My Introduction: Tex

Name: I prefer not to mention. My profession makes me relatively public. However, I can tell you I am from Texas.. Though I don't mind to telling you my name if you privately message me.
Age: High 20's
Ethnicity Asian
Career: In the beginnings. Low paying. However, I do know what I want to do with my life, and but my career finally seems to be going on the right track.
Living situation: With parents
Experience: Very minimal. I have asked a few girls out. I think I the best I have done was gotten to a second date. I have read The Game I might have been to a club once. I am signed up for the Dallas bootcamp in December.
Expectations: Honestly, I am looking for a long term relationship, rather than a bunch of one night stands.
Additional comments: People tend to shocked that I haven't had a girlfriend. I am actually quite extroverted, and can start conversations with almost anyone. I tend to thrive in situations with lots of new people, because I am generally not afraid to introduce myself to people. I have been called very personable, and funny. My profession requires me to be an "alpha" individual (although I have only been good at this for maybe a year). As for why I have haven't had much success with women, lets just say I have grown up a lot since college. My biggest roadblock is my lack success. Once I can get over the hump, with all of your help, I should be good.

Hey Tex,

Welcome aboard! Thanks for taking the time to share some information about yourself. Glad to hear you have taken a step forward by taking one of our bootcamps.

Feel free to take a look around and ask question, it will be a great way to get the ball rolling for your December bootcamp.

Welcome to the brotherhood.

We're glad you're here. Check out the War Room to learn about the framework we use here. Ask questions, chill with us, and don't be afraid to speak up. Everyone here is pretty friendly for the most part. If you want to see other members' results and adventures in field, check out the Field and Lay reports. There's a ton of information on this forum, so feel free to soak it all in

Tex,

Welcome to the boards! I'm totally with you on the goal of wanting to find a girlfriend. When I first started out, I wanted to get a good base of experience with a wide variety of girls so that I could get a better sense of who I would actually want to settle down with, and taking the ABCs of Attraction bootcamp helped me do exactly that. Now, I've been with my girlfriend for about three years and it's really awesome.

But to give you a better understanding of why this is such a huge deal for me, I'd like to share with you a little bit about where I was before I took the bootcamp 4 years ago. I was single, lonely, depressed, socially inept, and definitely romantically inept. I was actually in the process of having my relatives back in Taiwan introduce me to some girls (who by the way, wouldn't be able to speak English and I don't speak Chinese) with the intention of having a quasi-arranged marriage. Yep, it was pretty sad.

So, being able to go from that, to where I am now, is an entire world of difference, and I am in a much better place than I was before I took the bootcamp. I really just needed to learn the right basics, the right fundamentals, and the right way to connect with people. Like you, I was somewhat extroverted when it came to addressing a group or addressing people in a "just friends" situation or a professional situation. But when it came to expressing my romantic interest in a girl, one on one, I was a total and utter failure. So, I learned those crucial life skills during the bootcamp 4 years ago, and life has been great since then.

So, I hope that you're able to add this to your perspective as you continue on with your own romantic journey, and I wish you all the best.

-William