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PhamC
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Post subject: Where to look when talking to a girl. Any tips.  Posted: 23 Oct 2011, 21:36 |
Joined: 14 Sep 2011, 22:20 Posts: 4 Location: New Orleans
Bootcamp Graduate: Yes. Septemper 2011 in Las Vegas
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I heard of, and usually do, the triangle that the two eyes and the mouth make. I'm supposed to gaze around this area while talking. I still have some trouble looking at a girl's eyes while having a normal conversation. I don't want to stare her down, so do I momentarily just switch eyes? When I started doing this, it felt awkward, and I didn't pay attention to what the girl was saying because I was busy concentrating on moving my eyes around. Any good advice? Yes, I googled it and youtubed this topic, but they are all similar to the triangle technique.
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Raigon
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Post subject: Re: Where to look when talking to a girl. Any tips.  Posted: 24 Oct 2011, 17:28 |
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Joined: 02 Jun 2011, 01:21 Posts: 404 Location: Adelaide, Australia
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At her boobs. lol
If you have trouble looking into her eyes, look at her eyebrows. That's what my instructors taught me during my doctor & patient interview if you're looking nervous, but want to maintain eye contact. It works with normal social interactions and with girls, too. You give the impression of looking into their eyes and you're not so nervous as when you're directly gazing into her pupils. And it's best not to focus on where the heck you're supposed to look, because if makes you overanalyze everything and put your focus into where to place your eyes as opposed to any creative conversation topics or things you might have said.
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Kaida
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Post subject: Re: Where to look when talking to a girl. Any tips.  Posted: 25 Oct 2011, 06:03 |
Joined: 31 Jul 2011, 18:58 Posts: 131 Location: Australia - Canberra
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My technique is to look at her eyes as if im really lsitening to her talk, not as a way that is sexual...(yet).
I dont know its hard to explain, there are ways by looking at their eyes you look as if your really engaging and listening to her talk and vice versa when u talk. In a way, apply the 3 second rule if its casual talking, if shes pulls u in to tell u a secret or something important focus longer.
if its sexual, you want to portray through your thoughts to your eyes sexual desires therefore gaze longer yet increase sexual tension around ya before hand so build it up.
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Nautics
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Post subject: Re: Where to look when talking to a girl. Any tips.  Posted: 26 Oct 2011, 17:28 |
Joined: 22 Oct 2011, 23:13 Posts: 28
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Look into her eyes. Like deeply into her eyes. Make it sexual.
Now instead of looking into her right eyes (your left) look at the opposite one. Your right (her left eye) just look deeply into her pupil. This will create massive sexual tension.
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