Post subject: Re: How do i make more female friends?
Posted: 24 Jul 2012, 21:16
Hungry Ghost
Joined: 24 Jul 2012, 20:02 Posts: 7
Hey guys, anyone in Ottawa Area wanna sarge together?? Shoot me a message, I'm looking for a wingman in Ottawa/Gatineau area..
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Post subject: Re: How do i make more female friends?
Posted: 07 Aug 2012, 17:24
Warrior Scholar
Joined: 31 May 2012, 12:49 Posts: 197 Location: Los Angeles
Bootcamp Graduate: No
How do i make more female friends? currently I have more male friends than female friends (ratio about 4:1).
There are some reasons why:
- I came from a country where girls and guys are go to separate schools. What i mean is that mixed schools are very few. NO KIDDING! I started interacting with the opposite sex when i got into university. (19 years old) - I have 3 brothers and 0 sisters - my female cousins live abroad. so i have not really met them - My degree (computer science) did not help as there were like one or two girls in a whole class of 200 - My job (programmer). My company have 0 female employees
Please help. any suggestions are welcome
The easiest way to make female friends, is to run game the exact same way, however you want to make sure that you build deep and wide rapport with these girls. This means having commonalities, similarities, similar views, and values. You should be listening a large majority of the time as it will allow you to see the world through her eyes. You don't want to escalate at all, you tell her that she would make a cool friend and frame it this way. Invite her out places during the day and night, with friends and without. Introduce her to people, and when ever you take her out make sure she has a blast and keep the creepy guys who are going to try and hit on her away from her.
Meetup is another great way to find girls to hang out with and saves you a large amount of work in gaming them. Plus you will already have something in common with these people. The problem with meetups is the girls are usually not that attractive so it's a hit or miss. Start going out more and have something of interest to do during the day that allows you to meet women. That actually will make it easy on you as you will be meeting a bunch of different women and have a steady flow of new ones (Yoga, Cycling, Pilates, Dance, Volleyball, etc anything female friendly and your on the right track).
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