Hey Guys, I am back, and some progress....

Hello,

It's me again, the guy who was from HK. I have joined the bootcamp last year.

And now officially I have moved to Europe for studying. I have never been abroad, at least not more than a month. I am now back to the game to improve my life as I strongly agree to the sentence that, Life is tough not to play all our advantages.

So, back to Campus environment upon few years of working. I would like to provide you guys some findings I have seen, and to think of a plan to better improve myself.

Findings:

Good:
- Asian community is really really small compared to the USA/Australia here.
- HB10 Blonde, blue eyes are everywhere, especially from Scandinavia, well but those are exchange students.
- Normally the HB are friendly, especially in Campus

Bad:
- Langauge barrier, HB do not talk so much in English, they only talk in German, they can speak English but they just don't feel comfortable to speak in English
- Bad image with Asian: I have heard many white girls telling me they feel so NOT COOL to hang-around with Asian, because they dont drink, they dont party, they don't smile, they dont look good... bla bla bla
- The city and the campus is small, the HB you gamed normally know each other....
- me, at the height of 174cm, 64 Kg, is below average for the big guys here, average height = 177cm!

Goal:
Okay, due to the much smaller group for Asian here, and as a graudate of the ABC, it's just easy to be someone special here. (Not showing off, I never scored and I still have a lot to improve). They found me special, very open-minded, and they were shocked that I am from Asia.

BUt the problem is that, majority of girls in Campus have bf, especially those that I found attractive. Normally they had bf from their college.. and all the way to University.

I am trying to go out everynight, but it's impossible due to the study, its a good school so a lot of workload!

The city is small, and everyone knows each other, direct cold approach will likely hurt my reputation.

Anyway, I have been just keep talking to HB using indirect, be it in the library, supermarket etc etc. I just want to make myself feeling confident talking to strangers.....

I will be posting more FRs from day to day situation after the exam....

Bad:
- Langauge barrier, HB do not talk so much in English, they only talk in German, they can speak English but they just don't feel comfortable to speak in English
- Bad image with Asian: I have heard many white girls telling me they feel so NOT COOL to hang-around with Asian, because they dont drink, they dont party, they don't smile, they dont look good... bla bla bla
- The city and the campus is small, the HB you gamed normally know each other....
- me, at the height of 174cm, 64 Kg, is below average for the big guys here, average height = 177cm!

I know that you may be frustrated man, but you got to look at the positives in everything, yes your Asian but this girl gave you clues to why she isn't attracted to them, the only one that wasn't accurate is about drinking as it doesn't matter. Work on your style, smile, and go out and be social.

BUt the problem is that, majority of girls in Campus have bf, especially those that I found attractive. Normally they had bf from their college.. and all the way to University.

I am trying to go out everynight, but it's impossible due to the study, its a good school so a lot of workload!

The city is small, and everyone knows each other, direct cold approach will likely hurt my reputation.

Anyway, I have been just keep talking to HB using indirect, be it in the library, supermarket etc etc. I just want to make myself feeling confident talking to strangers.....

I will be posting more FRs from day to day situation after the exam....

All girls say they have bfs for some reason or another, either she thinks your weird, actually has a bf and feels bad because she's interested, doesn't have a bf but doesn't want to sound like a lose, doesn't have one but hope something will work out with this guy, etc. Reputation be damned, if you do today what others won't, you will have tomorrow what others won't have. Last stop going indirect, your asian and have stereotypes against you being non dominant so you need to be train to be more dominant by being direct and going for what you want. Savy..