I'm jumping into the deep end... (My new blog in LA)

Introduction
I am starting another blog... a new blog for a new start here in LA

Alright so I have been in "The Game" since Aug 2009. I recently just moved to LA from Michigan. I used to live at home and now I finally have my own place. Since LA is known to be the "Pick Up Capital" I have basically thrown myself into the deep of the deepest end of the pool. By the deep end I am not talking about a 12ft deep end of a pool. I am talking about the professional diving deep end of the pool which is like 50ft deep (the ones you see in the Olympics) . That's how deep I am jumping in.

I have only been in LA for about 2 weeks. I am not going to lie I feel a bit intimidated about this whole "big city" coming from the suburbs of Detroit and going to LA. Total 180! Of course I have just been here for 2 weeks but that is just how I feel. Even going to the clubs here in LA is like OH shit! haha I know I will be fine but its just a process of getting used to the city. I like it though, I am breaking out of my shell and stepping out of my comfort zone. I know it takes a lot of balls to just pack up and go. Although its just me, I get bored easily and I seek adventure. I like the feeling of change even though I dont. That is just me seeking for answers...

I did not just move to LA for pick up.

These are the reasons why I moved to LA:
1. Michigan is boring
2. I have no kids
3. I have a great job which pays well
4. I do not own a house
5. I seriously do not know how to do laundry (I did do some laundry during the college years but not to much)
6. Excitement
7. I want to look back in my life and say "Damn my life was great"
8. PUA
9. To learn how to be on my own
10. To learn how to manage my money better having responsibilities and bills (asides from cellphone/car payments)
11. To be independent
12. I'm young

... and the list goes on.

So now I am going to start my "Social Circle Challenge" and since I am an ABCs of Attraction Alumni - I am going to restart the "Post-Bootcamp Motivation & Missions". Also I will be typing up daily thoughts and field reports of my own. This is not all about pick up - think of this as more of daily journal of my everyday life.

http://ralphloren.blogspot.com/

Good luck, Ralph! Sounds like you've got a lot of exciting things coming up in your life. I'm looking forward to reading your adventures!

Thank You Jinjo!

Dum dum dum...

Alright so I decided to do the Social Circle challenge. So it was day 2 of orientation at work and I was just there sitting and chillin. Suddenly a semi cute girl comes up to me and was like, "I heard you are from Michigan, I am too. I just moved here". With a little time left on our break we had about literally 1 minute to talk. We got to know each other and exchanged names. Then that was that.

So after I was thinking, "Holy shit I should get to know her more and number close". NOPE instead I wanted to get the hell out of orientation since it was soooooooo longgggg!!! So I decided F that.

Today day 3 of orientation. I see her again! Score! So it was time to get to know her more again. So break time come along and she is just talking to the other girl in her department. She is cute too but yet she has a ring on. So I try to not look busy and look bored for her to acknowledge me. It doesn't happen. So break is over and she walks past me and goes back to her seat.

Alright I am thinking. OK time to number close or facebook close or something. So as it was time for lunch I see her walking out. I start to walk a little slower so I can "run into her" so I do and I see her and smile and ask, "how's it going so far". So I begin about asking her "Why LA?"

Same reasons as me, she feels like she wants some excitement in her life and was bored in Michigan (I swear Summer Finn from 500 days of summer). I was like awesome me too. We chit chat and get to know each other. I wanted to see if she would stop and chat. So I was like well I am going to get some starbucks. I was like, "Well I don't know if I'll see you again so why don't we exchange numbers". We exchange numbers and we part our ways.

So as we were getting to know each other. I found out that she does not have any family or friends here. So now she is definitely need to know some people. So now I am going to take this 2 ways.

Choose my own adventure:

1. Just keep it platonic and have her in my entourage when I want to go out to Hollywood clubs she can be a possible girl to call out.
2. Keep her part of my inventory and close!
3. Have her part of my inventory, close and have her as my entourage when going out.

