It is currently 22 May 2013, 22:07

All times are UTC - 8 hours [ DST ]





 Page 1 of 1 [ 3 posts ] 
Author Message
 Post subject: Waiting on a girls reply I don't know if she got creeped out
PostPosted: 26 Jun 2012, 15:01 
Hungry Ghost

Joined: 26 Jun 2012, 11:21
Posts: 2
I sent a girl a message through Facebook mentioning the below comment

Hey, I don’t mean to come of as creepy, and I know its kind of random but we met a while ago. One of my friends knows you, and I think you’re really cute. I've been asking my friend for an introduction but he is being shy about it, so I decided to take some initiative and say hello.

Its been 5 days and I have not heard back from the person yet :(

I was thinking the person is on vacation or is creeped out or has a bf and does not want to respond or did not see the message.

Tips anyone? What should I do move on or just wait a while and message the person again.

Im looking for an honest answer and I know their are plenty of girls out there. But I just want to hear from another individual on what they think.


Offline
 Profile  
 
 Post subject: Re: Waiting on a girls reply I don't know if she got creeped
PostPosted: 27 Jun 2012, 23:17 
Sage

Joined: 10 Sep 2011, 00:18
Posts: 67
Any time You say that you are not being creepy. Trust me. You are being creepy!

And yes, your message was creepy. And sounded desperate.

You wanted honest, right?

I personally hate facebook messaging, texting, emails for communication, let alone introductions.

If you don't have the balls to meet the person in person, then you shouldn't be with them.

But, if you insist on facebook messaging a person for initial contact, how about this?

'Hi, my name is Omao. We met a while back and our common friend is XYZ. It would be great for us to grab a Starbucks or McDonald's Happy Meal'.

Think I am kidding about the McDonald's Happy Meal? That is one of my best kept secrets I just told you. The Happy meal is pretty close to 100% for an awesome first date. As is the 'bucks.

But, what do I know? Nothing. I am definitely not a pick up artist.


Offline
 Profile  
 
 Post subject: Re: Waiting on a girls reply I don't know if she got creeped
PostPosted: 28 Jun 2012, 16:48 
Warrior Scholar
User avatar

Joined: 31 May 2012, 12:49
Posts: 197
Location: Los Angeles
Bootcamp Graduate: No
It would have been better to meet this girl in person, then hit her up on FB. When you said you don't mean to come off as creepy, that is the first flag that is raised in the girls mind (You made her think of you as creepy). She may know your friend but you have now made him seem creepy because you said he was shy to introduce you and you made yourself seem unconfident because you needed an intro from your friend. Just because it sounded good to you doesn't mean it comes off differently to someone else. Girls are very good at being able to read the meaning behind things, so be careful of what you communicate. Hope this helps.



_________________
“Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless - like water. Now you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup, you put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, you put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now water can flow, drip, creep, or crash. Be water, my friend.” -Bruce Lee

Add Me On FB:
http://www.facebook.com/jay.conto

Add Me On Twitter:
http://www.twitter.com/JayProtegeConto

NY Bootcamp Review
http://www.abcsofattraction.com/community/reviews-testimonials-f42/boot-camp-review-nyc-june-2012-t6706.html
Offline
 Profile  
 
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
 Page 1 of 1 [ 3 posts ] 

All times are UTC - 8 hours [ DST ]


Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 1 guest


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Jump to: