FR BC In Field Training with Sexual Chocolate.

Date / Time
7-11-08
Who / Where
Friday Elevate Lounge downtown
Sight, 45Sex, Setarcos, Omitofo and her BFF and Sexual Chocolate.

Logistics
In Field Training with Sexual Chocolate.

What went down
As much as I hate being pushed into sets, I mean HATE IT. I had to make myself do it and get real honest feedback.
45Sex told me, you should try being an instructor and the students expect you to hook every time.

No lecture. Open, get instant feedback. Open, get feedback. 1 hour ~10 sets. Feedback is key. The wireless mic was gold in a big club.

I have to say that this was scarey. I've been having a lot of AA. I'm not approaching the high quality HB's like I should.
I'm not hooking the way I should. Basically, I SUCK AT THE APPROACH.

Since, I'm a big fan of John Wooden (college basketball's greatest coach ever) said something about always going over the basics. He never once mentioned the word win. GO over and over the fundamentals of the game. So in terms of PUAdome, it means going over the fundamentals of the process and not the outcome. Sounds simple, right? HA!

1st set
Setarcos: I think those ladies want you to open. (It's funny how my AFC self still doesn't believe
that beautiful ladies want to talk to me.)
YC: Hey, you guys look like a lot of fun to talk to.
Setarcos joined me.
Feedback: pick a target sooner and BL to mini isolate her

HBSmokers Set.
I open to HBSmoker. Very unreceptive, but her sister was very receptive.
I realize that if you open direct on HBSmoker and HBReceptive is open, you can still open to her.
Someone told me that HBReceptive was 45Sex's target. As I was waiting for him to join me, I still could've picked her anyways and
said "She's trouble." and made 45Sex choose HBSmoker.

Other sets went something like this:
SC: You're too stiff.
SC: Why'd you leave?
SC: Work on Rapport.
SC: Pick a Target.
SC: Girl's obstacles step in. Stop that shit right away.

YC: Married girls.
YC: She was unreceptive.

All of my friend's picked difficult. Mixed sets, and some had their back turned to bar.

What I did well
I OPENED and didn't complain. I realize that 1-2 out of 10 will go really well, I just have to make it REALLY STICK.

What I could improve

- STRONG AA. I think I haven't had this much AA since I first went sarging. I had to drink.

- I know everything sounds obvious, but it's sooo difficult to do it in the interaction, guiding it, and enjoying it.

- Not going for the hottest girls.

- Banter

- BL.

Thank you Sexual Chocolate for being patient and giving honest, helpful feedback. The wireless mic was gold. Thanks to everyone for their support. Thanks to Baja for explaining Banter to me. I owe you a round.

Sight suggested that our next level should be to improve so that girls completely enamored by you rather than general attraction.

Comments
BANTER IS SOOOO IMPORTANT that's where the chemistry and people fall in love.

nice report. your stuff always rings close to myself.

Nice Report!

It was funny how the mic fell off and was dangling by your leg as you walked. lol




WOW I couldn't tell by looking at you that there was AA at all.

this fr was nice, bro. i always admired your commitment to personal growth and pushing your limits.




you're right.. that's part of it. i think it's that B-C fractionation is where the people fall in love, for those ending up in ltrs.

a good source of banter is tv.
right off the bat..
my wife and kids (damon wayans and tisha campbell)
two and a half men (charlie sheen)
nip/tuck (dr troy character)

studying propaganda is a hobby of mine. there are very few characters on tv i would try to emulate; a lot of male tv characters are bumbling idiots.

oh yea..james bond, of course.