Everyone knows women love connections. Not only does a woman love a connection between you and her, but any kind of connection gives her that warm, fuzzy feeling. In your convo if you comment on the current topic and at the same time touches on a prior topic ("connect the dots"), she would feel that she's having a fun, solid, connected interaction.
As an example, the following is part of an exchange I recently had. The girl is wearing a colorful bikini top and already mentioned she's part Lithuanian.
H Bomb (gesturing to her top): Is that suppose to be like the Lithuanian flag? (connection to prior topic)
HB: No I bought it to go to the Gay Pride Parade. It was the closest thing I could find to their colors!
H Bomb: Well, if there's ever a Lithuanian Pride Parade you can wear that too. I think it's similar enough.
HB: Haha, you know more about Lithuania than I do.
H Bomb: I thought I've been conversing with a Lithuanian. I feel deceived!
HB: But I AM Lithuanian! BTW, if you had long hair you would look amazing.
H Bomb (joking): I used to have my hair down to my ass, but then I realized I was covering up my best quality.
HB: I bet you looked great! I'm just not a big fan of guys with short hair. All the women should get together and shave our heads to protest!
H Bomb: Instead of shaving your heads, I'd like to suggest you all burn your bras. (Pointing to her top) Except this one, since it's SO versatile. (connection to prior topic)
Later I tell her a riddle...
H Bomb: Smarty points if you know what it is.
HB: I must be really stupid because I have no idea what it is. But you must tell me!
H Bomb: Nah you're not stupid, it's a tricky little riddle. Besides, you can't be too stupid if you think I can look amazing. (connection to prior topic) I'll let you stew it over a little. But I promise to tell you…if you play nice.
She mentions she lives in Staten Island and tells me about a cool little spot...
HB: Have you ever been to Staten Is.?
H Bomb: One time, to a Staten Is. Yankee game. So yes, I have set foot on your fair borough. So if I ever come over, would you take me to that spot?
HB: Of course! We can pretend we're on our own private tropical island.
H Bomb: Hmmm, I dunno. Staten Is. is pretty far, it's almost halfway to Lithuania. (connection to prior topic)
HB: It's not THAT far!
Etc.
So as your convo progresses, more and more topics get put out there. Go forward and at the same time play "connect the dots" with prior topics. She'll think you're witty and hilarious!
