and William were very supportive and made it very easy for me to overcome my approach anxiety.

Finally, Kevin has a strong sense of fashion and image... giving me a makeover on Sunday. Afterwards MANY of my friends said over and over again, "There's something different about you"... AND I got many compliments on a shift in my confidence. BTW, I'm having women approach ME now! Kevin, you've made a huge difference in my life!!!

William - Simple, direct, and effective. William is like a soft-spoken, no nonsense drill sergeant. DAMN, masterful in technique and teaching. On day 1, he said "I don't care about whether you get X or blow yourself out, this camp is about you developing yourself". He told me to send a txt msg to the girl I just met Friday night. But I got pissed because I thought I was going to blow myself out, but sent it only because I promised to.
It turns out I was dead wrong... she responded favorably. He knows waaay better, and he only had my long term progress in mind. That is why I trust him as a coach! Hell, that is why I trust ALL the coaches!!!

Hey Brother,

Thank you for the kind words!

It was awesome coaching you at the bootcamp and quite honestly, definitely wish I had more time to coach you, but you were in set about 80% of the time (not a bad problem to have). You have a lot going for you and seeing that look on your face after the first and second night, that look of awe, that look of "oh wow.... is this really happening this is amazing", those are the most gratifying moments for me as a coach.

I encourage you to keep going out and writing field reports, you accomplished a lot during your bootcamp and you should definitely keep up the momentum. Look forward to seeing you make strides in 2010

Welcome to the boards bro. I enjoyed doing the boot camp with you. I think your greatest asset is your sincerity. Women really respond to that. Keep up the good work!

- SpacePirate

No, YOU rock.

Dude, I had a blast that weekend and I am glad that you're still making progress. SP is absolutely right when he talks about your sincerity being your best quality. It will help you immeasurably and, now that you're applying these specific techniques, the amount of success that you're going to be having will be insane.

Great work on this weekend and, like I said then, even though it may take me a while to get back to you, you can always call or email me, any time.

-G