Suited's Journal - Success here I come

They might be back by the end of the year I guess for short holiday..

Btw, did you get the email I sent to you with my new email address?

Hm.... will be good to see you guys again
I replied to ur email man, get my response dude??:)

I can feel that I'm slowly inching out of Beginner's hell. The light has become clearer and clearer. Every set I do; I learn and improve. Now, I need to refocus myself from 'game' to the inner me. I manage to get myself a NLP book and it has been helping tremendously with my inner game. More importantly, I am beginning to understand who I AM, what values I have, what beliefs I have and in result, why I act the way I am. The great thing about the book is that it teaches me how to become the man I want to be by adjusting my values, beliefs and my “map of reality”. It all starts from the inside. The battle with my internal demon of limiting self beliefs and fears has begun. Conquer - I shall. When?... Soon, Very soon.

Goals of the week:

Learn a new facial expression: SMILE
Practise conversation skills: Wiki drill once a night
Create one opener: Done – dance opener
Create one story: Done – kids story
Approach 10 sets – currently have 5 down
Practise good body language in daily life – Being practising walk of Khan and being more aware of what my body language is like
Practise verbal skills – Read Shakespeare once every night and note vocabulary used. Also practise intonation, pronunciation and voice clarity and projection.


7th Sept 2010

It was two days ago and I can’t quite remember the exact details of the approaches or the content of them. I do remember my leanings and key things I took out from the approaches.

Just finished up my class early and of course, it is time to practise. I walk out feeling ok, not good and not bad. Being losing control of my state lately. All the AFC friends I have are not helping at all. I could see some of the beliefs shattered from bootcamp slowly inching back in. Nevertheless, I still have handle on MY life.
Quickly reboot myself – State up

HB7
New opener
Stayed in conversation for a while
I finally understand fractionating between wave Bs and Cs. I remember in this set, I would BT spike and Banter. After a while, I would use a comfort leading question (wave C). I could see every time I do that, she would become more comfortable.
Didn’t close this one. Forgot the reason why. I remember I asked for the phone number though.
The reason I why my number closes are failing is because I am this great guy that girls enjoy talking to but then all of a sudden, I would say “hey, I got to run, but I would love to see you again. What’s your number?”.
From my observation, I could see that the girl’s slut shield alarms go crazy. I’m thinking of seeding an event before asking for number. I.e Have you heard of this ice cream place? I would love to try it. What you doing this Friday?”
Hm… actually I think it’s the game I’m portraying right now. It’s kool but with a dab of neediness. Must erase neediness.

I can’t be stuffed writing a detailed field report right now. Apart from the above mentioned set, one set was FB closed and the other set was number closed with a date set up.

Main learning from today:
Body language has room for improvement.
Understand fractionating between waves B and C
Ease back on the BT spike. A few of my high fives were a bit forced (My state wasn’t high enough to support it)
Believe in yourself man! Believe!!!
AA non-existent in cold approaches during day game. Funny thing is, I have become timid during work. State is quite low when I work.
Need to control state! Keep up with the NLP stuff.
The most important thing for me right now it to realise what I want in MY life. I think the gloomy state that I am in sometimes is due to my dis-satisfaction in my life. I feel a lack of purpose and meaning. What do I want? What drives me? I think if I can fix this core issue, I will be well on my way to become the Man of Men I strive to become.
Verbal skills need to be improved. Note to self – work on verbal skills!
Indirect stack is working. I realised why I wasn’t successful before – I never used any wave Cs. After adding comfort leading questions to my stack, it has prolonged my game time with the girl massively.

