How to get a girl back to your place?

Ok guys, I have a second date tomorrow afternoon after work and things are going pretty well.

Now, the very difficult part is getting her back into my place. I've read somewhere that I should try to bring her back to my place as soon as the second date.

Now, do you guys know about excuses to get a girl back into your place? If so, which ones are easy and which ones are guaranteed to fail?

Some additional info about my pad
- I have no pet, no TV, no DVD collection (yet)
- I don't have alcohol
- My place is clean and spotless all the time, especially the bathroom and kitchen
- I have a nice carpet
- I have a beautiful sunset view of a river from the 11th balcony

I'm presently thinking of going for the beautiful view of the river, but i doubt a girl would be interested to see that. Any other ideas?

(FYI: we are having coffee date at starbucks a few blocks away from my place)

Its tricky but i've found this:

"hey, come inside i want to show u something cool, but u can only stay for like 15 mins..."

What do you think?

how about dessert at your balcony, with cookies, ice cream or cake/sweets?

anything after coffee, just about anything. show her some photos of your life or show her some books, or whatever. It doesnt have to be logic, just something.

remember, make it sound exciting and she will agree if she likes you. I gave girls really weird reasons to come to my place, but they agreed when they liked me. :-D

You have to believe that it is a truly breathtaking view. Sell her on how she really must come see it for herself. If you hold on to this attitude that it's not that amazing, guess what? no one else will think it's amazing.

This one is not great but I've used it "I am rearranging my apartment, I could use a critical eye". And I'll talk about a piece of decoration that I haven't put up yet and I could use some help determining where it should go. I like to be honest and honestly want an opinion about a piece I really do want up on the wall somewhere that I haven't decided on a location yet.

Have her meet you just outside on the street corner beside your place at a specified time. When you go meet her, pretend you are just finishing up an important e-mail you must send to your boss and to come up just for a bit and then you will go to Starbucks.

When you get to your place, go and write your e-mail and give her a few minutes just to look around and check out all the interesting stuff you hopefully have around.

Leave the windows open, blinds open to the outside so she does not feel trapped or endangered etc.

Make sure your bath room is clean…for some reason girls find the wash room really important.

ALL THE PREVIOUS STEPS ALLEVIATE ANY FEARS SHE MIGHT HAVE ABOUT WHAT YOUR PLACE IS LIKE TO GO TO.

Later on, during your date you can pull and she will not fear your place being a mess, there will be no fears of room mates, dirty bath rooms, etc.

Now if you already made a date and already decided you be at Starbucks then mention that you have a maid service to ensure your washroom is spotless and even brag about how clean you keep it through some form of a story.

Tell her how great your place is but you want to paint it and do some renovations and make it “upscale” and basically higher status. Some girls are natural home decorators.

At Starbucks, make sure she knows you have no room mates, wild dogs, dirty bath rooms, messy kitchen, or anything that can turn her off.

Then if you can, take a walk and visit some other places, and ask her to come into your pad just a block away and give her opinion how you should re-decorate your place and how exciting it will be.

It would be great if you had a nice TV and DVD player so you can watch movies or at least have some neat stuff lying around. I personally have stuff like my saxophone, pictures, laptop, chick flick DVDs. I also have a pink girls hat and hair clip that some mystery girl left behind a few months ago sitting in plain view (proof of pre-selection).

I agree with Tommy Wu about believing it's going to be a breathtaking view. Sell it to her like that, I feel like that will work really well. You don't need to have all the coolest gadgets or anything to have an excuse to bring her there... how romantic is a breathtaking view after all?!? That's freaking awesome... my place has a view of... other apartments... bleah.

Another thing is just embellishing. Is it lying? Well if you want to look at it that way, well I dunno, find something else you feel comfortable as an "excuse". I mean if the view is nice, but not "breathtaking" and you say it is, well who's to say it isn't really breathtaking? What if you don't think it is but she does? I mean it's subjective, it's not like you're telling her you have this great view of a waterfall or something that doesn't actually exist, which then would be lying. And plus, it's already lying once you tell her you "just want to show her the view." Girls aren't dumb, they know what's up, they know guys are horny. It's just a way for them to say "ok I went to this guys house to see XYZ thing, not sleep with him" but [in Gareth's voice] HEYO!!... things happened and she ends up in bed with you.

I say this because I remember listening to BetterAsianMan/William's podcast and I remember in one of them he talks about how he brought back his current girlfriend back to his place for the first time. He lives in New York/Manhattan and while I'm not familiar with NY/Manhattan I'm pretty sure it's an urban jungle there. Well, he told his date that he has a GREAT nature view from his apartment, which is obviously rare in an urban jungle like Manhattan. So when he finally brought her back and showed it to her... it was... just a tree... a single tree. And from there he worked his magic.