To Go Down Or Not To Go Down On First Meet?

You never know what she has been through, and you are lucky to walk away clean this time.
I have seem a guy with pox around his lips and nose from doing what you have just done,poor him.

Google "Blue Waffle"

What is his condition called?...

And is it curable?

The question is.. how do you determine whether it is safe to go down on a girl ?

If its a long term relationship, then perhaps these kind of issues can be discussed honestly...

But if its just a casual or at the beginning of something that you are not sure how far it would go, how do you determine whether its safe to go down on her ?

Is the answer, ' its only safe to go down on a girl that you are having a long term relationship with and you are sure she is clean...? '

I am currently looking up on this on online... Nothing so far...

I just did. Its like a scene from some alien movie...

Ok, if the girl that I was with had something like a blue waffle I would have detected it.. It would have been very obvious...

This cute brunette that I went down a few days ago had no stinking odour on her private part. She actually tasted quite good.. From the very little rays of sunlight coming into our room ( dark room ) I could see that her pussy was pretty normal ( perhaps the only 'abnormality' that I could detect is that the outer part of her pussy has a slightly different shape/variation from others that I have seen.. It didn't seem like some nasty growth )

Oh, she just sent me some naughty text saying her kitty kat is asking whether I could kiss it again soon....

Some girls find it an absolutely turn on and necessary step before intercourse ( to receive cunnilingus from the guy... )

If its anyone of you, what would you do?...

I just saw an interesting quote :

"Cunnilingus was a very familiar manifestation in classical times; ... it tends to be especially prevalent at all periods of high civilization." [Havelock Ellis, 1905]

Another question, if you have gone down on a girl and she liked it and anticipates it the next time but you thought that it was a mistake going down on her the first time, what would you say to her now to tell her that you don't want to go down on her anymore? But you still want to have sex with her ....

Its a hypothetical question.....

LOL, that was meant to be a joke. Kinna like "go google 'one guy one cup'"

Oh... lol... sick... why would someone do that?....

I don't know what was it. Kind of embrassing to ask him.

Personally,I only do it to someone who I have long term relationship with.
For casual relationship.it's just not worth the risk. Few minutes of pleasure generates weeks of worrying. Yourself could be the 100th guy on her list, and there could be any kind of strange virus passing on to you.

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Thats true...

Even a long term relationship in itself does not guarantee anything as people may cheat, some std takes some time to manifest ... What has a high degree of guarantee is that you both have gone for regular medical check up and you both are clean...

Then again as I have said some std takes some time to manifest... So even your most recent check up will not show certain std that you already have but not full blown yet....

This also means that it will take some time into the ltr before you can give her unprotected cunnilingus because it takes trust, understanding and time before both will go for check up and stuff...

By the way, if a man has std and the girl gives fellatio... she can get it too...