My 12 Weeks Post-Bootcamp Motivation & Missions!

Alright so i received the ABCs Alumni Network e-mail regarding the 12 Weeks of FREE Post-Bootcamp Motivation & Missions!
Follow me and read up each week of my progress. Each week I will post each mission I get. I will update this weekly with my progress and success stories out in field. Tonight I will be sarging Thurs/Fri and possibly Sat. I may be with the girl I am dating who knows! Anyway tonight's mission is to do 10 approaches this weekend.

I will be recording my interactions in as much detail as you can (where you were, what I said, and how it went). So for the remainder of the time I will be reviewing my ABCs of Attraction Playbook we all received during our bootcamp. This way will be a good refresher for myself and motivator for tonight.

Motivator 1: 10 Approaches this weekend

Stay tuned for an update brothers!

Ralph

Motivator 1: 10 Approaches this weekend

Alright so this is super fresh in my head as we speak. I went out with a bunch of nurses I work with tonight and I was thinking hell yeah I'll have some good ass social proof! Which I did but then again I was having CRAZY APPROACH ANXIETY it was like a 7 out of 10. Yeah I know bad right?

Well the whole night I saw this super cute girl nerdy in a way and had pippy long stocking hair or kinda like Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz. So the whole time I was like damn super cute and sexy.

Then I was with a bunch of drunk nurses. So then I was talking myself out of AA I was thinking that I knew if I did not approach her I would be pissed at myself. So then I came in. Gay reason my heart was racing like crazy again! Whatever

So then here goes the sarge...

A - Attract and Approach

I said to her "You are so fucking gorgeous I really love your long stalkings lol. She came with a big smile! (woo!) So then I go into B

B - I ask her if she has ever played fuck/marry/kill... shes like OHH yeahh! So then I pick 3 dudes and stuff. I do more BT with the paper/rock/scissors routine.

C - Then BAM I immediately go into comfort. I isolate her away and I meet her friend. I ask if its cool I talk to her friend. She was cool with it. So then we are off to the side chatting. I ask her "Whats your story" then instant qualification. I think thats' a better way then saying "What are 3 things I should get to you know you by etc." So she starts qualifying. Then she asked about me. I told her I'm a nurse then she said that shes going for nursing. BAM instant commonality!

I do more BT spikes such as the PUA spin. Then she asks me if I want to dance! I dance with her. I tell her that I am so glad that she doesnt have DRD (Dancing Rhythm Disorder - Instead of CRD because some chics that look Caucasian are not white lol so DRD works for all girls). So we dance and then I have good social proof because this drunk ass nurse who wants me started cock blocking her lol. She pulls me away from her.

I go back to her and I ask her if she has ever done salsa since shes been doing swing dancing with me lol. So I go for that day 2. Then after that I run my photo kiss close routine. I only did just the 1st photo and I did not go through the whole thing. We take a picture and I ask if shes on facebook. I tell her I cant find her and just give me her number. I number close.

D - I pull her away from the dance floor and I have her face me while I am locked in against the wall. So now she cant see whats going on. I bounce her around and introduce her to my drunk nurse friends. After that the club ends I tried to bounce her out of the club but she said that her friend is still in drinking. So then I say "oh well then let's go back in" we go back in. They decide to go eat after and she invites me. I was going to drive my drunk nurse friends home good thing they took a cab.

So we go eat and I build more comfort. I dont know why I had crazy AA but shit happens sometimes.

Overall I only opened one set that night. At least it was a successful one with a bounce and more comfort has been built while we were eating. She was asking questions about me and stuff so it was all good. It also sucks because she lives at home too! FUCK I need to move out ASAP!!!

9 more sets to go!



She is such a cutie I'm lovin the pippy long stalkings style. Well I found out she works weekends so then Wed & Thurs is her only days off. Which is good since I'm dating another girl who has weekends off and is busy during the week. So next plan keep her myself on her mind by texting her and calling her build more comfort.

Ralph

Alright so this weekend was not able to complete the goal of 10 sets. Friday night I only opened one set. It was a situational one. I was chillin by the bar with my wing and we were chatting. Suddenly I see this old awkward guy approached a 3 set. Suddenly one girl sees the guy on the corner of her eye that guy coming up to them. She immediately puts her arm around her friend and makes a tight circle so he cant come in LOL!

