Inner Game: Career and Girl, who comes first, I need help

Ive had a good excuse for not sarging ! Owned my own business. So hands on that I was there 7 days a week and 12 to 14 hours a day. Yeah, I got enough to never work again...but...Im 60 ! Starting to sarge now is difficult....but time waits for no one.

When I was young -- I thought that if I went to college and get a degree and get established in life that the women will come. I graduated with high grades and there was a recession and I couldn't get a job. In short --- to get "established" in life to just relax in life a bit and "surf" casually through my business meetings and chats with the boss --- it took 10 years!

Seriously -- to get "established" in something technical like computers or engineering where you can call the shots and have influence: about 10 years!


Hey Asian Guys! The economy ain't looking so good now --- start getting the girls now instead of waiting a decade for a good established career.

Some people think that they have forever to make their dreams happen, they don't.

When I was learning Tai Chi, my SiFu told me that I needed to devote 40 minutes in the morning and 40 minutes in the evening to progress. I told him I didnt have that time due to my Dental Office and its responsibilities. I didnt devote myself to the experience and I soon failed to master the style.
This time around after becoming a Gareth Desciple in the LA BootCamp, I was faced with the same reality. Spend time to evolve beyond myself or remain in my lonely quagmire.
This time around I know that Personal Developement is as important as Professional Developement. Now I make sure there is time for each one.

Life is finite and you only have this moment. Use it !