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Johnny Wolf
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Post subject: The Perfect Pickup Technique  Posted: 07 Aug 2011, 08:09 |
Joined: 09 May 2007, 12:07 Posts: 410 Location: World Wide - SF, Vegas, Thailand
Bootcamp Graduate: Yes - Remember, I was once in your shoes!
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The Perfect Pickup is when you meet a beautiful girl and you do everything just right and it all goes smoothly, you meet each other, attraction is mutual and you end up having sex without any lies or heartbreak. It all goes well, you may even end up dating and falling in love after that, or just be happy calling it a one night stand.
The Perfect Pickup Method is the Johnny Wolf method of making that happen consistently over and over again, using the ABC's of Attraction Structure. In fact, the whole point of it is to pick up using the least amount of time and the least amount of effort possible. Things like lying or making up a false story may seem like the easy way gain attraction or get over LMR but it actually causes a lot more drama and work back peddling, making it harder in the long run than just telling the truth in the first place.
Example of a Perfect Pickup:
I go somewhere with a friend to do something I was going to do anyways. I spot a beautiful girl and approach her with no hesitation. I go direct and tell her that she is really pretty, which she is. My body language, eye contact and slow seductive smile is on point and perfect, I use BLP (Body Language Positioning) to gain small compliance and get her to face me and away from any potential obstacles. The BLP also shows the rest of the people at the venue that she is into me, building up my pre-selection by women, and it closes off our conversation for others to join in, or for me to get AMOGed (cock blocked, basically.)
*The above is all very subtle and all within the first minute of the conversation.
She asks me the normal questions, "Where are you from" and "What do you do for work." - I give her the "perfect responses." (more on that later) - which build more attraction and makes her decide she wants to hook up with me.
I acknowledge this and know that I can move onto building more comfort, connection and compliance - most "puas" would spend the next 30 minutes entertaining the girl, trying to demonstrate high value, or over game her.
Once there is enough comfort and connection, I check compliance by asking her to go somewhere with me and she does, I know then to show direct interest through Kino and Eye Gazing.
I move onto Extracting and Sexually Escalating, I pass her LMR (last minute reservations) tests and we have sex. The next day she takes me out and buys me an expensive dinner. She is happy, I am happy, I have the power to choose to keep it casual, to take it into a relationship, or to end it there.
The above was an example of how a "perfect pickup" works and it happened to me three days ago. I've been using this method for the past few months with fantastic success. I've used it successfully and hooked up with a few American girls, and also it seems to work really well for women from other countries, better than any other method I've ever tried since European girls hate it when guys talk themselves up or brag.
However, it's not a method for beginners or people with approach anxiety. It is more of method to strive to attain and to work towards. It is also the method that I teach in my bootcamps since I truly believe that 90% of the stuff guys do in sets to pick up girls is a complete waste of time. PUA's talk too much and over game.
The "perfect response" to the two most common questions a girl will ask anyways is all you need to demonstrate high value, and gain enough attraction that the girl wants to hook up with you. Then all you need is to know How and When to transition into the next phase.
Sign up for a bootcamp with me if you want to learn the ABC's of Attraction Structure, master your non-verbal communication, develop your perfect responses, practice it in a classroom until you get it, then go out and use it on real women while your coach pushes and helps you. I truly and sincerely believe that the bootcamps I teach change people's lives, which is why I still get emails all the time from alumni students who are now in great relationships, hooking up with girls, and some even getting married. If you want to learn the Perfect Pickup, sign up today for an early bird discount and commit yourself to improving your game and becoming great with women.
Warm Regards,
Johnny Wolf
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TheAsianPersuasion
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Post subject: Re: The Perfect Pickup Technique  Posted: 20 Mar 2012, 18:57 |
Joined: 16 Mar 2012, 13:18 Posts: 8
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This and the F-Phase are easily the most resounding models
Thank You.