So then I do a kino turn on that girl and I HI5ed her and said that was AWESOME save! haha So I started to BT spike her. Of course she was ugly lol but the other 2 was super cute. So then I started sarging. I sense that the cock blocker ugly girl was trying to get her friends away and then she takes them away and leave.

FML that was my only sarge.

That Friday night, I was with this girl who is into me but I am just seeing how I can hop in the mix with this other guy shes talking to lol. Then Saturday I was supposed to go to the bar with this girl I am dating. She ends up getting drunk the night before and does not want to go out on Sat. Then her friend who is supposed to go out with us (she suggested to go out on sat) ended up spending a lot of money on her dumb cat and now shes broke and does not want to go out. So then her friend suggested to stay in and have a movie night. FML. I know for a fact that I will not be able to close her since I was going to use my excuse that I am too drunk to drive and crash there. The girl I am dating was going to crash there regardless. So we watch the movie she passes out at 11:45pm so I am thinking hell yeah its over I can go out. Then she wakes up and wants to see the other movie FML!!! So then after the 2nd movie is over its 1:30am FML.

Its alright. I will keep on doing the missions till they are all complete. So as of now I am 2 of 10. 8 more sets to go!

Stay tuned. I work Mon/Tues so Tuesday night I will go sarging!

Ralph

WEEK 2: Dealing with Uncertainty

Mission 2: Set up a pre-game routine and plan your stack!

I remember I was in Dallas right before going to Deux we were in the cab and the cab driver was playing some Bob Marley. I asked him if he has Buffalo Soldier. He did and when he was playing it he turned it up REALLY loud in the cab. My wing and I were just singing Buffalo Soldier to the top of our lungs.

That night in Dallas I was on fire opening girls. 95% of my sets hooked.

I am going to make a new playlist of songs that pump me up

Songs:
Bob Marley - Buffalo Soldier
Tiesto - Escape Me
Surivior - Eye of the Tiger
Lady Gaga - Alejandro
Lagy Gaga - Poker Face

More to add later...

My Stack

A - Approach/Attract
You are so fucking gorgeous/sexy/adorable

I see you have such a unique style/I love you hair, are you a hair stylest?/I noticed xyz about you

Hi I'm Ralph.
Shake hands and kiss the back of the hand.

Then I say "You know the polite thing to do is introduce me to your friends"
[Introduction occurs here]
(I usually ask her friends if its cool I talk to her friend - most of the time they say yeah sure and leave us alone and walk away or talk to the other girl if its a 3 set)

DHV spike - (If shes not a hair stylest) Oh the reason why I ask if you were a hair stylest is because I used to date a hair stylest and she had a book of hair-dos and yours looks something similar to what she had her her book. Very adorable.
*Hug*kiss on cheek*

B - Buying Temperature
(After shaking her hands) Say that she has a firm grip and if she is a thumb wrestler - Thumb wrestle here

C - So what's your story?

B - Have you ever played fuck/marry/kill?

C - What's the craziest thing you ever done for a guy?

B - Hi5 Paper/Rock/Scissors PUA spin.

C - What are you famous for?

Isolate (Ask her friends if its cool that we go sit at the tables *BECAUSE* its loud)

D - You know I ate some strawberries for dessert during dinner, What do you think is the sexiest food? Whipped creme, chocolate syrup or strawberries?

When was your first kiss?

What feels better? Kisses on your neck or nibbling on your ear?

E - Find out her logistics/ Who drove way to sneak it in (Hey lets get a drink - WAIT you're not driving are you? Because Im not a fan of drunk driving...

Yes I am driving - Alright we'll are you driving your friends? Yes/No well I suppose one drink won't hurt.
No - Ok who's driving? Awesome let's get a drink

To bounce talk about how I am so hungy and can go for some nice warm pancakes right now! Then propose the diner after.

This is now my stack!




