Older Guy-Younger Women

I've been going out 4 to 6 nights/days a week since April 2011. I've done about 1400 sets and I haven't got laid or gotten a make out so stop complaining and go out and pay your dues. I'm a short, pathologically shy,anti social, hideous, boring,weak,desparate,horny,creepy, mis calibrated, middle aged oriental bachelor and if I can do it, anyone can do it.

sounds like you need another boot camp

I forgot to add "destitute".

Do you really look at yourself that way ? "You look at yourself as a 'black' man....I look at myself...as a 'man' " Sidney Poitier in Guess Who's coming to Dinner.
I dont look at myself as a Russian American...Im just an American.

Dude your just as good as anybody else...perhaps better because you aspire to be above the fray. We're both struggling,
but I refuse to let anyone, no chick or dude, to get me down.

Got a say, part of that, was the lecture Gareth gave me in LA.

After I get much of my act together, Im taking another boot camp !

ozmonger,

After 1400 set and no kiss close or lay??? I think maybe another boot camp or something is needed.

to malibu51,

I'm older but not as old as you but nor am I as young as some of these other posters. Age, looks , race , wealth etc..all matters.
You mentioned you live in Cleveland. If you can try to relocate where there are more girls . It's also true that out side the USA there are countries out there where much older man can hook up with younger girls.

Some of it is because of wealth but I look at this way. American women or foreign women all have the same attraction switch . Wealth and experience is something that an older man can offer. Not saying become a sugar daddy or anything but it's the perception of it. Just because you are wealthy does not mean you are going to give for free.
Let say your not wealthy ..that leaves man of experience as an attraction switch.

Curious are you Asian? by any chance?

Im not Asian...but pretty close...Im Jewish