I hate when girls....

I hate when girls lead you on, or act real flirty but turn out to be just being friendly. Have you guys experienced that or figured out how to deal with that when reality kicks in? Or maybe it's me failing to "turn the corner" on the attraction phase?

Ok, I have some insight I think.

I have been guilty of this but usually it happens when a guy is fun to be around but he is not giving off enough sexuality. If you're the guy who is always in the friend zone or if you're in set with a girl and things seem to be going well but then she bails she's either bored or thinks of you as a friend or nonsexual person. You need to think of yourself as a sexual person in order for anyone else to think that. Additionally you must emit sexuality to other girls. This can be done through touch and banter among other things of course. It's also a matter of being a respectful dominant male who is in control of the situation. Some girls are just naturally flirty, it's their nature and biological make up. It's also a survival technique if a girl isn't feeling comfortable. You need to be able to play with them a little bit and bring them from the "friend zone" to the bedroom.

A lot of this has to do with having strong inner game in which you are the major controller. I can say be a confident person one hundred times but it's not going to make you believe it until you feel it. Working on practicing what you preach and projecting the imge of he man you want to be will take time, but everyone is a work in progress.

Good luck!
<3 Sarah Ann