I think I will choose 3! haha who knows! I am going to feel it out. As for most of us 3 is the option but who knows. Only thing I worry about is that she may want to be all exclusive and all. As for now I'll worry about that step later.

Tomorrow I am going to give her a call and ask her to have dinner and get to know each other. Alright. Stay tunes folks!

RL

http://ralphloren.blogspot.com/

Ralphie.. if you want to find a BUNCH of those midwest girls from out of town hit up Big Wangs or the Happy Ending. If you haven't discovered all ready.. while I was traveling for work I found out that was the reputation and that it was easy pickings.. and it for sure held true. You can run some we're all from out of town and let's be friends game. Just sayin..

Awesome! Ill keep that in mind!

So I texted the girl from Michigan who I number closed yesterday and I have a day 2 tonight! I will write full details later tonight!


STAY TUNED!


RL!

http://ralphloren.blogspot.com/

Day 2 with other Michigan girl
Alright well that night I went to go pick up Michigan girl and I took her to a Tappas restaurant in Santa Monica. It was a fun place. When we were in the car we basically got to know each other a lot. She was asking a lot of questions about me and I was asking her as well. At this point I am wondering if I should...

A. Keep her as a friend and have her as part of my entourage and nothing more. So when I go out to Hollywood she can be one of my girls to get in easier at the clubs haha.

B. Game her and close

C. Both

I didn't know what I wanted to do. So I wanted to feel it out. I am not sure if she is just being friendly to meet new people or what not. So I had to choose. So dinner was good. I was thinking of a way on how I should extract her back to my place after. So what I decided to do was before going out with her I took pictures of my apartment to show her my place. So I did just to get her familiar with my area. After dinner took her back to my place and then had her take a look. I didnt do much maybe becuase I was waiting for the signals? Who knows. Dropped her back off to her place and that was that.

Day 3 with the Michigan girl
Alright so I am finally catching up on my posts/field reports. Last weekend JT invited me out to a birthday party at a club in Hollywood. I decided why not? So I decided to text the girl who I went out with last night. She is up for going to the club. I take her to the club and there are many things that I did wrong...

1. The whole night I paid all attention to her and not game other girls in front of her.
2. I try to get some compliance and things are not there. Tried the kiss denied lol that shouldve been a sign that I should have gamed other girls.

Its all good because this was the first time I took a girl who I just met to a club. Most of the times I go with a bunch of friends but this time it was just her and I. Also with JT and his girl. During that time I thought it would be awsome of me taking a girl to a Hollywood club and showing her around.

What I learned was that when I was with JT, he helped me and gave me a few pointers and examples of what happend.

What I should have done:

JT told me that I should have gamed other girls than just paying attention to her. When we were at the club the girl I brought ended up flirting with JT since he was opening a bunch of girls and she saw this with JT.

What I learned from him was that whole term "Attraction is not a choice" this hold true because an example was given to me by JT was that: Think of a girl with really big boobs shes not that cute but you're still attracted to her because of her breasts regardless if her face is not all that cute. Therefore you cant help it but to be attracted to her.

"JT told me that I should have gamed other girls than just paying attention to her. When we were at the club the girl I brought ended up flirting with JT since he was opening a bunch of girls and she saw this with JT.

What I learned from him was that whole term "Attraction is not a choice" this hold true because an example was given to me by JT was that: Think of a girl with really big boobs shes not that cute but you're still attracted to her because of her breasts regardless if her face is not all that cute. Therefore you cant help it but to be attracted to her."

Ralph, is it still acceptable to game other girls if you are out with a girl you're in a somewhat committed relationship with? I found that a lot of times, I feel like a loser when I'm out with this girl I'm with. She gets hit on all the time by guys and although she always ignored them and get back to me, it still drained the energy out of me and dropped my state big time..

She knows that I see other girls, but I just feel that it's not appropriate to game girls in front of her.