Ralph

Alright so I was with my usual wing and as we were walking into the venue I see some girl eye fucking me. I looked at her and made eye contact and smiled at her and was like eh ill sarge her when I see her again. (Funny thing is that I am not sure if it was the same girl whatever)

So then after that we got our drinks. I decide to go for a smoke. My wing just chills with me while I smoke. So we were out there and he sees this girl he used to sarge. She opens him so its a 3 set and their backs are towards me. As I finish my cigarette I tell my wing that Im gonna go in and piss. So he's there talking to the 2 Italian girls. I come back and acknowledge him. He introduces me to the 2 girls. Both of them are Canada (the Canadian border is literally 20mins away from Michigan) So we banter we go back in.

My wing turns to me and asks me "should we bounce?' I say hell no social proof. So we are on the dance floor with the 2 set then it becomes a 5 set with 3 other girls. See this super short girl cute girl. I smile at her and just waive. I am dancing with the other 2 girls I was introduced to.

So then now we are dancing. I pull the short girl (my target) and do the PUA spin (BT spike her ass). We dance her ignore her. Then pull her again. My wing and his 2 set decide to smoke and I was like shit I might as well smoke too. So we are back out there. I see the 2 set out for the smoke and the short girl (my target comes too)

So then I introduce myself

A - Done / via dancing with her friends so semi-social circle game not really. She sees me dancing with her friends so they must know me aka im safe!

B - Dance with her

C- Out for the smoke. I ask her what's her story. I tell her she's fucking adorable.

D - Kiss her on the cheek / whip out my cam

E/F - not done she was with her friends

So another of my ABCs Kiss close routine well done! (Keep in mind that her friend is the one taking the pic haha)






Before all this I did number close her and I was unable to add her on facebook since she's hidden. I did set up a day 2 with her sometime soon. Gosh I am so going to miss my inventory when I move to LA! all good!!!

This is 7 of 10 sets! 6 more to go! Keep in mind you only leave with one girl! So I was workin her the whole night!

I was seriously not in the mood to sarge. I have a stuffy nose I'm sick. I had a fever last night I'm coughing like crazy. I'm hoping that the vodka kills the bug thats going on! blah

The text I sent her tonight and got a reply back =)



Friday supposedly we're going to hang out haha

MF'ing baller, ralph!

Thanks graphyte!

This week's mission is to spend the week looking for three different wings. Your primary source of like-minded, goal driven, wingmen will be ABCs alumni. So here are steps you can take towards finding brothers-in-arms:

1. Get the emails and phone number of all your fellow bootcampers! Email them and give them a text as to your plans.
2. Go to the ABCs of Attraction Forum, post an introduction and look for wingmen in or near your city.
3. Every major city has an online "lair" where they communicate. Google for lairs in your area, register, and interact with your local community.
4. Look for internet MeetUp groups in your city. Sometimes you'll find general get togethers to guys actively looking to go out and meet women.
5. Try FaceBook, MySpace, and other social networking sites!
6. If you're meeting up with someone (whether he's ABCs or not) and they are (significantly) better than you, avoid being a VALUE LEECH! Basically, he's giving you value by being a better wingman and giving you quality (hopefully) advice. In return, you should avoid being a value leech and offer to buy him a drink or lunch.
7. Pay it forward. When you yourself get really good at the Game and achieving measurable success, then help someone else less fortunate than you. Adopt a newbie! But remember, help yourself FIRST before you considering helping anyone else. Like a plane going down, you have to put on YOUR oxygen mask first before your child. Otherwise, you'll both end up in trouble.
8. Throw a wingwoman in the mix for social proof!

#1. DONE! Acutally one of them can only sarge weekends.
#2. Done! Detroit wings put your hands up!
#3. DONE! - I am registered with detroitpuas.com but yet some of them are a bit odd.
#4. DONE! - None in Detroit
#5. DONE
#6 DONE
#7 NOT YET DONE - I am still on the road to becoming an efficient PUA
#8 DONE - Got a wingwoman whos is always down to go out when she does not work. I will try to find another one!

Ralph

Motivator 4 - Logistics Getting Me Laid!

So motivator is about the logistics of your place... Well as for now I will complete this later since I live at home LOL. Yes I still live at home BUTTTTT not for long! When I move to LA in August I will update this for my logistics!

Ralph