If You Want to Improve Yourself, PUT YOUR BALLS ON THE LINE!

Hey guys, it's William (formerly known as Man Cannon), your resident asshole. I just felt like chiming in on a less frequently talked about subject, putting your balls on the line.

I know that there are a shitload of people reading these boards from day to day, but there are only a handful of people actually posting field reports. Within those field reports, only a handful of people are following the recommended outline for field reports (this is posted at the top of the "Choose Your Own Adventure" forum).

I was once afraid to post my field reports on this forum because I wanted to protect my ego. I was afraid to put my balls on the line. I thought "hey, my field reports suck. I didn't even get passed the 'B' phase!" I realized a couple of weeks later that the simple act of NOT writing field reports was actually stunting my learning process. It was making it more difficult for me to progress, because I wasn't going back into my mind to think about what I did well (so that I could keep on doing it), and what I didn't do well (so that I could stop doing it).

Based on the progress that I see in my students, I can easily see a trend of people who are regularly posting field reports doing well and getting better with women, accompanied by a trend of a second group of people who are NOT posting field reports and are consequently doing really poorly with women.

So, put your balls on the line, lay it all out there, and start posting your field reports!

Your Resident Asshole,

William
(formerly known as Man Cannon)

[Moved, stickied and title changed by APB]

what the hell?? posting field reports???
i haven't read a "man cannon" FR, since like july!!

how's that for "resident asshole"?? haha

you're the not the "resident asshole"

you're the "resident superhero"

psst..
let me know if you need me to delete this.

Rumble,

Haha, nice one! I understand what you're saying here, and I know you're kidding, but I'll give you some background anyway-- unfortunately, ABC of Attraction Coaches' identities are not anonymous, so it's not appropriate for me to post field reports. It would make it impossible for me to achieve my objective in life, which is to find a girl that I am compatible and in love with enough to marry.

However, all of you guys here who are NOT coaches are completely anonymous. If you're paranoid about it, you could still continue to not post field reports, but then you'd miss out on getting feedback, which is something that has really helped me back in the days when I used to post field reports. It's up to you.

-Man Cannon

I would have to agree with Rumble here.

Ive posted a million FRs over the course of the summer, but I barely get much feedback from guys that really help me improve. I've tried cutting down and paraphrasing to make it very concise, yet only ONE-two guy respond. Ive always appreciated feedback but oh well I'm not complaining.

Besides, I know my problems at the moment with my game, so I'll just stick to asking questions before I hit a patch which I dont kno the answers to.

I am not really getting what MC is emphasizing here.

I hope more guys start posting field reports, because I enjoy having the opportunity to learn from these as well as seeing the progress of alumni.

I also hope that guys get more active in critiquing the field reports when need be. I'm always looking for things that I could do better, things that may not be apparent to me.

yeahhh tellllllll me bout it...looool.



hmmm... I have a vague guess he's saying to post FRs in the correct format. Could be wrong though.

Also, people can see how you progress and how you bust through plateau's. I plateau a lot and have to review my skills, etc.

MC, I think you addressed the fear preventing us from putting our balls on the line - it's scary to put yourself out there, even on a private forum. And I hear what AZ and others are saying about feedback. Personally, I defer to more experienced guys in here but I think maybe I could chime in with a random thought even if just to ask a question and extend the discussion, if people think that would help. It'd certainly help me.

Hello gentlemen,

I just joined this forum after realizing that the ABCs of attraction website in fact had a forum. I haven't taken an ABCs of attraction bootcamp yet but I am fully with you all in this journey of self improvement.

I have to agree with this post's theme. I am actively involved with the Vybelist in NY/Philadelphia and a lot of guys like to talk theory and argue about which guru said what.

Picking up women, in my humble opinion, is 90 percent effort.

By the way, if anyone is in Philadelphia let me know.