Hm.... will be good to see you guys again
I replied to ur email man, get my response dude??:)

I can feel that I'm slowly inching out of Beginner's hell. The light has become clearer and clearer. Every set I do; I learn and improve. Now, I need to refocus myself from 'game' to the inner me. I manage to get myself a NLP book and it has been helping tremendously with my inner game. More importantly, I am beginning to understand who I AM, what values I have, what beliefs I have and in result, why I act the way I am. The great thing about the book is that it teaches me how to become the man I want to be by adjusting my values, beliefs and my “map of reality”. It all starts from the inside. The battle with my internal demon of limiting self beliefs and fears has begun. Conquer - I shall. When?... Soon, Very soon.

Goals of the week:

Learn a new facial expression: SMILE
Practise conversation skills: Wiki drill once a night
Create one opener: Done – dance opener
Create one story: Done – kids story
Approach 10 sets – currently have 5 down
Practise good body language in daily life – Being practising walk of Khan and being more aware of what my body language is like
Practise verbal skills – Read Shakespeare once every night and note vocabulary used. Also practise intonation, pronunciation and voice clarity and projection.


7th Sept 2010

It was two days ago and I can’t quite remember the exact details of the approaches or the content of them. I do remember my leanings and key things I took out from the approaches.

Just finished up my class early and of course, it is time to practise. I walk out feeling ok, not good and not bad. Being losing control of my state lately. All the AFC friends I have are not helping at all. I could see some of the beliefs shattered from bootcamp slowly inching back in. Nevertheless, I still have handle on MY life.
Quickly reboot myself – State up

HB7
New opener
Stayed in conversation for a while
I finally understand fractionating between wave Bs and Cs. I remember in this set, I would BT spike and Banter. After a while, I would use a comfort leading question (wave C). I could see every time I do that, she would become more comfortable.
Didn’t close this one. Forgot the reason why. I remember I asked for the phone number though.
The reason I why my number closes are failing is because I am this great guy that girls enjoy talking to but then all of a sudden, I would say “hey, I got to run, but I would love to see you again. What’s your number?”.
From my observation, I could see that the girl’s slut shield alarms go crazy. I’m thinking of seeding an event before asking for number. I.e Have you heard of this ice cream place? I would love to try it. What you doing this Friday?”
Hm… actually I think it’s the game I’m portraying right now. It’s kool but with a dab of neediness. Must erase neediness.

I can’t be stuffed writing a detailed field report right now. Apart from the above mentioned set, one set was FB closed and the other set was number closed with a date set up.

Main learning from today:
Body language has room for improvement.
Understand fractionating between waves B and C
Ease back on the BT spike. A few of my high fives were a bit forced (My state wasn’t high enough to support it)
Believe in yourself man! Believe!!!
AA non-existent in cold approaches during day game. Funny thing is, I have become timid during work. State is quite low when I work.
Need to control state! Keep up with the NLP stuff.
The most important thing for me right now it to realise what I want in MY life. I think the gloomy state that I am in sometimes is due to my dis-satisfaction in my life. I feel a lack of purpose and meaning. What do I want? What drives me? I think if I can fix this core issue, I will be well on my way to become the Man of Men I strive to become.
Verbal skills need to be improved. Note to self – work on verbal skills!
Indirect stack is working. I realised why I wasn’t successful before – I never used any wave Cs. After adding comfort leading questions to my stack, it has prolonged my game time with the girl massively.

Haven't been approaching much lately but been building on my B and C game through social circles, friends and work.

Biggest update: Went to a dermatoligist and finally started my treatment. Face started peeling and it's killing my confidence

Are we talking post-treatment that you're peeling? The less invasive methods you can do are the cortisone shots, blackhead extraction, and light chemical peels.

If you're during microdermabrasian or heavy chemical peels, yeah, you're definitely going to get peeling. I don't think you have to do those, but that's your choice.

Mild post treatment peeling. I had a light chemical peel and just started medication.

My face is just expect to dry out a lot but peeling may be a side effect. Bit wryied about that. Will have to wait a few more days to see how things go. Today is day 2 of medication

Thanks

FR 22 Sept 2010

this is most likely my Last FR for a while... why? Read on and you shall understand

Met up with some local PUA guys and went for a quick day game with them. Awesome, fun and inspiring are a few words that come up to my mind to describe today.

