INNER GAME IS EVERYTHING

I been analyzing game for a while and came to the conclusion that inner game is EVERYTHING...

Here's why:

When you walk up to a chick, you're going to be think something along this lines...
"What am I going to say?"

"She's too hot!"

"That's her boyfriend!"

Now imagine that you walk up to her thinking:

"Damn, bitch is fine"

"Umm, should I fuck her in the bathroom or her apartment?"

"She's going to fuck me tonight!"


Switching what you think of when you do an action, changes how you do an action. So if you went up to her while thinking "She's too hot for me" your brain will then procedd to do exactly that. Your brain will make you nervous, you will only have shit to say that lowers your value or seeks her approval, etc.
And if you went up to her thinking, "She's going to fuck me tonight" your brain will make you think of all kinds of conversation topics that leads to her fucking you tonight.

Now as easy as it sounds...it is as easy as it sounds. This doesn't take too much time or 1000 sets to learn. All you gotta do is start opening sets just thinking good thoughts. It will be hard as first since you are use to using certain thoughts in certain situations...but over time the new thoughts will replaced old ones...and thus experience and confidence will be built

PS Meditation will skyrocket inner game because meditation teaches you to control thoughts...
By meditation I mean: sitting in a room doing nothing and just trying to focus on the present, aka what's is around you.

I don't do strict meditation, I just meditate while I'm going to sleep. I just clear my thoughts and think of nothing but the room I am in.

I don't believe inner game is everything. Some people need to work on it more than others...

It takes 1000's of sets to learn because you need to put yourself in a thousand predicaments.
I can tell you that an NBA basketball player who specializes in taking 3 point shots will practice hundreds of times a day in multiple different positions and multiple different scenarios. It's important to have that kind of exposure.

Changing your actions also change your thought patterns, think of standing tall, speaking louder and dressing more nicely. These superficial things give people inner confidence.

Also there's more to game than just thinking confident. Pick up is a way of life and people need to treat it with that RESPECT.
It's not just a hobby and a thing to do, it's the way you live your life.

1. It's the girl's you talk to before you go to sleep at night.
2. It's the girls you get to become part of your entourage.
3. It's the nice girl friends you make that you get to share a friendship with for many many years.
4. It's the hot girls you get to fuck and never see again.
5. It's what you do when you're on the public transport system.
6. Cold approaching is what you do when you're bored during the day times.
7. It gives you a reason to go out at night on a Monday to Thursday.
8. It's the girls you go out with for lunch during the week days.
9. It provides all the hot girl's for your cool friends.
10. It get's you multiple fuck buddies at any given time.

And the list goes on, there's a lot more to pick up than just thinking and meditating confidence. I do practise meditating and thinking confidently.

But then again what would I know =] All of those things above I have made happen for me.

I would agree that 'inner game' is important in not just meeting women but in every aspect in life.

From waking up in the morning to decide if one should have a black coffee or the stupid latte for an extra three bucks to ending the day with a frozen burrito for dinner, one should have 'inner game'.

Incorporate 'inner game' into your life and, maybe, not only will you effortlessly meet women but hit a home run with the satisfaction in your life as well.

I say inner game is the foundation of outer game.

When we were beginners, we need to learn what to say because being routinely can at least open set for us instead of thinking to approach the whole time. BUT as we developed our skills and had more experience with girls, naturally our inner game improved. To a point that we can meet girls NATURALLY as we desire, we say what we wanna say do we wanna do, have genuine connections and that's what a true man does.

I totally agree with the attraction part, whatever your mind setup before you approach, you always attract it. You send out the energy of being fun, being sexual right from the beginning and you just purely enjoy the attraction between you and her.

Btw, I do meditation on a daily basis, it helps A LOT on living in the moment. Recommend reading: You Are Here by Thich Nhat Hanh, great daily teaching.

I do positive self talk for inner game, it works.

Inner game cannot be repaired over night, it takes time. In order for inner game to work you have to have success at the game.

In order to have success you have to practice and learn from your mistakes, nobody ever became a great PUA or a great dater by sitting

behind a computer reading posts.