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omao123
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Post subject: How Facebook message a girl  Posted: 26 Jun 2012, 11:31 |
Joined: 26 Jun 2012, 11:21
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How to message a girl you never met before on Facebook that you like without coming off as creepy?
how should i talk to a girl i never met through Facebook. One of my pals knows her but im not really friends with him and he wont really introduce me to her. I tried to talk to him about it but he does not have the guts to do it. So the only way I can contact her is through Facebook. She does not know me however I want to add her and message on Facebook, but what should I message her so I don’t come off as creepy or weird. Please help me. I look forward to your answer.
ps we don’t know each other and the only way to get her know her is through Facebook. We don't even go to the same school. I added her recently but waiting for her to accept the request. Once she accepts I want to message her but I don't know what to say. Please give me an honest answer.
Thanks!
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GuitarHero
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Post subject: Re: How Facebook message a girl Posted: 26 Jun 2012, 12:48 |
Joined: 03 Feb 2008, 22:33
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Location: Taiwan (BC: LA, May 2008)
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Don't know bro, never tried it before...
But I would guess you should use the same ABC structure.
If I were you, I'd just be honest and say something like
A is for Apporach/attract:
"I'm not a creep! but I saw your profile and facebook through our mutual friend __________ and I just HAD to say hello! You look beautiful and I'm curious about you. -(your name)
I don't know if that would work, but if she's interested...she'll respond. You're direct, honest, and not being a creep by trying to stalk her on facebook.
If she responds, start vibing with her and be genuinely interested in who she is and what makes her tick. Comment about her area of study in school and even about the hobbies and things she likes on her facebook background info.
But just so you know...pickup through facebook isn't my territory, so just take what I say with a grain of salt.
good luck!
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Jay Protege
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Post subject: Re: How Facebook message a girl Posted: 28 Jun 2012, 17:10 |
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This situation is putting you in a position to be bold rather than in a confident one where you know you have some success. My question is why do you want this girl so bad? You don't know her, you have never talked and then you are trying to get a friend who you never hang out with to introduce you to her. I don't know if you realize this but your already coming off as creepy due to how you are trying to go about meeting this girl. 1. Your basically trying to use your friend so you can meet her. (You don't hang out with him and now you want him to introduce you lol) 2. You know nothing about her, what if she is crazy. You don't know and you want to meet her. 3. Then you want to message unknown girl on fb without being creepy..... Get the picture.
Spend your time working on you and getting your social skills and overall life together, this girl isn't worth that much.
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GuitarHero
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Post subject: Re: How Facebook message a girl Posted: 28 Jun 2012, 19:26 |
Joined: 03 Feb 2008, 22:33
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Location: Taiwan (BC: LA, May 2008)
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nicely said Jay
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"I am a tree and its trunk and branches, the leaves are my women, I grow taller and prettier with time; the abundance of leaves makes me beautiful. I reach for the sky, the taller the better, leaves do not lead my way to the sun, but my branches do. The leaves I leave behind, I remember them, but they are not my destiny. Leaves fall and wither with time, while I keep growing prettier and taller, towards the sun."
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