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Ben J
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Post subject: Re: The Perfect Pickup Technique  Posted: 27 May 2012, 14:08 |
Joined: 28 Jun 2010, 15:50 Posts: 508 Location: Los Angeles, CA
Bootcamp Graduate: YES (BC: Chicago Jan 2011)
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Perfect Pickup IS possible. I myself have experienced this several times and have walked away with a beautiful young lady in my arms that evening. The whole idea of thinking positive and amping yourself up is necessary as well. I personally find that in order to have the "Perfect Pickup," I need: 1. A GREAT and PRODUCTIVE DAY - hitting the gym, doing something awesome like Surfing 2. Overall - feeling good about myself - did something fun in the middle of the day like play video games or hang out with a female friend 3. Already be in a socializing mood - I have to hang out with a friend or chat up an old pal on the phone. 4. BE GENUINE AND REAL Going out in a shitty mood just bring that shitty mood to the fun and breaks our mantra of "Be a fun maker, not a fun taker." Putting yourself in a FUN environment while you're feeling depressed or crappy will only make you feel even more depressed or crappy... In order for Perfect Pickup to work, one must have absolute confidence and genuine intentions. I can't stress the importance of being genuine, and Johnny explains this really well when he says, Quote: Things like lying or making up a false story may seem like the easy way gain attraction or get over LMR but it actually causes a lot more drama and work back peddling, making it harder in the long run than just telling the truth in the first place. I do my absolute best to be a genuine and real person, no matter whatever situation I'm in. If you want a REAL relationship with REAL results with a REAL attractive girl, then you better a REAL person yourself. This can't be stressed enough, and Johnny does an excellent job of explaining this. If you stay real and true to yourself through the entire process, Perfect Pickup can happen... Often.
_________________ ABC's of Attraction Approach Coach "ACTION is the foundational key to SUCCESS" - Piccaso Chicago January 2011 Boot Camp Review
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GuitarHero
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Post subject: Re: The Perfect Pickup Technique  Posted: 13 Jun 2012, 08:07 |
Joined: 03 Feb 2008, 22:33 Posts: 145 Location: Taiwan (BC: LA, May 2008)
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Johnny wolf is my master.
He's taught me everything I know about direct bullshit-less pick up. His way in my eyes in the way of no way. PUAs truly over game sometimes because of personal insecurities.
Showing interest through action i.e. kino escalation and eye gazing is truly the ultimate natural way to seduce the girl.
Thanks Johnny, you've made me nearly internalize my game and become nearly a natural, I've thrown out my openers and BT spikes.
"hi i'm GH" is my opener
"you're beautiful" is BT and Direct interest
hand holding, kissing, eyegazing are my BT and kino escalation
and being honest and having no reservations about who I am and what I want as a sexual man is me being myself and natural.
Thanks again man, and thanks you JT too. Appreciate all you guys have done!
_________________ "I am a tree and its trunk and branches, the leaves are my women, I grow taller and prettier with time; the abundance of leaves makes me beautiful. I reach for the sky, the taller the better, leaves do not lead my way to the sun, but my branches do. The leaves I leave behind, I remember them, but they are not my destiny. Leaves fall and wither with time, while I keep growing prettier and taller, towards the sun."
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Brandon85
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Post subject: Re: The Perfect Pickup Technique  Posted: 15 Jun 2012, 07:24 |
Joined: 10 Sep 2011, 00:18 Posts: 68
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If Wolf's et al method works for you, awesome and power to you.
But how about some free perfect pick up? And remember how much 'free' is worth.
Perfect pick up requires no pick up.
If a girl is impressed or flattered with being told she is 'beautiful'...chances are extremely high is that she isn't. She may be cute. She may be even pretty. But truly beautiful girls don't need to be complimented about how hot they are from total strangers. In fact, it puts them on the defensive.
Look at the words 'pick up'. It requires work. It is intentional. There is effort. No thanks.
A chick magnet attracts, ummm, chicks. It is effortless.
I should start a mail order business on how to be a chick magnet. Send me $5 and I will send them a piece of aluminum foil that will show a reflection of themselves. Got that from Kung fu panda.
Want to know the true secret to being with girls?
Walk into a room. Alone, with friends, dressed like a homeless guy, dressed like a pimp. It doesn't matter. Just 'naturally' command confidence and attention. How do You do that? Send me $5.
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mymeowcat
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Post subject: Re: The Perfect Pickup Technique  Posted: 18 Jun 2012, 23:36 |
Joined: 04 Feb 2010, 00:19 Posts: 224
Bootcamp Graduate: YES (BC: San Francisco, CA July 2010)
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Brandon85 wrote: If a girl is impressed or flattered with being told she is 'beautiful'...chances are extremely high is that she isn't. She may be cute. She may be even pretty. But truly beautiful girls don't need to be complimented about how hot they are from total strangers. In fact, it puts them on the defensive.
This is the part I most agree with Brandon85 on. I used to go direct before I got into game and I noticed it gave me a great boost of confidence and the girls were polite but it never got anywhere and it fizzled out pretty quick. I used to mistaken politeness for interest. Some PUA literature would suggest that you need something follow up on right after or else you just fall into some meaningless conversation. The thing I don't like about going direct is that it makes the girl decide immediately if she wants your company. I think it only works if your value is either greater than or equal to hers and she likes you right away. I prefer to spend at least a few minutes demonstrating sexual worthiness or value before I do anything direct. If I feel the need to saying something direct I find it to be very effective if I do it in the form of a "push pull". 
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