Before to that, I have been working on a lot of different things in my life to become the "Man of Man" I want to be. I use the phrase "Man of Man" as this is what I want to become. My game philosophy at the moment is:

Be the best I can be, only the sky is the limit AND
Give value. In other words, what JT and Gareth Jones always say "Be a fun maker, not a fun taker". I truly understand this concept now and my game has increased 10 folds. My purpose is to make everyone I come contact with be happier and better off because of whatever contact they have with me. Be it a 30 second conversation of small talk or a 2 hour D&M session... I want them to be happy and more content with their lives after being with me. This different mindset is revolutionary - Be a fun maker.
And while doing all this, still maintaining my Alpha frame.

Simple as it sounds yet I have to constantly remind myself of these values and practice them daily in everything I do. It has become more natural but in the beginning, my own selfish feelings do come in the way.

Things I have been working on to become the Man of Man:
Controlling my facial expressions. Been practicing and perfecting different facial expressions. SMILE =D
Verbal skills. Been lifting my vocabulary through reading Shakespeare (love Shakespeare language). Have slowed down my speech and being more acutely aware of what I sound like during conversation. Correcting small habits overtime. Few things corrected so far: slower speech, thinking before i speak, correcting my stuttering, hand gestures and looks, confident pauses, eye contact, wiki effect and having a genuine interest in what people have to say (this goes back to value, I'm listening instead of being busy thinking what to say next.) Future work ons: tonality, expressing a word's emotion, practice a bass sexy voice, describe events in more "5 senses" words. better retelling of story by creating the image and letting the person live through the experience through my words.
Body language. God I love body language, i could study it and re study it and study it again. Been perfecting my walk of Khan even though sometimes I might not be "in state". Been watching people with confident body language and mimicking them (namely barrack obama and what I remember of Gareth Jones and JT)
Controlling my state. Been practicing hand gestures and eye contact. I am very aware of my body language now adays everywhere and everything I do.
Getting the 1.6 golden ratio body. Been hitting the gym constantly to get my 1.6 golden ratio body figure.
Simply spreading the love. Some things as simple as saying thanks to the cashier when getting your coffee in the morning or opening the door for someone else first or even picking up rubbish people dropped down. Spread the love and change the world. Love Peace and Joy
Working on my basketball and improving.

Now with all these prequel written, let's go onto today's field report.

HB7
6o'clock at city center
See her walking past
Kino turn

A
Smile - Check
Walk of Khan - Check
Opener :
Would you do something fun or right? opener

B
BT spike her. Made a laugh with a joke.
I had great body language, smiling and was very easy to talk to. Was making her HAPPY ! and she was having FUN!
Was not thinking about "picking her up", was giving her value by letting her have fun Important concept guys
wing comes in and starts some conversation
BT spike her a few times
BLP moved her twice

C
Talk about where she's from, where we are from, all these random stuff
She starts asking us questions
CT test with BLP move
CT test with multiple high fives, hugs and pounds

D
S.CT by shaking hands and holding on to it.

talk for a while - FB closed.
Strong connecting set. Overall very good - my new values and what I have been working on during my NORMAL life is flowing through. I was very alpha with body positioning, where ever I wanted her to go, i made her go. I initiated kino early and slowly stepped it up. nice:)

OK Now your probably thinking why this might be the last field report for a while... the truth is, I need to keep practicing and stop spending so much time writing field reports. right now, I should be doing Zumba to learn how to dance. Another reason why is because I know exactly what I must do to get girls. For god sakes, i can consistently number close now. What my focus is right now is to live the life I want, and it's more than just chicks. sky diving, snow boarding, skate boarding, singing, piano, drifting and many many more.

Anyway guys, will post now and then but in the mean time, take care and god bless.

Chillax!
SutiedCC